Would You Rather - CLOSED
Let's do WOULD YOU RATHER. **Mechanics**: Pick one from choices and EXPLAIN why (answers can be in tagalog or english) Mention 3 friends **Prize:** $.0.01-$0.02 Question: WOULD YOU RATHER Love someone who doesn't love you or be loved by someone you don't love? In tagalog: Mahal mo pero di ka mahal o Mahal ka pero di mo mahal? This one is a common question for us right? But what's yours? This will end tomorrow (September 15). Choose wisely ππ
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Mahal ka pero di mo mahal. Dahil natutunanan naman ang pagmamahal. Lalo na kung deserve naman ng taong yun na masuklian ang pagmamahal na binibigay nya sayo. Yung ibang bagay o tao, natutunanan na lang naman nating mahalin eh. Di naman porke nakita na natin eh mahal na natin agad, may proseso. Kung handang maghintay nung nagmamahal sayo na matapos mo ang proses para masuklian sya, tingin ko ganun na lang kalaki ang pagmamahal nya sayo para hintayin ka. Dahil bibihira na lang ang pagmamahal na sinasamahan ng sakripisyo @reiko @Lizz @gracegfernandez
For me? I will choose the one who love me. I believe that we can learn how to love. Love is something we can't just easily expressed and explain. It is unbelievable. If someone truly expressed his love to me? Being so sincere about it? I would learn to love him. It takes time because I can't easily trust and give my heart to anyone because they love me. It's my heart who will beat for him no matter what happen. Because if it's really LOVE? My heart will feel it. @dyemi @Road.Cash @Ridz
I choose the latter po, be loved by someone u don't love as he will do anything n everything to make u love him po, all the impossible things po n eventually u will learn to love him too po n knowing that the guy loves u so much n will do impossible things, anything n everything just for u just to make u love him too's a good n beautiful thing po as it means, he's sincere n really loves u po @AL_23, @wisdompouch.cd, @Panda
Para sakin i choose the one who loves me. Based on my exprienced kahit pala may mahal ka na pwed ka pa din mag mahal ng iba. So meaning pwede mo mahalin yung tao na nagmamahal sayo kahit di mo sia mahal.hindi man ganun kadali peru matutunan mo din kung nakkikita mo yung effort nya nasasayo na yun kung magpapakatanga sa taong mahal mo nga hindi ka naman mahal, sobrang sakit nyan nakaka depressed yung iba pa nga ngagawang kitilin ang sarili nlang buhay dahil lang sa pag ibig. So thats i why i choose the one who loves me, ikaw ang mag dedesisyon sa sarili mong buhay choice m yan kung gusto mo malungkot habang buhay o mahalin ang tunay na nag mamahal sayo. πππ @nhene @joebyral1415 @reiko
Ako ay naniniwala sa kasabihan na "the more you give, the more you receive." Unrequited love may be harsh for some of us, pero kapag ako ang nasa sitwasyon, kahit hindi reciprocated ang love na ibinibigay ko, I'd still be content with it and hindi na ako mag-hahangad ng iba. Kasi ganun naman ang pag-ibig eh. Hindi mo naman minahal ang tao para mahalin ka pabalik. Minahal mo sila kasi yun ang nararamdaman mo at kung tunay mong mahal ang tao, wala ka nang hihilingin na iba kung hindi ang kasiyahan at kalagayan nila. No complains, no violent reactions kung bakit hindi ka nila kayang mahalin pabalik. Remember, our "now" feelings are only temporary. Eh paano naman kung doon ka sa taong mahal ka pero hindi mo mahal? Anong klase ng saya ang natatanggap mo? Saya ng contentment kasi alam mo sa sarili mo na may nagmamahal sayo kahit labag sa kalooban mo or kahit hindi mo minamahal pabalik o kaya nama'y mapag-aaralan mo rin siya mahalin? Hindi kasi isang subject ang love na pwede mong pag-aralan o i-review kapag malapit na ang exams or dahil lang required siya. Ang pagmamahal, kusang darating yan sayo. It comes within the nature of strong feelings. Kaya sana makasanayan natin na magbigay nang walang hinihinging kapalit at higit sa lahat - mag-mahal nang walang hinihinging kapalit at nang buo sa kalooban. :) Unconditional love is the greatest love. @denzjam @Breeenz @Xevera
Dun ako sa mahal ako kahit ndi ko mahal.. Later on namn matututunan mo ring mahalin ung taong un. Lalo nat kaibig ibig namn sya...or mabuting tao namn sya. Alm mong wala syang gagawin pra mapahamak ka.
