Tres Marias

April 27, 2022

Everyone talks about the eldest and middle child's sacrifices. But no one talks about how lonely and anguished the life of the youngest child is.

I actually did waste three full long hours with no breaks reading a manga series. But I can't recommend this to the younger so I will not elaborate it lol!!. After reading it I switch then to Tiktok and found this.

Well as the youngest of the family, I was never pressured on things and even decisions in life. I was supported and guided on the road I partake although with complaints but they didn't let me think of the situations as a hindrance to some future plans.

Tres Marias

This is what people mostly addresses us when we we're seen together. It rarely happens to see us in one place together for mostly other sibling better much to have some alone time and the other is traveling from places to places.

We are often differed base on our personalities and characters but we don't clash like other kids do that can make our parents having a hard time dealing with us. Or maybe because we we're raised by a strict father that we often agreed to most fun parts. I call us the small, medium and large, lol!

Eldest (My Ate) a.k.a The Traveler(Extrovert) -32y.o-

The Alpha in a woman body. Takes charge in baking pastries especially my fave custard cake with lots of caramel on top. Whenever she's in a good mode to bake, she would serve us pizza, baked mac, and puto which is her expertise.

Like most first child are, she is the representative of the family when there are gatherings with the relatives. She also performs well for she's a singer and a dancer. I always say this that my Ate got all the talent especially with her hands for she have a very clean penmanship, knows how to bake, crochet, dressmaker and many more.

She is likely the opposite of me since he loves outdoor activities especially traveling. Mum always worry about her every time she travels. The fun part is she will arrive at the place before she beeps us.

"Ma naa kog Palawan" (Ma, I'm in Palawan) or some places and Mum whose always worried sick at her first born would suddenly call her and then began to have her litany of earful scolding to which my sister obediently listens. This cycle often happens every time my sister will not go home over the weekends.

This was taken just this month after her salary, she went to Bohol alone(but she's with he lover actually, but didn't tell Mum lol!)....when she went home the middle sister told me that she didn't receive an earful for she brought a lot of the city's delicacies especially the Kalamay .

Middle(My Jhe) a.k.a The Selfie Lover -31y.o-

This hot momma here always love to be a pabebe when she's taking photos. The three of us knows each other's phone passwords so me and my Ate have a photo album with her name on it for whenever she grabs or borrow our phone she would eventually snaps 10-20 selfies before giving it back to us.
P.S: the whole family except her(Oppo user) are all Vivo user.
Nowadays her face was all I see on my timeline along with some cute little captions. She's also the most reliable in the kitchen for we all love the food she cooks and served.
She's also the playful type and the friendly one alongside my Ate. She loves family gatherings. She is a hot momma of three lovely ladies.
While me and my Ate is on the black side, she has a white complexion that he takes after Gramps.

Youngest(Inday) a.k.a The Introvert -30y.o-

Opposite of the oldest. Loves staying indoors esp. in her room.
The person who always taste what the oldest made or bake and what the middle cooks and served. Mostly the person who never had a normal selfie unlike the two. Loves reading manga, watching anime or kdrama , most especially loves sleeping when at home during weekends. EXO addict.

How our parents treats each one of us

I can say that Mum is more fond in making fun with the Middle for she's easily pissed. While the oldest are often teased for being not married up until now, Papz usually tease her for she can't snap at Papz(takot niya lang hahah).

Well, as far as I have observed they treated us fairly, what the other gets the remaining two can also have. Most people think the youngest we're favored for she's the only one who get to study in college. Neither did they know that she applied for a scholarship and granted 50% of the tuition while the two sisters didn't want to pursue college for they want to work already so that they can enjoy traveling and enjoying life.

Emotional Issues

Unlike the middle one, the other two don't like expressing one's self.

The three are mostly each one companions. Whenever one's having a good day, the other two would cheer her up. Borrowing money but not paying it is normal.

Favored/Pampered at

Mostly the youngest is the most favored by the two sisters. Whenever she asks something from them, if they had the capacity to do so they'll do it or give it to me. Youngest privilege since she don't usually go out so they hang out mostly at home during weekends as per the youngest request. Pampered mostly for they don't decline her issues. The youngest are easily spot on during her mood swings and the older knows the best remedy for it hahah.

Bonding time is when they are eating ramen which is the youngest favorite, the middle can't take spicy but she conquered it as the days goes that they're eating ramen lol!

Just last week, we had an awkward lunch and the blame is one me.
When we we're just about to eat our lunch at our little hut just above our home, my Uncle(OFW) who just came home from Saudi, came to us and talk with Papz for he's borrowing some tools. While Papz was finding the tools my Uncle grab my bellies and told me " Nagiging baboy ka na ah? Ayaw palabi Inday kay ang highblood" (You're becoming a pig ah? Don’t exert more Inday watch out with highblood). No one dared to laugh aside from me and my Uncle.

When he's gone I said this : " This is one of the reason why I don't want to go out even in the front yard. People always have a say on me and then comparing me to Ate or Biday about this and that. Bet I became a laughing stock during their talks lol"
But the sisters just prick my forehead and complains over me being nega hahaha.

Before I wrote this I asked permission from my sisters and they both said yes. The pleasure and privilege of being the youngest always got me laughing hehehe.

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Be blessed and be a blessing!
@mommykim