givvy offers for free xp coins
Have you ever tried to download a game application that will give you free XP coins? It's been a week now since I had tried this offer. Most of the time I watched how to earn free coins on YouTube that's why it caught my attention in this kind of application. Download it on google play.
here is my referral link https://givvyoffers.com/referralState?q&wsxedcrfv=bG95b2xhZXZhYXJuZUBnbWFpbC5jb20=
When you create your account you can start earning XP coins with different applications you have to full fill the task to earn rewards
Farm simulator
In the farm simulator, all you have to do is to feed the animals and collect the XP coins the more you fill the feed bar the more XP coins will be collected, even if you are offline you can collect it, there is also free XP in every 2 or 4 hours.
Dynami-X
This application has a lot of chances to collect XP.
Thru referrals, there is a ladder that the more you refer the more XP will be collected .
Surveys from different researchers the rewards depend on how you are qualified in each survey.
Task you have to download some applications and reach the levels indicated
There are 3 games you have to play you can also earn coins thru this.
Every 2 hours there is a free coin to be collected.
Play and earn and Mathematics X is also similar to the Dyanami-X in terms of collecting coins.
You have a dashboard in givvy that you have to choose if you wanna exchange and withdraw your coins.
It is 100% legit and all you have to do is commit and you will earn a lot of coins here plus the task is very easy to complete.
***little steps are very important.***
This is eve have a nice day and be safe always.
sweet and sour fish fillet
In this dish, the combination of sweet and sour tastes will complement each other. The first time I had tasted this dish is when we ate in a Chinese restaurant that's why I learn this one so that we don't need to go out just to taste it.
Ingredients
500 grams breaded fish fillet(you can create your own breaded fish fillet or you can buy it in the supermarket)
4 cloves garlic minced
1 Medium-size red onion minced
salt and ground pepper to taste
1 tsp lemon juice
2 tbsp brown sugar
1 tsp cornstarch
5 tbsp vinegar
1 cup water
1 tbsp olive oil
1 small red bell pepper
1 small yellow bell pepper
1 small carrot you can create your creative cut
onion leeks and parsley for garnishing
Preparations
Fried first the fish fillet in olive oil or in a nonstick pan or in an air fryer.
for the sweet and sour sauce
saute the onion and garlic first when you already smell the aroma of it or if its turn light brown you may add the red and green bell pepper then the carrots add the vinegar and water salt and pepper to taste when the carrots are half cooked add the sugar let it simmer then the cornstarch stir well add the lemon juice let it simmer then remove from the heat.
Pour the sweet and sour sauce over the fried fish fillet garnish it with onion and parsley.
for your dessert, you can try my recipe coffee caramel pudding and mango ice cream bucket.
https://read.cash/@eve/coffee-caramel-pudding-e903187chttps://read.cash/@eve/mango-ice-cream-bucket-47c7fda3
coffee caramel pudding
Pudding is one of my favorite desserts that's why I asked my friend to teach me how to prepare this recipe, the combination of coffee and caramel is extremely delicious for dessert.
Ingredients
4 cups of evaporated milk
1 cup sugar
3/4 cup cornstarch
1 tsp of coffee powder
1 tsp vanilla extract
Preparation
In a saucepan combine the evaporated milk, sugar, cornstarch and coffee mix it well
Cook over low, medium heat for 10-15 minutes or until the mixture becomes thick
Stir the mixture continuously to avoid lumps add the vanilla extract mix well and remove from the heat.
Pour mixture in a preferred glass container set aside
For the caramel
1/2 cup water
1tbp cornstarch
mix the water and cornstarch then set aside
1/2 cup white sugar put in pan let it caramelized add 3 tbsp hot water stir until well combined add the water and cornstarch mixture mix and simmer for two minutes over low heat then remove from the heat.
Pour on the top of the caramel pudding spread evenly.
chill for 2 or 3 hours
a call from a positive covid person
It was an early morning of September when my husband received a call from the partner of her daughter as I saw his face while talking on the phone he can't hide that he was worried about what he heard over the phone.
Then I asked him what happened he said that her granddaughter is positive we are both shocked, but the good thing is that they are both asymptomatic, at that moment were terrified because 2 days ago we are with them that time we have our son with us plus 2 children in their house because the children are scheduled to have their flu vaccines.
In the evening before we heard the news my partner had a sore throat and a cold I told him to gargle and I prepare ginger tea his cough is annoying me that night and feel relieved when I saw him in the other room finally fall asleep when he wakes up he told me that his ok until that call. Every day he visits his mother and when he returns, he told me that his brother got a cough and colds, and muscle pain. We are both worried that time; it was our 3rd day after the exposure.
On the fourth day, his brother and niece got a fever we are all terrified all the symptoms are all with them. My partner is the oldest among his siblings that's why he is responsible to look after his siblings plus the fact that his brother's wife is in Vietnam we are all worried for them and especially about our son who is just 4 years old and also my partner's mother is with them 80 years old and paralyzed, at the same time their helper is also got fever and cough. We both know that time we need to sacrifice ourselves just to take care of all of them. I told my partner to be with his mother and brother and not to be with us for the sake of our son. I talked to the wife of his brother and said that her daughter who is just 7 years old need to be in another place because his husband had a terrible cough and was so weak, that time her daughter is in good condition and told us to locate with her sister house.
On the fifth day my husband decided to bring his brother to the doctor he saw how his brother suffered too much with his cough and was so weak that he cannot eat, the doctor said that it was already positive in covid and need to isolate, we are devastated. That day when they go back into their house his mother and the helper got a cough my anxiety got worst I can't sleep and felt weak but I need to be strong for my partner and my son, at night when I talked to my part my tears can't help but fall because I was too worried about him but he always said that God loves us that he would not let him suffer because he is the only one who can take care of her brother and mother, he told me that his brother condition got worst he cannot sleep at night worrying about his brother, mother and us.
On the 7th day, her mother got diarrhea and still had a mild fever that time I felt so weak and devastating at the same time I had already lost my appetite and sense of smell, my throat is in sore, anxiety, and depression are all there, sleepless night with the symptoms are also there my prayers is my strength.
They got worst and I told my husband to take them to the hospital but they both refuse they are also scared until her niece gave them this Chinese herbal capsule and take two capsules at a time, my partner told me that when his brother take that he feels good after taking 4 capsules he gains his strength it was a relief for us, that's why we decided to give it in his mother after 3 days they recovered and my partner also took that capsule when he also feels the symptoms. I told him not to be in our house for two weeks.
