Heaven and Hell
We hold on to those who cannot love us for so many reasons.
Sometimes we tend to hold on because we convince ourselves that the circumstance will change... that if we love harder (prove how much we love them), if we give more, and if we stay the situation will evolve. The value of our love will be recognised... it will be chosen.
Sometimes, we hold on because we feel like we have to. We feel like we have to be the ones to fix, the ones to mend the ones to prove that being human don't just give up on someone whom they see something beautiful within.
Sometimes we hold on because of the guilt... for walking away and choosing ourselves.
Sometimes we hold on because we are so afraid of losing someone... afraid that we can not find better, no one will love us as much as the person did... we rather stay and be with someone who makes us feel lonely than being alone and start all over again.
There are other more reasons why most of us chose to hold on than letting go.
Letting go is one of the hardest thing to do... we are so afraid to be the reason of someone's pain. But is it really worth keeping someone in your life who doesn't see your worth, who only makes you feel you are too much or you are not enough... eventually you will end up loosing yourself? As my father once told me "Never compromise your worth and lose your self just to save the day because it is the most injustice thing you will do to yourself. If you feel like your self-worth is being compromise then leave and let go. Most of the time holding on will cause more damage that letting go"
Don't be afraid of losing someone... be afraid of losing yourself for holding on to someone who doesn't see your worth.
Happiness is a choice, not a result, nothing will make us happy until we choose to be happy...
No person will make us happy unless we decide to be happy.
#toogoodatgoodbyes
#strongerthanbefore
#willneverregret
#choosehappiness
It feels good to be back here in read cash. I missed a lot of things so its a long way for me to catch up. @jane will read and comment on your articles as your no. 1 is back. ππ
Hello everyone. Its been quite a while that I took a break from read cash. But now I'm back. I should admit that I feel like a newbie again. But anyway Could anyone help me with a slight problem regarding my wallet. I entered the correct seed phrase but it says that the wallet has zero. Now my previous earnings were on a different wallet but asking for a different seed phrase in which i only have one.
Life means missing
expected things and facing unexpected things...
Never give up.
Hello read.cash friends. How's everything here now? I'm sure I missed a lot. I'll be back very soon. Just miss my friends here my favourite authors.
@jane @gracee miss you guys.
Hello read.cash friends. Whats the latest here in read.cash? Been away for quite sometime and I know I missed a lot of things here. I never or would never leave this platform because point system vanished. I just need some soul searching. π Will be back soon... read and give feedbacks to those articles that I've been tagged. With or without points I will be one of read.cash partisan.
This new tipping system might be really tough for everyone especially those people been expecting something for an extra income... dont be discourage just keep writing and take this new system as a challenge to show other people what you're made of
@jane @gracee @esciisc @ wakeupkitty @Macronals I admit I miss reading your articles. Just feel free to tag or mention me so when I got back will be reading all your articles.
Would also want to express my gratitude @scottcbussiness for the sponsorship. Apologies sir if it took awhile for me to thank you... I didn't know what I've done to receive sponsorship from you π but it really means a lot to me. Hope its not just a mistake... πππ I will not disappoint you sir for giving me the sponsorship. I'll be back after my soul searching. π Thank you again sir.
Last π... to some of my sponsor who stay on my sponsorship block. Thank you.
Everyday is a new beginning, treat it that way...
Stay away from what might have been and look at what can be.
It's far better to live our own path imperfectly than to live someone elseβs perfectly.
Gentle words, kind look, good natured smile can work wonders and accomplish miracles...
Letβs be good humans.
When Plan βAβ doesnβt work, donβt worry, we still have 25 more letters to go through...
If we think weβre too small to make a difference, think about the efforts of an ant.
By going beyond our own problems and taking care of others, we gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage and a greater sense of calm.
The biggest reason to choose happiness is that there is no reason to choose bitterness...
Life becomes easier when we learn to accept the apology we never got.
Make each day our masterpiece, begin anywhere...
Letβs go that extra mile, itβs never crowded there.
Hello everyone.
@jane just ask me to update everybody espcially participants of Art Contest that tomorrow is the last day of voting. Her account has been muted for 24 hours. π Somebody (intentionally) moved her comments to spam. πShe said she will immediately post updates as soon as she gets back to RC.
