Matthew's true color.

I suddenly remember this man. The person I thought he was. He was my suitor years ago, didn't remember exactly when it was. I'm not sharing this so Matthew will be bad at your point of view and curse him but for singles (only those who are ready to mingle or plan to build a family since some are happy and plan to be single until their last breath) to be aware and must give more time to get to know more about the person we want to be with us in our entire life.

Just to be clear, I am not stereotyping men because I know personally that there are lots of good men. My father is living proof, he never hurt my mother or even swear her. Flex ko lang, bakit. XD As a further matter, we also know that there are women who mistreated or cheated their partners.

Back to Matthew, when we first met up to months that he is courting me, he is so kind, sweet, caring, and loving. Well, I can see that, based on his words and actions. So, I started to feel interested in him. Sometimes I am like stup*d, kicking the leaves, stones, or winds while talking to him. HAHA. I did not know that until one of my friends teased me because I'm acting like that. I really thought that he was a man I thought he was. But I was wrong. (Nalinlang lang pala ako noon haha o sadyang magaling lang siya magpanggap. HAHA.)

But then one day we had an argument. We can't get along, then he started swearing at me which he never did before even though we fight. He even wishes me to die. I'm shocked. As I said, he is always calm. When one of my brothers learned that, he get mad and want to see him. Of course, I don't want any trouble, so I convinced him to not be bother and it's already fine.

Moving on...

My point is, that let's not rush things when it comes to being in a relationship, let's give ourselves time to get to know more about these people who want to enter our life.

I was so glad that Matthew showed his true color back then before we get into a relationship. I don't want to introduce someone like him to my family. And I can't imagine that I will be with that kind of man. If ever we got into a relationship back then, we will not last long. Ekis agad! Though I'm kinda marupok sometimes but I know my worth. I hope you do, too.

This is just a friendly reminder that you're not obliged to do it since it's your life; to those singles out there, just wait for it, it will come along your journey. But of course, some people will be part of our life just to give us lessons and challenges that will make us stronger and grow.

That's life.

I am thankful for my exes that they are my exes now haha, I've learned from them. Now, I am happy with my loml. Yiie XD