Finally, my husband came home the radiant in his face was so happy my son's really missed him, I remember those times my son is crying because he wants to be with his daddy my partner is our hero and we are so proud of him.
God is our strength it was just a nightmare for all of us but our Heavenly father turned that nightmare into a wonderful blessing because we surpassed it all, my heart broke every time that I heard a news from our relatives that someone died in covid.
It's almost two years that this pandemic traumatized our lives for me the best thing is to do your best to take care of ourselves, for the sake of others and spend quality time with our family.
Be safe everyone and always remember that God is always there to listen and help us in his mysterious way.
our sons imitate us
Uno is only four years old and most of the time he imitates what we did in our home. Most of the time I captured it through cellphones and it really amazes us.
When I'm in the kitchen, he always said that he will help me in preparing our meal. He loves to eat fish soup, vegetables especially squash. This is the time I am preparing our lunch, and it is tinola with malungay.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=chmikLxTr-Y&ab_channel=EvaArneLoyola
Every morning I used to visit my plants and repot some every time he saw me definitely he will do the same.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I2Iq-rJ0KCI&ab_channel=EvaArneLoyola
When he saw his father cleaning our jeep he will imitate what his father did.
Most of the time his father does a lot of fixing in our home all of his daddy tools he knows where to get it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=727Cj_dpySw&ab_channel=EvaArneLoyola
Their bonding as father and son is a hobby for them.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZWM7srbMII&ab_channel=EvaArneLoyola
I know most of the kids in this generation tend to be more engaged in gadgets than helping their parents. It is very important for us parents to be a good example for our children ***because in that way we can say that we did our best not to be a perfect but good example for them***. Time is so precious nowadays that's why we must spend it with our children wisely. As mothers, we did a lot of things in our home most of the time we ignore their feelings as a child we need to explain or as much as possible engage them in our daily activity with supervision.
He must be in kinder right now but I decided not to enroll him but to my surprise, he sings and knows the letters in the alphabet, colors shapes, and sizes and sings well and most of all he already knew how to pray, every night he will remind me to close my eyes and pray.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQzlU6XDzgI&ab_channel=EvaArneLoyola
He is still young but I am proud to say that we did our best to see the good things in life, we don't have much but we have each other.
Thank you in advance for reading this article about my son's achievements in our home.
His name is uno and I wrote some articles about him hope you will know him better.
https://read.cash/@eve/my-son-7e1d9392https://read.cash/@eve/my-son-only-wish-af64631ehttps://read.cash/@eve/a-day-with-my-3-years-old-boy-7e708e90
Be safe everyone and Godbless
ground pork soup
My son really loves this I invented this because most of the time he likes soup. This is so easy to prepare that's why a busy mother like me will love it too.
***Ingredients***
500 grams of ground pork
1 pcs onion diced
3 cloves of garlic minced
salt and pepper to taste
miswa
1 tsp fish sauce
1 pcs pork broth cube
hard-boiled eggs
onion leaks
1/2 tsp olive oil
2 cups of water
***Preparations***
Saute onion and garlic the when it turns light brown add the ground pork mix it well so that the flavor of garlic and onion be at its best.
Then fish sauce, pepper when the ground pork turns light brown add the water let it simmer taste to add the salt it depends on you and put the pork broth cubes simmer for half an hour until the ground pork is cooked add the miswa and let it simmer then turn off the heat.
add the hard-boiled eggs and onion leaks at the top.
I really hope you enjoy this simple yet tasty recipe from my kitchen.
politicians and me
Most of the time I always wonder if people really need politicians or politicians need
us for the sake of their own ambitions.
I'm in the country where you can find people who fight for their rights that's why we called a democratic people and we are the one who is responsible for those politicians to be in their positions to make a better place for their countrymen.
People Power Revolution was made first on the 22nd of February 1986 and it made history to end the dictatorship of President Ferdinand E. Marcos and begin a new era marked by true freedom and democracy. In his time, people made a move to end his leadership.
Honestly, I was only 2 years old at that time that's why most of the stories I know are from the subject in our school and on social media, there are a lot of terrible stories about that time and I wonder why that thing happened in our country.
For the second time around when I was in college, the People power revolution made it again to impeach the current president and it succeeded. That time I was fully aware of how politicians and the people who elected them stand their rights to terminate politicians who went wrong with their powers.
When I was 18 legal age to vote it was clear in my mind that the politicians I chose to vote are the right ones to make good things for our country but I was just one in millions with different views in politics but I believe it can make a change.
History repeats itself for the one question in my mind, why?
What are the reasons why it happened again?
Every time I read and heard about the news in our country there is always good and bad about the leadership of the politicians or even in the small unit of the society it always has a domino effect on the people. Most of the people entrusted the future glory of their lives in politicians can make a change.
In this article, I really want to reach out that everyone has the right to choose not to dictate to others on social media about these aspiring politicians to lead our country but to really research those people's intentions to make a better country for us.
***How can we say that the politicians have good intentions for us?***
**Research about their family**
Family is the basic unit of the society, nowadays there are different kinds of the family but the most important of all are those true politicians who grew in a family with integrity have an advantage. As a basic unit of society, politicians must be concerned about how to make each family have a better life with integrity.
**Research about their plans for their countrymen**
It is very important that politicians have a concrete plan to make a better country for us,
What are the things that they prioritize?
We must be very observant about their intentions to make that plan to be in reality.
***Research about the things that they have made for the people***
There are a lot of politicians who made a lot of projects in the past terms we must be very aware of that project is for us not for them. We all know that in a simple project they can easily take advantage of the budget that's where corruption takes place.
***Research about their ways of living.***
Politicians must be selfless they are in a position because they want to help who elected them to have a good and better life. Their way of livings is also a reflection of how selfless they are.
It is only my own idea on how I can make a decision on choosing the good and better one who will make a change for our country.
Please be aware that we are the one who is responsible why these politicians are in their position.
Reflect on the title politicians and me.
Mango ice cream bucket
I really love ice cream that's why I keep myself busy to learn homemade ice cream buckets. You are free to choose what fruits you want to use. That's why I'm sharing with you this exciting recipe I had learned.
