Learning to live...

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2 years ago

Greetings fellow readers, today I will talk to you about different topics about which I have been hearing these days in some audios from my phone in the networks.

Yesterday I heard the case of a woman who was kidnapped in a man's house from the age of 16 until adulthood.

The youth is rebellious and does not accept much advice from parents because their very youth makes them think that they are masters of the world and that they direct all situations.

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One fine day the girl took some clothes and decided to travel but she did it alone and hitchhiking. A couple in a car stopped and she got into the car, after a few hours of conversation the driver told her that he would detour for a moment to get something and then they would get back on the road.

Of course this did not happen, when the man came to a dirt road he stopped, turned off the engine and the lady with the child got out of the car and started to run. The girl missed the gesture and immediately realized that the driver already had a knife on her and asking her to place her wrists in front and handcuffed her.

It was from there that she began a torment of a life that took her for more than 20 years. Harassment, continuous rapes, overcrowding and torture.

And she was lucky, other women had already gone through the same thing but he killed them.

The woman with the child was his partner, also a product of a kidnapping and this girl suffered from Stockholm syndrome, eventually so did this other girl who spent more than 20 years captive in a wooden box that the kidnapper placed under her bed so that she would not escape, until she was totally subdued.

Advice from parents or adults and family members can never be too much, as long as it is not detrimental to a person. Young people think their parents hate them when they place so many restrictions on them, what they don't know is that it is the only way they find to keep them out of danger.

Kidnappings of young people are happening more and more because of the arbitrary way young people take life with their parents.

A few days ago I heard of another young girl who, ignoring her parents' advice, decided to go on an adventure to another country with the man who was her boyfriend.

He convinced her that she would have a job there as a model because this girl is beautiful and she accepted his proposal and ignored her parents, who advised her not to leave just like that, without having the minimum conditions to make a trip in an adequate and convenient way for her age, situation and life.

Of course, the girl thought that her parents were cutting off her best life proposal and were only thinking about their own comfort. So she accepted the proposal and went to another country with her boyfriend, touring places in public transportation and hitchhiking.

They arrived at a place where she was supposed to be seen and put to work as a model. Days, weeks and some months passed until the love affair ended. Of course, the modeling appointment never came, for one reason or another it was always suspended, until the terrible day when the young man did not show up anymore and she was left alone. In the street, without money and without knowing anyone.

She was ashamed, but she had to be on the streets begging for money to get her ticket back to her country and to her parents.

It only took this traumatic experience of being away from home where she had to pay all her expenses, make all the bad behavior and bad answers to her parents, who always forgave her, for her to realize how privileged she was to have those parents.

She never called them because of the shame of what had happened to her. She assumed her responsibility and decided to get the money and return home to ask for forgiveness and accept whatever her parents imposed on her.

There are evil parents that we know, irresponsible adults who treat and mistreat their children very badly, but there are many other parents who try to teach their children and in the form of deprivation they want to teach them and the young people do not accept it.

This young woman was lucky to some extent because she came home. The girls with Stockholm syndrome also came home, traumatized but alive for a second chance.

But the girls who couldn't make it? And the many other cases that happen and are girls who go on to be prostituted and drugged for the nefarious purposes of mafias.

Young people, don't let yourselves be lured by dreams of grandeur. Study your personal situation, try to make efforts to get out of a life of low economic conditions, there is nothing more pleasing in life than the fruit of our efforts and accompanied by the love of our parents, family and friends.

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This reminded me of a video that went viral about a girl narrating a spoken poem. In that poem, she mentioned the struggles of teens and the deprivation they get from parents. She said that they should be given more freedom, to explore the world, to go partying or travel. They should be able to learn more the world out there so they can grow. Of course a lot of teens were able to relate to the video but many are also alarmed especially parents for that could lead to bad consequences as such as the experiences you have related. There's the blame, the guilt, the shame.

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2 years ago

I think the detail is in the conversation. Explaining and not forcibly imposing the reasons for deprivation.

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2 years ago

I hear these kind of cases everyday on real life crime documentaries on youTube.. Not going to lie, 90% of these cases could have been avoided if only these kids were a little vigilant and listened to their parents... going to random parties, wanting to sneak out of their houses, wanting to meet strangers etc., are few examples why this is happening to girls especially in teenage.. I also understand they want some fun in life but not the expense of your life isn't it? maybe do al that after informing parents or after getting their proper guidance

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2 years ago

It's because of disobedience that these things happen to them, but it is also the authoritarian way in which parents force them to obey. We should talk more with our children and explain to the point of exhaustion why we put restrictions at home.

