Things I'm Thankful Here in France

Now that I am 2 years in France, I just want to write the many things I am thankful that I am here. My reflections of being here in France. Without further ado, here’s the list.

First, I am thankful to my husband, Fred. For literally saving me after my mother’s death. For keeping his promise to my mother to take care of me. I know it sounds cheesy but it is really the truth. For not giving up on me when I am stubborn. For loving me unconditionally. For giving me a family with our beautiful two kids. For being my chef/cook/butler/driver all in one. For being a hands-on father from giving baths to Alexandre to changing diapers to preparing and giving food to bringing the kids’ appointments for vaccination. For the breakfast in bed. For granting my simple requests. He is not perfect because we argue about petty things. But one thing is for sure, he is a RESPONSIBLE FAMILY MAN. Oh my gosh! I am starting to cry while writing this.

I am so lucky to have him because he knew from the very beginning that I don’t cook and I don’t do house chores. Before he met me, it is already his way of life in cooking and cleaning the house. He knows how to repair things as he has some tools to fix things.

He is a very sweet and romantic person. It’s the reason why I fall for him. And a big bonus that he is handsome. Hahaha! Seriously, I never thought he would pursue me because I am so insecure with my looks. Sure thing, I am confident with my previous body because I did a lot of exercises but don't have a pretty face. I feel so ugly. LOL. Now that I can’t have my sexy body back, he still loves me more.

Second, my 2 beautiful kids, Alexandre and Elise. The source of our laughter and happiness. I am very thankful for having healthy kids. We are so happy to see you growing up and smiling at each other. I really pray that you will have a loving sibling relationship. To protect each other. To love your parents and elders.

Third, my in-laws, the parents-in-law, and the sister-in-law. Mami and Papi knew I can’t speak French but they welcomed me in their open arms. They also knew I don’t even cook and they accepted me for who I am. Both of them are good cooks. They always prepare food for me and I enjoy every bite. My sister-in-law and her husband are very generous to my kids. We just met this year. She’s very happy that her brother has a family of his own.

Fourth, for giving me a chance to have a family of my own. When my father was gone, I was like okay, I still have my mother, we need to move on. When my mother was gone, I feel like everything was meaningless. It’s true that I prefer to isolate myself where nobody knows me. But everything has changed when we are building a family of our own.

Well, that's it for now. I know I have so many things to be thankful for here. But let me thank first the people, not the material things.