Ingredients
Ice cream base ingredients and preparations
1/2 tbsp unflavored gelatin + 2 tbsp water mix it and let it bloom in 5 minutes
500 ml all-purpose cream (let it chilled it overnight) beat on a high speed until soft peaks form
150 ml condensed milk chilled overnight( don't forget to scrape down the sides of the bowl) set aside
1/2 tbsp of unflavored gelatin add 2 tbsp hot water mix it and pour it together with the cream mixture. Mix well
The ice cream base is ready
1-liter bucket container
200 grams crushed graham
diced mango
Preparation
Put the crushed graham as a base add the diced mango then alternate it again with the graham and mango until you fill up the top of the bucket cover and let it chilled overnight.
I really love to share with you the actual process but my cellphone shut down where I save my videos on how to do it that's why most of the photos I gathered came from Pinterest.
shrimp paste fried rice with mixed vegetables
I love the taste of shrimp paste most of the time I just put it in the rice and it is already a meal for me. I had learned this dish from my mother-in-law it is a homemade shrimp paste but there is still a ready-made shrimp paste in the market.
I will recommend that you buy a ready-made shrimp paste because it depends on your taste buds if you want a sweet and spicy or the plain salty taste of it.
Ingredients:
2 cups of cooked rice
2 tbsp of shrimp paste
1 medium-size carrot cut into cubes
2 tbsp of green peas
1 medium size of potato cut into cubes
1tsp of sugar
5 cloves of garlic into mince
1 medium size of onion into mince
1 tsp of olive oil
Direction :
In a frying pan put the olive oil then the garlic until it turns light brown add the onion and the shrimp paste saute it well then put the sugar, mixed vegetable and when the vegetable is half cooked then it is time to add the cooked rice it is very important to mix it up all well so that the taste will be a balance.
In my dreams
*In my dreams, I saw a woman.*
*She is looking in the night sky.*
*Suddenly I just felt the loneliness of how she looks at the night sky.*
*The only light I saw was the full moon.*
*I was wondering where this loneliness came from.*
When I opened my eyes, the feeling of loneliness is still there.
Have you ever had a dream that when you wake up, you still feel the same?
Some of our dreams affect us when we wake up especially if that dream is about ourselves, family, or something we really want in our life. There are a lot of interpretations of dreams.
In my experience, most of my dreams came out when I get emotional but most of it is when I am sad and lonely. I'm a person who will hide my emotions when I am sad, disappointed, depressed, or mad because I really don't want my family to feel the same way. As much as possible I convince myself that everything will be ok but at the end of the day, the feeling is still there. As I reflect on my dreams it was me looking in the night sky the loneliness came from how this moon will change what I felt in just starring at it. In my childhood days, I love looking in the sky at night and when I saw a full moon there is a sudden joy in my heart because for me a moon is hope at night to bring us to light in our darkest time.
Time had passed I forgot to stare in the sky at night, maybe most of the time I was busy as a daughter, student, friend, now as a partner and a mother there are a lot of things that made me forget to look at the sky.
In this tough time like this that everyone is affected by the pandemic I got so emotional about how this time will affect our future, just like a woman starring at the night sky that the only light is coming from the moon, I really hope that this moon will light and give hope to me that everything will be alright.
I was enlightened when I remembered a story in the bible about "Joseph the Dreamer" God send him a dream of his future which made him excited, imagining that one day he would be some kind of leader, that the "sun, moon and stars would even bow down to him"(Genesis 37:9)
The dream was accurate; he would eventually be a great leader but the path to this greatness was not exactly what he had in mind. Joseph was cruelly betrayed by his brothers, thrown in a dry well to die then sold as a slave. When one is going to be great, the worst place to begin is as a slave. This is the way most people would view it, but God allowed him to be sold nevertheless. It is one of my favorite stories in the bible because Joseph is guided by God through his dream in spite of all the tough times he went through.
I know God sends me a message in my dream that just look at the moon which reminds me that when I was still young it brings joy to me. The moon will always be the hope in the darkest time of my life.
foreign germs
What is your idea about foreign germs?
Some of you my google it and search for the meaning of it.
In this article, A man who is a Syrian, but is in the Philippines hiding his true identity as a beggar asking for water, food in the street, and then he will give some money to those people who help him.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mXHi-7etQSQ&ab_channel=ForeigngermsForeigngermsVerified
The entire world is suffering now because of this coronavirus who had killed thousands of people, the economy got at its lowest point who affected many people source of income but in this time you can see the true side of people who really want to help others and you can find them even in the street.
I really want to share this man with a very good heart to reveal the good side of my countrymen to help others who are in need.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lr1ZBHcM8JA&ab_channel=ForeigngermsForeigngermsVerified
I really love watching his blog because it reveals the true identity of people to help others. He is a foreigner in our country but thru his blog helping my countrymen is a big help in this very tough time.
It was last night that I saw this blog about poor Pilipino kids who sell empty water bottles to give a foreigner water while watching this blog my tears suddenly flowing like a river.https://fb.watch/63GPRNlwcZ/
This video is about helping those homeless people in the street.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=atKMNEmOIqk&ab_channel=ForeigngermsForeigngermsVerified
Blogging has many advantages most are entertaining and helpful I salute those people who use videos to inspire and help others. I really hope one day I can make an interview with this man.
In watching his blog in some parts we are helping him to spread positivity to inspire others to help. God bless this man and those people who always find ways to help others.
when we are both sick
As a mother, it is very important to have a healthy lifestyle because all members of the family are gaining the strength that the mother had.
It was such a depressive week for me; I am a very busy mother who needs to take care of all the members of the family and a mother who helps her husband to earn some money to spend on our daily needs.
It was Monday morning when I felt I had a sore throat then I immediately gargled with an antiseptic mouthwash; I cooked a soup and bought strepsil, hydrate myself f water and fruit juice, but as the hours past I felt so weak, sneezing most of the time., anxiety is on my mind when the night came and my temperature had just risen to 39, I prayed that God gave me enough strength because it was all signs of coronavirus. The entire night I cried and hide it from my partner really need to be strong because I had my 3 years old son and an 80 years old mother-in-law who need my strength too. My fever is still in 39 the whole night I keep hydrating myself and isolate myself from my son.
Tuesday morning I still had fever coughs and colds but I really need to do all the chores and take care of my son my partner is in her mother who needs to look after most of the time because she is paralyzed. It is really hard when a mother got sick, most of the time I did a lot of online selling just to pass the time and not to endure the pain that I had. In the eyes of my partner, I am so sick but I tried to convinced him that I am ok and strong to overcome it all but deep inside of me It was a very tough day just to hear all the news about the people who suffered and died in covid, the reality of a very dangerous virus symptoms are all present in me and to worsen it all I lose my appetite. Here in our area there are people who also died ion covid that's why my anxiety is getting worst, but I really need to be strong that's why I drunk a lot of berry barley juice it is our herbal medicine and it works for me it strengthens my immunity, another night without sleep.