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2 years ago

This article just inspired me to complete an article that got stucked as a result of lack of ideas. Thanks. Can I tag you when I post it?

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2 years ago

Inspirations always come out of the posts we read. You are free to be inspired and make your own posts. And also mention in it whoever you prefer. It's nice to know that we inspire others. Thank you.

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2 years ago

As they say parents always knows what's best. Though there are some who became successful though they chose not to follow their parents;majority failed.

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2 years ago

Listening to the advice of people who love you will always have a good ending.

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2 years ago

Unfortunately, this is a terrible and frequent situation, danger is all around us and young people and children are often victims, both because of their disobedience to their parents, and because of the bad, sick, and perverted society in which we live. I remember one movie that left a strong impression on me. It's called "Trade." After that movie, I was too scared and careful but one never knows ...

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2 years ago

When I watch these movies about stories of abused people I just communicate with my son and immediately advise him. At least he hears me.

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2 years ago

Young people do not believe and do not want to listen to the advice that their parents say, they think that they live in another era, so they ignore them and dedicate themselves or listen more to the couple, not knowing that if it is a bad relationship, it will go astray.

As you get older and have children or nephews (my case), you realize why parents are the way they are, of course there are parents who are bad, but I will only talk about the good ones.

At the moment I don't have children, my brother doesn't have children either, so I don't have nephews, the "nephews" I have are really Luis'. I have lived a lot with my niece Isabella and I have seen that there are times when she does not pay attention and even though you tell her things for her own good, maybe she does not understand. The most common thing is to tell her not to play near the gate, because it is dangerous and it is. The gate of my in-laws' house is only locked at night or when they go out, so anyone from outside could open it and pass through, but we don't only see it from that point of view. Where she lives there are a lot of bad parents and their children are also bad, any child Isabella's age will throw stones at us or steal, so if she plays near the gate one of these children can hurt her, but how do you explain that to a child, children do not grow up full of evil, they learn that from the street or from their own parents, Isabella does not know this, but she does not understand why she cannot play near the gate if it is in her house. When she grows up she will understand why she can't play there, the only thing we can do is to be very attentive when she wants to play. I don't think it's right to always scold her for playing near the gate with the pets, even if they lock the gate, they can pass the stones through the bars.

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2 years ago

It's good to talk to her a lot as she grows up.

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2 years ago

Of course, this way he will gradually understand the good things in life, but also the dangers that can occur.

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2 years ago

I wonder the pain the girl must be facing

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2 years ago

She must have suffered too much but she is now free and who knows how she is doing.

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2 years ago

This is making me sad.

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2 years ago

It was not my intention, my friend.

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2 years ago

las cosas que veo en el programa mentes criminales, también suceden en la realidad y aveces esta realidad supera la ficción, sigue escribiendo con el corazón buenas noches.

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2 years ago

Thank you my friend.

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2 years ago

Unfortunately, the rebellion of many young people is extreme, they do not see the dangers they can face.

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2 years ago

That is true, my friend.

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2 years ago

I know this is happening and people still fall victim everytime no where is safe anymore you are only safe when you trust yourself and none else It so sad to this is still going on in this century

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2 years ago

This is the same article I wrote days ago about good parents but their children are bad, not heeding to their parent´s advice but want to do their own will and take drastic decisions that could ruin them. I feel for some girl children who have gone astray like that and never returned home while those who are back, are lucky to have wonderful parents, who would embrace and forgive them again.

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2 years ago

Our posts have been very similar these past few days because I have been writing about these aspects.

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2 years ago

This sounds like human trafficking to me. The whole youth of a person's life, just wasted. It's indeed sad.

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2 years ago

These two cases are women who were fortunate not to fall into the hands of trafficking networks.

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2 years ago

This post also reminds me of a childhood friend of mine who left and returned with a baby while in search of greener pastures. Guys too fall victim of this also, going with their friends to another place and ignoring their parents warning because they thought they were being caged. I hope others learn from this and detest from such attitude that'll lead them to their doom.

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2 years ago

Hello, I missed you already. Welcome to my post. Bad attitude is a bad advisor.

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2 years ago

I missed you too dear, you have to fill me in on what kept you away.. I'm glad your back. Yes, I agree with your words.

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2 years ago

I am not writing but every other day yes. I run out of inspirational topics and I don't go to all the posts very often. Only to those who write to me. Be well.

