SUCCESS

Success is something that you have to do for yourself, and no one can do it for you. Success could mean a sense of giving back to the world and making a difference. It can be an accomplishment and career progression.It could mean being able to do the things you love. Success for me is when you feel fulfilled, happy, healthy and safe, and when you feel loved. When you reach your goals in life, whatever goals it is.

What is success means to me?

• WHEN YOU FINISHED YOU STUDY- Being a student is not easy and we all know that. As a student we are doing our best to study, doing some homeworks and activities. We all experienced to sleep late to finish our school thesis. And we did all that so we can graduate and have a degree.Being in the stage receiving your certificate as a graduate is heartfelt moment, that at last after a years of hardwork, you are graduated. And that is a big success for me.

• WHEN YOU MOVE FORWARD FROM A PAST RELATIONSHIP-Forgeting your past specially if you really love that person is hard. Sometimes it takes a long time before you healed your broken heart and move on. But our heart is hard headed and we are fooling ourselves. But time will come you will forget him and you can laugh to the craziness you did before. And if that happens, congrats girl, you are successful to moved on.

• WHEN YOU BUY SOMETHING FROM YOUR EARNED MONEY- Sometimes there is a thing that we really wanted to buy, but because we dont have enough money we cant buy it for the meantime. But because we really want it, we are working very hard and strive ourselves to save money. When the time comes that you have enough money, you are excited and happy to buy that. After you got it, that is a success, buying it from you hard earned money.

• WHEN YOU FINISHED YOUR ARTICLE- After I published my one article is a success for me. After a long battle in my brain about the grammar is a success. I admit i'm not very good in grammar and i'm not fluent in english. Sometimes it gives a headache to me thinking if my grammar is correct or wrong....hahaha... Yes I am not shy to admit that because it is true. So after an hours of a battle in my brain and published my article is a success.

I measure my personal success based on the people who had my back at my most weakest point. I put in mind this question to guide me through transistion and transformation of my life.

FAILURE

Failure is defined as an absences or a lack of success. If you didnt succeed in your set goals. If you didnt meet the standard requirements in prospective in your life. You may feel shame, regret, humiliation, and guilt when you experience failure. These are difficult emotions to cope with because they tend to make us feel bad about ourselves. No one likes to feel like that.

What is failure means to me?

• .LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE- It is my failure that I always have. I really dont know why I dont have enough confidence eventhough they are saying that I am good at that and whatever. Eventhough many people specially my family and friends are boosting my confidence, Im not trusting my own self....that is my problem right now.

• DIDN'T GET THE COURSE YOU WANTED- I want to take up nursing course before because I really want that but I ended up in Bachelor of Science in Information and Technology (BSIT). I really want to be a nurse and I always imagine myself wearing a nursing white dress and cap but I didnt got that. The reason is nursing course is a quite expensive and my parents cant afford that. I failed on that but I embrace my degree now. We didnt get all that we wanted but its up to you how to cope on that.

• WHEN YOU FAILED IN THE JOB INTERVIEW-Being failed in a job interview is hard to accept, we lose our self confidence and we dont want to try again because we always think that we fails again. In this case our self confidence get lost. It is hard but we need to try. Try and try until we succeed and we need to put that in our mind.

• WHEN YOU GOT SCAMMED- Last week I got scam by one of the famous website that need an investment. I deposited $35 to be able to do that their betting lottery game. At first I got profit so I continue doing that. I reached at $58 but sadly site got crashed and all coaches and accountant got lost. All groups in Telegram and Facebook gone. That incident was trending in all social media and unluckily I am one of the victim. For me its not a big amount but still feel sad because that money is my hard earned one. Sadly to all who got scammed. And that is my failure, I got hooked and trust them easily. But next time do your own research. Having a big profit like that in one snap is impossible. But yeah lesson learned from that.

There's a lot of failure in life but sometimes we don't want to talk about it anymore. But that is my own example of failure and I experienced that. When my mind is closed to a new ideas and changes, Im not achieving any definition of success. When my heart is hard and holding an anger and hate, I will be fail for sure.

Do not fear failure but rather fear not trying. It never feels good to fail, but you will never achieve success if you never risk failing. Failure can give you a chance to learn from your mistakes and figure out what you did wrong for the first.

"FAILURE IS A STAIRS TO SUCCESS"

Thank you as always for reading this article of mine. I hope you like it. Until next time. You can read my previous article if you like.

MY LONG LOST BROTHER-https://read.cash/@mhy09/my-long-lost-brother-3d2d61a6 MIND OVER YOUR HEART OR HEART OVER YOUR MIND- https://read.cash/@mhy09/mind-over-your-heart-or-heart-over-your-mind-d5dd68b8 THE PLACE WHERE I BELONG-https://read.cash/@mhy09/the-place-where-i-belong-3a20285f

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