Wednesday the fever is gone but my cough is getting worst I really had a hard time coughing, it was a very dry cough with cold sweats and body fatigue. Most of the day I was in a reclining chair fighting all the negative thoughts in my mind. Even though I don't have an appetite to eat I tried to eat healthy foods that will help to fight the virus-like a lot of citrus fruits, soup, and plenty of water, I took cetirizine an anti-allergic medicine to help sleep because if I did not sleep it also a risk to lower my immunity to fight the virus.
Thursday I was so sad when my partner experienced a stomach ache and after that LBM started he is so weak that time after and even though I am still weak I need to took care of him,he had a very terrible stomach ache that he is unable to move my son is with her auntie all day so that I can take care of him.I really prayed that we can survive it when we are both sick it is so hard to saw that my partner experienced a very hard time wih his pain he also said that he really want to go to the hospital if there is no covid because he knew that when we go to the hospital it may partly said that we had covid so that we need to be very brave to overcome what we experienced.I was fully awake the whole night to secure that he is ok but every time I looked at him the pain is always there.
Friday the pain that my partner experienced had lessened but still, LBM is there every time he eats but he said that he will be ok, deep inside I am at my worst, and in the afternoon I had LBM, until the morning all I had to do is to surrender it all to God that He is the only one who can help us.
Saturday my partner is ok but he said that he is still weak and my LBM gone, my cough is still there I had very sticky phlegm but it is manageable.
It was such a very tough week for me to experienced the symptoms that almost killed thousands of people but still my prayers is the most powerful to help us overcome it all, the anxiety is always there but God is always there to guide and help us in this very hard time of our life.
@read.cash I really don't know why every time there is a writer who will commented in my article it is always a flag of spam and vice versa, can someone tell me why ? Thank you in advance
My son only wish
All parents will feel the same most of the kids know how to wish for something they want to have like toys, foods, clothes, gadgets, or be at the place they want to visit, but my 3 years old son is so different, ***his only wish is for me not to go for work.***
Uno is only 3 years old and for me, he is so special for seeing those traits that are not usual for a 3 years old kid. All of our children we may say that they are special in their different way but for me, he really touched my heart. Ill explain first why he is so special to me and how his wish melts my heart.
***He learns how to care for people.***
There was a time when I saw him beside my mother-in-law tapping her back and gave a glass of water, I and my partner are the ones who take care of his grandmother, she is 80 years old and been half-paralyzed for almost ten years; he saw all the things that we did for his grandmother and into my surprise he almost doing the same thing for her.
Most of the time my partner have a morning routine to exercise and when he saw his father who sweated a lot, he runs to the closet and got a towel, wiping all the sweat in his back and asked her father to change his clothes and he is also the one who gets the shirt. I am really proud of my son and thank God he gave me a son like him.
He had a nephew who is 6 years old and he likes to play with him after they play he saw his nephew who sweated a lot, then he sad to remove his clothes and he started to wipe the back, a 3 years old who cared for a 6 years old kid it amazed me on how he cares for others. When he had playmates he really wants to share food and toys.
***He is very organized with things he had and valued them with all of his heart.***
I had noticed that all the things that I put in a place he gets back the same way I place it. I put all of his toys and display them on the shelves of the play store and I always notice that he always organized it after the play. I once told him to put everything in a proper place. when he got a gift he will hug it even if as he sleeps, most of his toys are all intact and in good condition except for those his playmate is the reason why it is got damaged. He also knows the place where are the things we need, there is a time my partner is looking for a bedsheet and he keeps looking and my son noticed and he told his father where it is, my partner got amazed.
https://youtu.be/e35HmhAlC_Y
***He is always there to help.***
His father is the one who fixes our motor and jeep, every time he saw his father fixing it no matter what he is doing he will be at his father side and try to help, he already knows some tools like a screw, when fixing our house, he also want to help actually he had toys like a hammer, screw, but now he wants the real one, one time I saw him with real hammer and nails and he nailed it well, all I can do is to smile and get amazed on how he nailed it and did not hurt himself. Every time he saw me doing the chores he always wants to help.
***He is very sensitive to his surroundin***gs.
My partner, I never fight but when we are talking most of the time we raised our voice and he asked if we are fighting, and we said no we were just discussing something. When his playmate is crying he immediately asked why and comforts them. When he saw that I was in pain he immediately gets me water and my liniment for the pain he always saw me with liniment because most of the time I had a migraine.
***He believes in God***
Most of the time he is sick he always said that he will pray and then he will get ok, he also knows what to do when he feels pain, there was a time that he had a stomach ache and he asked me to put a healing oil that we always use when getting ache.
***He always says thank you***
Most of our relative said that he raised him well because every time someone who gave him something he will definitely say thank you.
***His only wish***
Last night was such a memorable thing with me, it is my training on a home from work and I was in a call when he cried so loud it is about 10 minutes before midnight he is with his father I shut down the computer immediately after I heard him, it was my dream job and when the time gave me that moment to work from home but suddenly I've heard my son cried that hard I got emotional and run quickly to the room and hug him so tight, then I recall a brain trainer said to prioritize the things that matter to us and he is the most important thing that happened in my life. When I asked him why he cried he said that he doesn't want me to work and I explained that I have to work because we don't have enough money to buy milk, and all the things that he wants and he said that he will not ask anything and wish for me not to work and he melts my heart. This video is when he asked his daddy not to work he loves being with his father, most of the time his father decided not to drive and stay with him and save every money that we had for him
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRmMoVIhJuY&ab_channel=EvaArneLoyola
I decided to give up the training because I know he is too young to understand, work is important but ill try to find other ways to earn and help my partner in our daily needs not to brag about my son's feelings, he is so important to us God will provide and with my son I really want to secure his feelings while he is still young because time might come that he will have his own time for his self but from now I love being with him.
By the way, my son's name is Uno,I gave him that name because it is the name of the lead character in my favorite movie Just the 3 of us. I am so proud to have him in our lives.
a story of fat young lady
When I was a child my father gave me a nickname and guess what he gave me? He calls me ***beauty*** because he said that every time he carried me the people would say that I am such a pretty baby, in his eyes even though I am still a baby he saw the beauty in me, so sad that I don't have pictures when I was a baby.
