my son

When I saw my son who is about 3 years and a half tapping my mother-in-law's back because she is vomiting and getting water I am so proud of him because at his age he already knows how to care for someone. My partner in life is the eldest among 6 siblings and his mother is suffered from a stroke and been paralyzed for almost 10 years. We are the ones who give all the needs we can give. She is 80 years old last December 30. At first; it was so hard for us to give most of our time to her because I had my son he also needs our time and attention but as the days had passed; I was shocked because he cared for his grandmother. He saw me doing all the chores taking care of him and her grandmother,most of the time I was so exhausted that I really don't have time for myself, and my body feel so weak plus all the anxiety of will the future will lead us. My partner has no time to work because her mother needs to be attended most of the time,but when I saw my son doing the care we give with his grandmother it is all worth it,because at his age he started to care.

My son is very sensitive to different emotions at his age he knows how to protect us.I remember when my old neighbor started a fight with me about what I did in my garden she humiliated me my son run and told his father and hug me and told my neighbor to stop and telling "hey she is my mommy" in tagalog "oi mommy ko to" in his little words he touched my heart to deeply.He is the reflection of all the action I did in everyday living.

Every day all his gesture surprises me I really want to discipline him so that when time comes he can be a good citizen in our country.Whenever we buy him toy I always told him to take care of it and put it in a proper place where it should be at first it was hard to implement but one day even if I dont ask him to arrange all his toys he did it by his self and when his playmate play with our house he always want to get back all the toys they had played.

He loves his father so much most of the time he doesn't want his daddy to work, this video is always his scenario when he knows that his father will go out somewhere.

Every time he saw his father wet in sweat he automatically will get a towel and rub his father's back and hair to dry it up. I was so happy when I saw them like that even if we don't have much but what matters most is we have each other.I really love plants so every day we go to our garden to water our plants and he helps me and says goodmorning to my plants. He definitely had tantrums that call my attention but I always make sure to be there to calm him.

Raising our children is a very tough thing to do because the future of our country is in their hands and we need to make sure that they will grow up as good people who will care for and protect one another, and most important of all They must have fate with our Father almighty. How we treat them will reflect in their personality that's why it so important to set a good example at a very young age so that when they grow up those good examples will be a habit.

I am so excited to see him with good traits that's why I'm very careful with all of my actions.