Article #51 April 20, 2022

There are some things you should never apologize for, even if you feel obligated to do so. Have you ever felt the need to apologize for what you're doing? I've always thought that when I do anything unintentionally, I'm saying "sorry" then everything will be okay. It's okay to apologize when you feel the need to, but don't apologize for everything, especially if you're not in the wrong.

Things you should never apologize for are mentioned below. So let's get started.

Things you should never apologize for:

• Have Bad days

It is alright to be unhappy and have a bad day from time to time, and you should never apologize for it. People go through a phase where they are having rough days and can't disguise it, so they make an inadvertent mistake or say something hurtful out of nowhere. It is true, and I hope things get better soon.

• Needing some time alone

This is something I always do and I don't need to apologize for it. There are so many things we can develop and enhance about ourselves if we give ourselves time alone and without regard for what others think of us.

• Ditch toxic people

Blocking, unfriending, and cutting toxic people on social media and in your personal life is okay, and you do not need to apologize. I used to have a lot of Facebook friends, and even though I think they're toxic, I still keep in touch with them. Recently, I've realized that it's alright to consider leaving them, especially if you know they're abusing your mental health and giving you problems.

• Telling people 'no'

Saying or telling no is not a selfish thing to do when you know you will not be comfortable doing it. For example, they may invite you to accompany them to a rally that you do not like to attend, and you decline. You should never apologize since it is your decision and they should not question it.

• Your priorities

Who will call your priorities into question and make you feel terrible about it? You should never apologize for the direction your life will take. We each have our own life and thoughts to pick what we believe is best for ourselves. If they don't think your priority is as important as theirs, that doesn't mean they can invalidate your decisions. We have varied priorities in life, and no one will hold us accountable for it but us.

• Your opinions and beliefs

In a variety of ways, our beliefs and opinions differ. We have diverse religions, and we learned at school that we should not mock someone's religion, but rather respect it. We came from a different culture and environment, so don't expect them to be the same as you. Opinions, like our thoughts, are distinctive because we think differently than others. We should not feel apologetic for how we interpret our thoughts and opinions; they are all genuine.

• Telling the truth

I believe in the adage that "truth hurts." It is also OK not to speak when you just disclose the truth that may harm them, but when they ask you and you lie, it is a separate problem that we should not normalize. Telling the truth is okay as long as they understand it will help them improve themselves in some manner. For example, if a friend asks you if the clothing she is wearing is suitable for her, you should be honest enough to tell her that it is not. It's a little harsh, but that's fine, and you should never apologize for it. It will also be good with me if my friends behave like that to me; I would appreciate it more if they tell me the truth rather than falsehoods.

• Your imperfections

I'm wondering why we apologize for things we don't want to alter or that are difficult to change. Every person has their own imprefections in several aspects such as their appearance, mental health, emotional well-being, and so on. We should never apologize for it since God created everyone of us uniquely. There are things I have and am excellent at that other people do not, and other people are good at things I am not. Also, we should not allow everyone making fun of someone else's flaws. We don't know how that individual is dealing with his or her life, so be considerate at all times.

• Do not apologize for Someone Else

This is correct; we should never apologize for something we did not do but which others did. Why are you going to apologize for something that was not your fault? Some would say things like, "I'm sorry for what he does to you," which I believe is inappropriate. Everyone has a mind of their own, and they should be accountable for their actions. It is not your obligation to apologize for what they did. I know you're kind and that person means a lot to you, but it's not your job to do that. Stop it and make them pay the consequences.

Closing Thoughts

That's all. I hope you learned something from my article. Whatever you do is acceptable as long as you are not hurting others and are simply being yourself. People may not understand you, but what matters is that you are living your choice and making a life out of it. You and I are free to do anything we choose without regard for the opinions of others. Simply enjoy life and make the best of it.

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