I am always a muse in my class and I represent my school at sportfest as their muse, but the time came and suddenly when I was in grade five I had noticed that I gained weight maybe because my mother always wants me to eat more, she will put more rice on my plate because she said that she wants me to be fat than skinny, when our neighbor's notice I became fat and asked my mother she said that it's okay so I don't have any suitors, my mother is protective who never wanted me to have a suitor.
Time passed in my high school days they call me pig and waistline reach 34 inches and I am just 13 years old, my teenage life is so sad because most of my boy classmate bully me for being so fat, I am so disappointed every time my old classmate in elementary saw me and looked that they don't know me at all. When I was in 3rd-year level in high school I became bulimic I will eat a lot in front of my mother after she finished I will vomit all the food in my mouth in our bowl it lasts for a year most of the time I starve my self just to lose weight and suddenly until 4th year in high school my waistline drop in 27 aside from being bulimic I did all the chores in our house sweat a lot and also use a deep well in watering our plants. This was my only picture when I am still fat I really don't want to take pictures at that time.
My college days are so memorable for me because I can wear the clothes that I want my waistline is 24 because I skip my lunch most of the time I don't eat in school just to maintain the figure I want. The feeling is very different from being fat but it depends on other people's point of view. I took up nursing and there are a lot of disadvantages on health when you are obese or fat that's why I maintain my weight but most of the time skipping meals is very dangerous also being bulimic.
After I run away from home in my college days and lived with a man who is a nightmare for me I was so thin that time and it last for almost 7 years that I never gained weight and that time I wish to gain weight but it didn't happen. That was my picture 8 years ago .
Until I have my son now my waistline is 34 fat but I don't skip meals.I am contented with my figures because my partner always told me that I am sexy with my curves and I believe in him and he makes me happy every time he told me that I am still beautiful.
What other people view of point in our appearance will depend on how we see ourselves, it is important for us to be healthy nowadays that's why we must be aware in healthy foods and doing exercise and keep moving.
my day as a mother
As a mother with a 3-year-old boy with a paralyzed mother-in-law and a partner who is suffering from high blood pressure, I indeed wake up early and this is my routine for almost 5 years.
4 am my body clock urges my eyes to open, it is always a routine for me to wake up early, after I went in the bathroom got my coffee open my desktop checking all the messages and replay all the inquiries from the potential buyer, reading articles and if I had something in my mind I will write it down.
6 am I will go to my backyard water and checking my plants if they are in excellent condition, my 3-year-old son is still sleeping.
7 am I will prepare our breakfast, in the morning I'll cook heavy breakfast like fried rice corned beef and egg, my son loves to eat corned beef maybe that's why he is overweight at his age, my mother-in-law a rice pourage with boiled eggs it is always present in our breakfast after I cook my partner and my mother-in-law is the one who eats together.
8 am my son always wake up that time and we are the one who eat together, at his age he already knew how to eat with spoon and fork.
9 am I will go to the small stall of vegetables, fish, pork and buy the stuff we need for the day, I don't stock foods in our refrigerator because I really want to make sure that all we eat is fresh, the small stall all there stuff there is fresh from the market. 10 am I will prepare our lunch most of the time I cook fish and vegetables, my son like sauteed squash with oyster sauce and milkfish we seldom eat can foods and pork.
11 am I will bathe my son while our lunch is still on the stove it will just take 20 minutes and he is already done.
12 pm we take our lunch after ill does the dishes.
1 pm my mother-in-law will take a bath first I have to heat the water she will use and prepare all the things she needs in bathing it almost took half an hour and my mother-in-law is fresh again.
2 pm I will take my son an afternoon nap, I believe that it is very important for a child to have a nap in the afternoon, he will just sleep for almost two hours.
3 pm is the time for me to freshen up and take a bath, after that I will just sit at the computer and watch some motivational videos, then clean the house it is not big that's why it is easy to clean.
5 pm Ill need to water my plants again because of the very hot weather, every time I saw all my plants it calms my soul that's why ill make sure that they are in the good condition while my son is on the computer watching his favorite park ranger dinosaurs.
6 pm preparing our diner most of the time our lunch is still our dinner to save time and money.
7 pm we will eat our dinner
8 pm Ill make sure that my mother in law got all her medicine and puts on the diaper and she will go to bed.
9 pm my son will go to bed after asking a lot of questions he is always like that then he will sleep.
10 pm my partner and I surely discuss our day, then he falls asleep, but I'm still awake thinking for tomorrow's menu and all the things I must do, then posting all items I need to sell also answering inquiries. my schedule will be move or change if laundry time once a week is my schedule to wash our clothes or if we have a guest in our house ill just balance my schedule and adjust the time.
I am blessed to do all the things I have to do, and the most important of all is to make sure my son is safe and were eating healthy foods, even if I am busy most of the time I'm thankful for the life God has given me.
Thank you from my heart
These past few months I must admit that my confidence in writing is at a low point. There are a lot of ***what if in my mind*** that's why I made an article of it and I was thankful that there are these people who appreciate it @heartbeat1515 ,@Ellehcim who always comment and upvote most of the time, for the first person who gave his sponsorship Mr. @TruSuccessXpert thank you so much for the trust and one of the most writer I look up to @ @wakeupkitty who also upvote my article about my son https://read.cash/@eve/my-son-7e1d9392.
Those what if is nothing to do with my passion to write whatever thoughts in my mind. As a mother and a partner it is such a time for me to sit in front of my desktop and start writing the thoughts in my mind, the feeling is so extremely at peace after the long day doing the chores and taking care of my son ,mother-in-law, my partner ,my buyer because Iam still a furnitures seller answering all the inquiries and a plant lover ill make sure the all of my plants is on the best condition it is such busy days always and writing is like yoga for me it calms my soul.
I must admit with all the things I must complete for a day, writing an article is the last in my list, most of the time when they are all resting that is the only time for me to write but it is also my time to rest,my idea is not in a good level,and mr.random rewarder did not notice me anymore.what if Iam consistent in reading the article of others mybe it will inspire me to do my best in terms of writing that will also inspire others.
Consistency is very essential for a writter because it sharpens our mind to do the best and bring out good quality articles.
The result in my inconsistency is slow progress here at read.cash for almost a year I only have 32 subscriber and one sponsor and the tips oh...is the only words and it is because I did not give more time in writing a good quality one.
Most of the time I really want to learn about the trending topics @ readcash. Most of my article is focus in my daily routines,I never find time to observe and write something about others, so self centered just to focused on my own experiences, mybe if I write about other, readers will be more appreciative.