In behalf of sis @jane. I just want to inform you guys that her account has been muted for 24 hrs coz somebody intentionally moved her comments to spam. she suspected that those spammers she exposed did it. π This is so sad... A very childish move. Anyway. @jane just want to remind you guys especially participants of her Art Contest that tomorrow is the last day of voting and she will make an update as soon as she gets back to RC.
Real happiness comes into our life when we accept ourselves as we are...
Sometimes we have to let it go, not for ego but for self-respect.
Yesterday we were clever, so we wanted to change the world...
Today we are wise, so we are changing ourselves.
Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen...
Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.
Education is not the learning of facts, but the training of mind to think...
Accepting our failure without losing the faith is true persistence.
Hello RC friends
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When we choose our response based on our values, we are proactive...
When we choose our response based on emotions, we are reactive.
Hello RC people
I would like encourage you all espcially newbies to participate on this poetry writing contest hosted by @Ebuzzydagr8.
This is a great opportunity for everyone to unleashed your hidden talent in writing poems. Also a great way to enhance your writing skills. So what are you waiting for grab your pen and start writing your entry.
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Alpha my Tabby Cat
First of all I want to introduce to you all, Alpha a 2 month old kitten. π If you're going to ask me what breed is this kitten I would honestly tell you I don't know ... I'm not really familiar with different breeds of cats. I only knew 2 or 3 breeds persian cat, siamese and ragdoll, not to mention the pusakal cats π (these were feral cats in the Philippines).
Anyway because many were asking what breed is Alpha, I asked my friend (who gave me this adorable kitten) what breed Alpha belongs to? She told me Alpha is a TABBY CAT. π€ I never heard of that breed and the way this kitten looks like, its seems that Alpha is just an ordinary mixed breed cat which made him a pusakal as we call it in the Philippines. To cut the long story short I am not convince with my friend's reasponse so I asked my veterinarian cousin what is a Tabby cat? I even send her the photo of Alpha because I really want to make sure that he is a Tabby cat (though I really dont know what tabby cat is π) Unfortunately my cousin just told me that it is a house cat domestic cat breed. Now I'm more confused coz in my understanding all house cats wether its pure breed or mixed breed are domestic cats. I didn't get the information that I needed so I did my own research. So this is what I found.
First What is a Tabby?
Tabby is not a breed of cat, it is a coat pattern. Due to a resemblance to a distant cousin of Felis domesticus (which simply means domestic cat/house cat. ) they're often known as "tiger cats", though they tend to be of much more gentle temperament.
Because of the dominant genes and natural selection, tabby has become the common color pattern in cats. It says that tabby has been domesticated for almost 10,000 years.
The name tabby derived from the patterned silk known as " atabi' named for its origin of manufacture in the Attabiah region of Baghdad. The stripeed cat's fur looked much like this patterned silk.
The most distinguishing characteristic of a tabby is bold striping on the fur accompanied by an M shape on the forehead.
Tabby Cat Personality and Behavior
Tabbies are very friendly and intelligent, they could easily get along with many people and animals. However, they have a tendency to play favorites. Their intelligence makes them realize some people and animals are more companionable than others.
Tabby cats are also ideal theraphy animals that will cuddle affectionately with the patient. They are also considered the most friendly, happy-go-lucky cats, sassy, very affectionate and wonderful comapanions. Because of this traits tabby cats make excellent pets for young owners. They are renowned as an especially great 'first cat' pet for kids.
Though my research doesn't really explain much what specific breed is Alpha it helps me a lot to know what is tabby cat. Now I understand why I fell in love with this kitten and why Alpha is so adorable.
My conclusion: Alpha is my Tabby Cat πππ
Whatever is worrying us right now, forget about it, letβs stay positive and know that things will get better...
Remember itβs just a bad day, not a bad life.
Again let's all stay positive in our outlook in life but stay negative from covid19 π
Crying is the language of the heart
It is how our heart speaks when our lips can not explain the pain that we feel.
We cry not because we're weak... It is because we've been strong for too long.
Hi guys. I just want to ask, if there is any effect if you unsubscribe someone? I mean is there any penalty on my part or a deduction of points on both parties. I'm still learning things here in read cash. I just want to know more about rules . Would really appreciate your response.
Don't ask God for a lighter burden, ask for a stronger shoulder...
Silence is the language of God, everything else is poor translation.
Have a blessed Sunday Everyone
Never expect others to give us value we deserve...
We need to create value of our own.
When we experience negative circumstances, donβt dwell on it, be pro-active...
Focus on what we need to do to bring the situation to a positive result.
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