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2 years ago

Oh I see, thanks for filling me in on your absence, it good to have you here. Have a great night ahead. 😊

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2 years ago

Thank you, Same for you.

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2 years ago

The strong message of this story is that parental advice is the way to heaven. The analogy is, therefore, in belief, it is always taught to respect parents, so parents are advice for their children. never ignore the advice of parents because it is your life and your future.

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2 years ago

Parents are the ones most interested in ensuring that nothing bad ever happens to their children.

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2 years ago

that is the love parents have for their children and therefore they should be respected.

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2 years ago

Wow. Things are really happening. What kind of human would kidnap another and strip them of their freedom just to satisfy carnal urges. Women are often the victim when it comes to the kind of cases. Usually, parents are more strict with female children than they are with male children. May God help and protect us all

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2 years ago

They are psychopaths with base instincts and seek to please themselves with the mental and physical domination of captives.

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2 years ago

That's quite sad though. Really. Wonder if they were born that way or grew up to be that way and what might have triggered it

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2 years ago

Sometimes these psychopathies develop from abusive parents, but there have also been cases of children from good families who already have an evil in their brains and from a very young age are evil. Who knows? an inverted gene, a chemical abnormality in their organs, a malformation in their brain, who knows is the one who studies these bodies and from what they do it.

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2 years ago

I see. Well, I hope they find help and resist the urge to act on their impulse.

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2 years ago

Psychopaths do not seek help because they do not want to. They are not well themselves and believe it is others.

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2 years ago

Hmmm. I guess the prayer is for none of our love ones to fall their victims

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2 years ago

Some people rather follow their friends than obey their parents, and some will regret it later in the future.

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2 years ago

What you have said happens frequently. It is very unfortunate.

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2 years ago

You are totally right mam there is not more pleasing than the fruit of effort

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2 years ago

That's right.

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2 years ago

Youth is the most delicate and critical stage of human life. Without proper advice and care, one would really go astray. I have never had a perfect relationship with my parents. We argue in different matters in life but it never crossed my mind to escape and leave home.

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2 years ago

It's rebellious but at the same time you are sensible. You will not find another place where they will accept all your whims.

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2 years ago

I've seen also this one in movie but I forgot the title. Some children's are really stubborn and they think it's our own good but it's for them. I feel pity to the girls been bring into prostitutions and people makes money because of them.

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2 years ago

This happens because there are large organized mafias kidnapping girls with promises of good jobs with high salaries. In the end they drug them and then prostitute them.

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2 years ago

True! Fooling the girls that make them harm at the end. They just realized when they are in a worst position.

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2 years ago

agree this article my friend, Hopefully parents today will be critical to be their child’s role model

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2 years ago

Everything changes over the years but parental love always remains.

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2 years ago

I agree this article my friend, that many parents actually abuse their real children. Instead of teaching them right they are still the promoter of error.

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2 years ago

We have heard alot of cases where some girls at their prime would just vanish ma'am. What is worse is that they would lie to their parents about where they were going to. And maybe if something had happened and they don't return when expected, parents wouldn't know where to look for them.. I must say I this, the crave for material things and an extravagant lifestyle among young ladies is really alarming. Lots of girls have gotten themselves into serious troubles that they might never recover from as a result of this... I really feel sorry for innocent and unsuspecting girls who fall victim to some mischievous men.

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2 years ago

It's the result of our stubbornness. There are some young people who pass the test and get a second chance but there are others who lose their lives as a consequence of their bad actions.

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2 years ago

Worse is that most young people still easily fall for such traps despite all these numerous happenings and eye- openers. I guess some might never learn

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2 years ago

Young people are often rebellious and think they are too smart for it to happen to them until it happens to them.

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2 years ago

It's really a dangerous one ma'am gertu. Here in our country there are a lot of cases like that also. It's really scary. There are a lot of people who are the bad ones that's why we should always be careful. I agree maam gertu. Parents are strict because they do that things for the safe of their child especially with the girls that's why children must listened to their parents and don't be a hardheaded.

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2 years ago

Yes, my dear Ramona, and unfortunately this happens all over the world. We have to accept the advice of our loved ones.

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2 years ago

Yes ma'am gertu indeed. We should follow them because they only thinking for our own safety. They don't want us to be in danger.

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2 years ago

Yes, that's what happens.

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2 years ago

A mother and daughter are also friends and like to share everything with each other

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2 years ago

Is true.

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2 years ago

Few months ago, I have seen children put their parents behind the jail because they used them to sell drugs. How evil they are!

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2 years ago

Parental abuse.

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