If I had a knowledge in cryptocurrency? Most of the articles with the highest tips is connected on cryptocurrency, I must admit that read.cash is one platform to promote bch, and I am so amazed with those articles that corncerned about bch and there observation about the world of cryptocurrency and how good it is.
Crypto for me is one of the great things that happened in this trying time,digital wallet is so accesible to buy things,on how read cash help others to earn bch and be the bread and butter of our lives, the sad things about me is that I don't have much time to learn deeper about the cryptoworld,but if I spend time mybe I got alot of tips. Motivation is very important to write a good content article,most of the time Ive watched videos that motivate people and I must say everytime it gives me alot of knowlegde and I write it down. a motivational speaker Jan kwik said that knowledge is useless if you will not put it in your heart and in your work.most people learn something but the problem is they dont internalize what they learned and it become useless.when u acquire knowledge you have to impart it with others.
This article if for those people who appreciated my works and in return I will do my best to improve all the areas need improvement.
Thank you from my heart and my God bless you.
bless are those who forgive
There is always a level of forgiveness in my life.
Have you ever experienced that someone hurt you physically mentally and emotionally?
Did it affect your personality as a person?
How did you manage the grudges when someone hurt you?
I was physically abused by my partner for almost seven years; it took me that long because I hope that one day he will change, maybe I am not a good partner that's why he had become that way, I used to blame myself and it is my fault why he abused me . A time comes and I realize I want freedom from our relationship and run away from the longest nightmare in my life. When someone hurts us, there are a lot of responses we made that depend on the level of how they hurt us as a person. It was still fresh in my mind the first time he hit me. I told him that in my work there is a gay who keeps flirting with me and He asked me if he is handsome and I definitely replied with a yes, he scolds me and I am telling him to stop but he becomes more aggressive than he throws all the things in our rooms the more that I console him the more aggressive he becomes and suddenly he hit my eyes he had a very strong built of fist all I remember it that my eyes bleed and he ignored me, and get out of our house, that time I cried a lot and numbness is all over my body, her mother help me and tried to console what I felt that moment and she told me to accept and understand her son's behavior because he was just jealous and scared to lose me. Most of the time I was in silence because I really don't want him to be mad because it will agitate his mood to abused me again. I always forgive him and I never remember a time that he said I'm sorry but after he hit me it seems to me that it's a natural thing to do with all of my mistakes. I keep in my silence every time he did something wrong in our relationship for that way he will not hurt me again. Forgiveness is always there even though he did not admit it. I always did my best to be a good partner but it is not always enough until he becomes jobless for years and I was the only one who works for us, he always had a bad temper and it affects my job and suddenly I quit my job. The nightmare always comes even if I don't sleep. Sleepness night is always there and I was thankful that every time he hurt me I become closer to God because he was the only one who can change my life and listen to me.I prayed so hard that he may change but her mother told me to leave him because as a mother and women who also experienced being abused by her partner she wants me to escape her son to change my life, after that, I ran away and start my new life without him.
It's been more than a decade now and I must say that I was blessed that I have a very wonderful family now and that nightmare disappeared.
When someone hurts us our level of forgiveness is depend on how they hurt us. Is that physically, mentally, or emotionally?
Whatever it is God is always there to mend our feelings when we get hurt and all we have to do is to talk to him and patiently wait for the right time that it will change our life. We really have two options to give back the hurt or to be silent and surrender it all in hands of God.
Believe me no matter how others hurt us we must forgive and we will attain a peaceful life and that is the blessing of our God almighty.
God is always there for us a silent listener he is there waiting for us to realize that we must surrender to him, and He will bless us.
a boy with a broken brain
Do you have any idea of who is this boy with a broken brain?
Have you heard a person name Jim kwik?
I really wanna share what Ive learn by watching a 54 minutes video in YouTube with the title of Unleash your super brain to learn faster
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uT_GcOGEFsk&list=RDCMUCPvLJ7YsMqPWkHEfv4ftFZQ&start_radio=1&ab_channel=MindvalleyTalks
I was just watching Jack Ma's inspirational videos of success and to my surprise, my attention had been caught by the title of this video"Unleash your super brain to learn faster" to learn faster, because ever since I am a slow learner but this video change my perception about the way I think about my self.
He was a brilliant motivational speaker for me because there is no boring moment in his video it was 54 minutes of talking with a lot of inspirational words that can change someone's life. I was shocked when he mentioned that there was a time in his life that his teacher known him as a"boy with a broken brain" my heart aches that moment and he explained why because when he is a child he was suffering from dyslexia, it was a learning disorder that involves difficulty reading due to problems identifying is a learning disorder that involves difficulty reading due to problems identifying speech sounds and learning how they relate to letters and words. I was shocked at how this brilliant speaker motivating people but somehow being called a boy with a broken brain.
His video is an overflowing inspirational and informative video that explains that ***"whatever you believe will be right"***
Whatever we believe will be right, did you ever experienced a point in your life that what you believe is right? There was a time in my life that my mother scolds me for not learning the alphabet when I was in grade one, she called me so stupid and a slow learner that she spanks me with a hanger just for me to recognize and memorize the alphabet.
That time I am stupid because she told me that I am. I cannot understand all the things that my mother wants me to memorized, and then now I understand why. Jim kwik said that information when you combine it with emotion is long-term memory, it explains why I still remember how my mother spanks me just for me to memorize. When I was in grade 0ne until grade five my grade is always a passing grade 75,76 the only 8 is in my character I got 85 because most of the time I was a silent student, but there is a very great teacher that I admire on how she taught her students and I will not forget the way I learned multiplications and to read well.Jim told that a ***state of emotion*** is very important in learning, it is on what state of your emotion are you while you are learning. When we feel bored we cannot learn, the learning process is not progressing, that is why we must believe that everything that we want to learn must have the right mindset that we can learn from it.
He knows from himself that he has a disability to learn fast that's why he finds ways on how to overcome his incapability in learning and now he is touched and inspires a lot of people to believe in there selves to overcome all the incapabilities and excel in life.
Now he teaches people on how to learn faster, a boy who once called with a broken brain
the what if in my life
Time is so precious and the only things that remain are all the memories of the time that passed by. Regrets are always there to remind us if we did not do our best so that we have regrets in our lives.
Regrets are the what if?
**I would like to share my own what-if in my life.**
***What if I finish my degree in college?***
If I finished my degree in college as Bachelor in Science in Nursing, I am a nurse in a hospital and serving a lot of patients suffering in covid right now. It was my mother's dream for me to be a nurse but unfortunately, because I was a rebellious daughter here I am a homemaker, trying my best to be a wonderful mother and a partner.
