Join 79,236 users and earn money for participation

Thanks, sorry, please

16 27 exc boost
Avatar for evomeopetrobi
Written by   33
1 year ago

Thanks, sorry, please

These words are used less and less, the corresponding terms are less and less expressed. It is noticeable that this phenomenon is not characteristic only for one part, for one layer of one nation, but universally for a large population. So people meet people who are not sympathetic to themselves, or at least people who do not hesitate to show rudeness. Politeness, a way of life acquired from an early age, is developed and designed by years of life and personal efforts to improve (Dale Carnegie sought to make people happy by himself and others - his book "How to make friends with yourself" in the Francophone area is gained great popularity - it was published by the house Ashet).

By unpolished behavior, a subconscious negativism towards her is created around the person who behaves in this way. How does such a person start a conversation? She immediately begins to declare herself, her desires, plans, experiences, her self. Discernment requires something quite the opposite - a conversation should be started or included in the conversation by taking an interest in your interlocutor - honestly, from the heart with an effort to be kind to that person.

It is becoming more and more common to be interested in another only if the desired or any benefit can be obtained from him - if there are no such prospects and it is concluded that there will be none, any interest in that person is lost.

Obviously, such behavior loses sight of the simple consequence of this attitude and this organization of relationships with others: people who distance themselves from selfishness or gross disinterest in others and themselves are rejected by such behavior - the vacuum that created and maintains it around them, no one can approach him, not even those who are kind to him or could be kind to him.A clear loser is a person of negativistic behavior.

Lack of gratitude (whether it is expected or not), failure to pay attention to how one perceives one's own shortcomings, non-expression and basic forms of politeness are the reason for negative evaluations, expressed or not, that go with people of such behavior and those evaluations quickly become ) assess the personality of those persons.

Everyone has a system of self-defense that allows them to predict what can endanger them - from small to large and the largest intensities of inconvenience and danger.

An unpleasant person is very quickly registered by the defense mechanism and always risks being rejected - and as an unpleasant, undesirable, rejected person, he will certainly have life difficulties because of that - the consequences of his unpleasant behavior.

Life is sacrifice and it is desirable to make sacrifices voluntarily, with love.

19
$ 0.03
$ 0.02 from @TheRandomRewarder
$ 0.01 from @Teji
Avatar for evomeopetrobi
Written by   33
1 year ago
Enjoyed this article?  Earn Bitcoin Cash by sharing it! Explain
...and you will also help the author collect more tips.

Comments

The three best words in the world

$ 0.00
1 year ago

The basic culture is to thank someone, or apologize, in situations that involve it!

$ 0.00
1 year ago

THANK YOU for sharing this good article with us, Sorry for not seeing and commenting on it before, PLEASE share more such good articles with us :)

$ 0.00
1 year ago

I always say those words, it’s part of the culture and upbringing. It is true that there are fewer and fewer people who even know that these words need to be uttered.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Nice post

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Thank you so much for such a wonderful article.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

There are fewer and fewer educated people.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Nice one

$ 0.00
1 year ago

There words need to be in our conversation much more! Thank you so much!

$ 0.00
1 year ago

nice post to start hanging out with us

$ 0.00
1 year ago

yes these words are not used many times these days,but i am using them always.....such is my behaviour

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Just today i've met one colleague which is not new in my firm, but she is so arrogant (i think she is afraid of everything) and never never say Hello, or Good day, or something like that. Just can't understand this sort of people :(

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Thanks, sorry, please: these words seem to have magical effects! Unfortunately people are using them less and less...that's very bad.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

People became arrogant, the word "sorry" was heard less and less, and I was wrong.

$ 0.00
1 year ago

Great dear I have subscribed you

$ 0.00
1 year ago

People forget those words.

$ 0.00
1 year ago