Red Flags 🚩

October 28, 2022

I already have an article about this, if I am not mistaken, it was last year.

First, let me expalin to you first if what does it mean when we say "red flags." Well red flags are danger signs or warning signs in a romantic relationship.

For those who are single or would like to enter in a relationship, you should first know about this red flags. This article is also good for those who are now in a relationship, for them to evaluate if they are encountering this or had encounter it.

So, how will we know if it is a red flag.

It is a RED FLAG when:

1. The relationship is rushed

If you are both aware that entering into a relationship is not yet the right time but you both insisted to have it.

For example, both of you are still studying or one of you is still studying but then there is an agreement with your parents that you should not enter in to a relationship while studying but you insisted to have it and decided to keep it a secret relationship.

It is love at the wrong time and if it is not the right time then it will never be right, no matter how much you love each other.

2. Being kept

Private relationship is very far from a secret relationship. Why will you need to hide your relationship from people? Having a boyfriend or girlfriend is not a sin, being in a relationship is something we can be proud of, why? because we know that there is always a person who loves us with who we are.

If someone you love asked you to keep your relationship secret but always tell you that he / she really loves you, do not believe it, do not fall over the sweet words that he / she tells you. Always remember that actions speak louder than voice.

Keeping a relationship secret for me is giving me an idea that the one who initiated to keep it a secret is not proud to have him / her and that hurts. Because when you love someone or being loved by someone, we should be proud of them. If you do not want that a lot of people will know about your relationship, then keep it private, not secret.

Keep it private in a way that only your families know about it and your friends and someone who are close to you is enough.

3. Your partner manipulates you

If your partner always dictates you what to do then does he / she really loves you for who you are? It is something like you are always doing a favor for him / her right? It is like, he / she just chose you because everything he / she says is you kept on following it too.

If he / she does not let you do things that you want which you think is not even a bad thinf to do then think twice, a person who loves you will always support you on good things that you want.

4.No future plans for the both of you

A guy when in love will always have you in his dreams about the future. He will always include you in every plans / decisions that he will make. He always used the word "we" or "us" instead of "I" or "me" when making decisions.

Red flags are signs to protect / prevent us from being hurt and we should be always aware about signs that we are receiving.

So proud to myself because I made an article for this morning. Hoping that I can make another one later before I sleep. ( Para sa parangarap)

Hope that you read this guys.