***What if I've spent a lot of time with my father?***
This will be my biggest what if in my life? I did not grow up with my father, but all of my memorable memories in my childhood are because of him. I was five years old when his auntie adopted me, and that is one of the saddest parts of my life. I grew up as if he did not exist in my life but when there is a special occasion like my graduation he is there; we did not spend propitious time together because he is still busy with his own family. One night I receive a call from my cousins and that was a heartbreaking call, she said that my father died I was shocked and I can barely cry for that moment but the pain until now is so unexplainable, he is gone for almost two years but every time I remember his existence the pain is like a cutting knife in my heart. I never tell him that I love him and I was thankful for all the wonderful time we had when I was a child. I never greeted him on any special occasion and it hurts me so much. I was such a bad daughter but in my heart, those times that I am with him is the safest feeling I've ever had.
***What if I've been a good daughter?***
When the time that who I called Nanay got me from my father it was one of the saddest experience in my childhood. There are a lot of bad things she said about my parents that until now it is in my heart. I was an obedient child at that time everything she said I immediately agreed with it, until such time I ran away from home and become a rebellious one, I did not even care about her I celebrated my freedom that time but in the end, it's too late for me to realize that all she wants for me is to have a good life, she passed away for almost a decade now but still if I did my best to be a good daughter she will be happy until the last breath of her life.
***What if I've been a good partner?***
I was young at that time when I agreed to live in with a man whom I did not know at all, it was the time that I really want to get out of our house to seek from freedom and living with a man whom I know for a month leaves a scar in my life he abused me so many time that I got trauma. I was physically abused by him got my black-eyed, bruises, blood that was a nightmare for me it took 7 to seven years of my life just to wait that he will change. Unfortunately, I decided to run away and escape life with an abusive man. Most of the people who known us said that it's the right thing to do and he was such a bad man, that's why there is always a question in my mind that maybe I am not a good partner that's why I suffered alot.
**What if I was a good friend?**
I am 36 years old and I've got a few friends maybe 4 they are there through ups and downs they saw all the bad things in my life and tried to help as much as they can, but there are times that I questioned my self if I'm a good friend if I was there to help when they needed the most.
Managinng stress at home
The home environment can usually seem like a battlefield as there are usually individual of various ages under one roof. This alone is a stress contributing factor, as there are many needs and wants to satisfy and cope with. With a little correct and comfortable practices, the stress levels for all concerned can be minimized.
The following are some of the common area that should be given due consideration in the quest to limit the occurrences of stress:
***Being organized*** -is probable the best way to beat the stress condition from being a regular occurrence. When there is some form of organization evident, all the individual elements that contribute to a smoother flow in the day would be covered, thus unfolding a completely new and calmer way of getting through the day.
***Taking the time*** -to relax during the hectic day using whatever styles that most suit the individual would be recommended. These may include meditation, prayer, light exercises, deep breathing exercises all of which contribute to rejuvenating the mind and body to face the rest of the home front issues.
***Time to incorporate exercise-***Those people who have the time to incorporate an exercise regimen before the start of the actual days activities have attested to the fact that the body and mind are better able to cope with the onslaughts of the day, which include managing home problems. Stress at home can be avoided with this good start to the day, as it’s refreshing and energizing.
***Try to open up*** with those people you are comfortable discussing with similar issues, which could help the individual to learn and practice some of the styles others incorporate into their lives and home environment.
This may help the individual to eliminate the stress-causing circumstances. Trying different ways to handle stress at home would be a better way to cope, as opposed to just keeping things repressed which will only end up contributing to higher stress levels.
Home is we found ourselves comfortable and at peace that's why it is also important to assess in what particular things causes our stress.
controlling stress to anger
Stress often leads to unforeseen anger outbursts, especially when the underlying issues are not addressed. The outbursts can sometime be so unexpected, that it could take on an element of violence, and this of course is very damaging indeed.
The following are some secrets on how to exercise control on the individual’s anger issues so that stress can be avoided.
**Taking a time out**
Taking a timeout can be especially effective in controlling the possibility of having an anger outburst displayed. It gives the individual a chance to step back and take a moment to relax and collect his or her thoughts.
This usually works well, if the individual moves away from the situation that is causing the anger, and focusing on something else temporarily until the anger subsides.
When the individual has regained some control of the anger, and it is no longer dominating the body and mind, then the individual would be in a better position to address the original situation that brought on the anger in the first place. It would also have given the individual the time and space, to reconsider the facts and the feelings, and if the anger was warranted.
Learning the art of controlling the tongue is perhaps to most powerful exercise the individual can and should master.
By being able to think before expressing anything verbally, the individual is well able to ensure better encounters and outcomes, as anger usually brings out the worst in people and circumstances.
This negative contribution of anger will not help to solve anything and instead will eventually cause elevated stress levels.
Coming up with solutions rather than focusing on the problem may also be another route to take when it comes to addressing anger issues. If the individual is occupied with finding a solution, then there is less likelihood of the mind dwelling on the negativity of the problem which contributes to the anger.
There are a lot of bad things happened if we let our anger in but remember some of it came from stress so we must identify the cause of it so proper solution will be given an immediate response so that it will not affect you and others life.
building confidence for a kids
It is important for everyone to have self-confidence because it is one of the keys to reaching our dreams and aspiration in life that's why it is so important that as much as possible while they are still young once we as a parent mold them and build their confidence in their life, so they can have a bright future heading their way.
Confidence is extremely important for a child to develop in the early stages of their life. It is important because it is needed in order to overcome many obstacles that your child will face in life. It is the job of the parent of the child to help the child build self-confidence. There are many different ways that you can help your child build confidence. Building your child’s self-confidence will not only make them feel good about themselves, but also prepare them for the future as well. You may find yourself asking, what can I do to give my child higher self-confidence? The answer is not difficult and in fact there are several things you can do on a daily basis that will help and they will only take a few minutes.
A person’s confidence levels as an adult are greatly impacted by the level of confidence that they had as a child. This is one of the main reasons why it is so important that you instill a healthy amount of confidence into your child. With a little bit of effort and time, your child will surely develop this crucial life skill.
**There are a few things that as a parent you will need to do. The following are some examples:**
**Always Make Time:**
It is important that you always make time for your child, no matter how busy you are! Showing that your child comes before everything else is an excellent way of building a child’s self-confidence and self-worth. It is advised to take the time to schedule activities with your child that can help with the process of building their confidence. This could be taking them to do something they are good at or maybe even taking them to try something new. This will show them that they are talented which is a great confidence booster. One example could be taking a child to the park for a game of ball. If your child is not into sports, take them to an event that will allow them to show their knowledge on things, and always be sure to show how impressed you are.
**Don’t Be Too Hard**:
Although it is important not to be too easy on your child, it is also important not to be too tough on your child as well. Being too easy on your child will likely not instill proper morals in a child or teach them to be responsible, on the other hand, being too tough will likely lead to low self-confidence because a child will feel as if they never do anything right. You as a parent must find the middle ground and be equal with your discipline. Not every child will respond to the same type of parenting so it is important to experiment and see what works best when it comes to building your child’s confidence.
**Be a Positive Example:**
It is your job as a parent to set a positive example for your child and to be a role model. One of the personality traits that your child will likely learn from you is your level of self-confidence. It is important that you always appear as if you have a situation under control and that you completely believe in yourself. Also, never talk negatively about yourself in front of your child because this will likely cause them to develop the same habit.
It is just a part one in building confidence for a child
Dear Random rewarder
Dear random rewarder,
It's been a day, weeks, and months that I missed your presence for the past six months I did not write an article because my desktop was broken but a month ago I got back in read .cash and wrote again and to my surprise when I saw my account there is a $30 the problem is I did not save my seed phrase that's why I need to open a new wallet and started again with zero.
I wrote an article and you immediately notice it and gave me a generous tip for someone who gets back.
I was so happy that time but few days, weeks, and it's been a month since the last time that I felt random your presence. My journey in read cash is a roller coaster emotion I was on cloud nine that time when most of my article received tips and when I did some comments you are so generous, but now that I am always unseen by you.
Ever since I started her in read cash it boosts my confidence in my dream to become a writer, honestly, I don't have any formal education in writing an article but thru this platform, some people appreciated my works and it's priceless most of the time that I received a tip the feeling is that I already won in a lottery.
It feels like my crush noticed me every time a writer that I look up and notice my works like wake up kitty and gave me a very generous tip and the feeling of missing you is a very different question that's why I told my self that my article is not worth for your attention. So I made my own research. Most of the time I read a lot of articles with high tips and observe what are the content, analyze why did you notice them.
I already did my reflection that's why I conclude that my article needs a lot of improvement and I may say that I lose my passion in writing my article this past few weeks because I got so busy taking care of my inlaw and all the chores and my son wanted to watch youtube in my computer, he had a cp but I don't want him to expose so much radiation in gadgets that's why I allowed him to use the computer most of the time.
I was so glad that there is still another writer who I looked up to notice my article and it eases the feeling of missing your presence.
Random rewarder you are just like a crush for me that I need to do a lot of things for you to notice me but in a meantime, I have to learn to love myself first, just kidding. Honestly, when I compared my articles before and now I must say that my passion for writing has already changed but I will try my very best to improve it. Read. cash is part of my life and gave me a lot of opportunities to see the other side of the world by reading and put me in another dimension because most writers are excellent in putting their heart and mind to it. It's been nine months since I joined here with a 32 subscriber and almost $100 of tips and I really can't count all my article s. I know its a slow progress for me but I love being here and do my best to share my positivity in life with others especially we are in a pandemic for a year now, it is such a therapy for me to write my thoughts and even if you did not notice me it's okay.
I will never stop writing and thank you for all the good memories of your tips.
Have a nice day and be safe always...
sincerely yours,
eve
I really want to give thanks to Wakeup kitty who gave me a generous tip and heartbeat1515 and others who gave comments and tip God bless you always.
overcoming fears as a mother
As a mother there are a lot of doubts uncertainty in our minds, from the moment that you know you are carrying a precious life in your womb, fears are arising. There are a lot of fears as a mother and the question in our mind am I ready to be a mother?
Gestational stage of fears
It's been 42 weeks that we are conceiving a baby in our womb, there are a lot of changes in our physical, emotional, and mental state. When I got pregnant, It was mixed emotions because my partner is in doubt if I am ready to have a child because of my health issues. I had a goiter and it may be worse if I got pregnant, but that time I know I am ready to be a mother, no matter what it takes.
Physical changes -When a woman got pregnant there is always a fear that her normal body figure will change. Most of the women are gaining weight, other is losing weight. The stretch marks will leave forever as a reminder that they will never get into your normal skin ever. Melasma is the dark spot that will surely appear your flawless underarm will be as darker than ever.
I was skinny that time I got pregnant my fears of gaining weight is not a big deal for me because I know how to control myself from gaining weight without the risk of my baby's health. I ate healthy foods when I crave something it's a mind conditioning if it's good for the two of us. My skin contour was awful I had a lot of stretch marks, dark discoloration appeared in my underarm, but I told myself it's okay because my partner still loves and wants me.
Emotional changes- Hormonal changes arise that's why most pregnant women get so moody they felt weak most of the time and need more attention. The fears that no one will understand what she feels, that may cause, depression and anxiety.
Most of the time of my pregnancy I was so sensitive in the middle of the day I want to cry and be with my friends, I thought that my partner never understands what I feel but he still listens and did things to make me comfortable in my pregnancy.
If a woman got pregnant her way of thinking drastically changes for her fears that she might lose time for herself and giving her all attention to the baby after she delivered it, plus all the fears of if my baby is healthy most of the time the fear of a mother is what if I'm not giving them right nutrition when they are still in the womb or what if they have some defects, that is the fears of a mother while conceiving a baby in her womb, and the question of "How can I raise a child?
When a mother is laboring it feels like you are going to die the pain that almost breaking all her bones is so indescribable. The fear that can I survive this stage?
The time that you hear your baby crying, it is a big joy and relief that you made it all those months that a baby is inside our womb, now you can hear and see them personally.
There is always a mother instinct that no other book will explain it's an intuition that you will do anything for your child no matter what it takes, spending those sleepless nights.
Fears on how to raise a child.
Every mother got this fear that she might not raise their children well after all the bad things that happen in our surroundings, plus the fact that we care so much that our children might hurt all the time.
Overcoming our fear as a mother is part of our lives, we wake up with a lot of doubts on what kind of future can you give in our children plus am I giving them a comfortable life. I overcome it with the help and guidance of the Lord.No matter what happen when we are a mother our lives is not mine at all because our lives are for our children to guide them in the right path of life. All the fears of being a mother can fade just to set a dream and goals for them to be happy and guide them to be a good person.
@eve