Dun ako sa mahal ko dahil gagawin ko ang lahat para matutunan nya rin akong mahalin @WRTR @annoftheroses @MD
I'd rather love someone who doesn't love me. Why? Because im a type of person that no matter what you do if i dont like you. I'll never like you, how much more to be loved. This answer of mine depends on our own personality that's why we have different insights on a certain subject. We all just need to respect whatever we choose in lifeβ€ @Ruffa @Eybyoung @Jane you can share your insights alsoπ
Of course the 2nd option. Being loved by someone whom I don't love. Love is a strange feeling which gives us satiation in loving someone who hates us too. But! after being neglected for a period, the satisfaction will not work a lot. That's why some people may regret the whole life by loving and choosing the wrong person a life partner. On the other hand, if I go with the person who loves me, for sure, in being positive, on the day my feelings for him also arise. And maybe we will be in a happy relationshipπ₯°
maybe I'll choose the one who love me coz love can be learn and love can wait until you learn to love him. coz in love you have to be patience and accepts him or her. sometimes love is hard to find. @Cy-cy @prettyjhen @Japzuey
Mas pipiliin ko ang taong mahal ako. I do believed that love can be learn lalo pa kung tunay at sincere ang pagmamahal ng tao sayo. Ako kasi yong tao na di ipagsisiksikan o ipipilit sarili pag hindi ako mahal. Hindi yung bigay lang ng bigay, mahal ko sarili ko at ayoko masaktan in the process. Yung tipong ibubuhos mo pagmamahal mo sa isang tao na di ka naman mahal, nagsasayang ka lang ng oras at effort. Selfish para sa iba, para sakin it is self-love. Matuto ka ding pahalagan ng sarili mo. If it hurts, and will not make you grow, let go. Ibigay mo atensyon mo sa taong kaya kang pahalagahan , kaya ipakita sayo ung pagmamahal at pag aalaga.
I rather choose Loved by someone I don't love. Why? Kasi mas maganda na mas mahal ka kesa mahalin yung hindi ka mahal. Masasaktan ka lang. Mas magandang piliin yung tao na mahal ka atleast siya Mahal ka niya. Hindi mo man siya magugustuhan sa ngayon, balang araw makikita mo din yung halaga niya. Mas masarap pag may tao na nagpaparamdam sayo kung gaano ka kahalaga, gaano ka niya kamahal, gaano ka ka importante sakanya. Kesa sa taong walang interes sayo, hindi ka niya pinapahalagahan, hindi ka niya inaalagaam at sinasaktan kalang. Mas maganda na mahalin yung taong mahal ka din. π Kasi ako? Ilang beses na naloko, ilang beses na nasaktan. May lalaki na nanligaw sakin last year 2018 diko siya sinagot, ilang beses ko siya pinagtabuyan pero ngayon hanggang ngayon andito parin siya nag antay sakin ng matagal. Siya lang yung lalaki na kahit ilang beses ko ipinagtabuyan, at sinaktan. Nakikita niya padin yung halaga ko. Pinakita niya sakin kung gaano ako kahalaga at kaimportante sakanya π at dahil diyan nagustuhan ko din siya wish ko lang na sana siya na talaga. @Ruffa @Cristy @Jhess18 paki sagot yung tanong π€£
Walang sagot sa tanong Kung bakit di ka mahalaga ππ
Teka teka HAHa π€£ yung question sa taas dear. Halla baket parang aken πpero hindi pala siya ang para sakin @SirPotato
Ahahaha, kumanta lang naman me, haha mahalagay mahalaga ka sa jowakels mo π di ako inggit, i still have @sirPotato, good for mashed potato and french fries π€€π€€ π€€
I'd rather love someone who love me kahit di ko siya mahal kasi you can learn to love naman ehh..kesa naman sa mahal mo.pero dika ka naman mahal diba? Lugi ang Lola mo pag ganern.. Sakit sa puso aabutin mo mapapa its really hurt ka nalang ππ PS: Di to kasali sa entry nasagot lang po akoπ
For me i will choose someone who doesnt love me because if he see how much i love him and know that i will do every thing just for him..he will learn and apreciate me.
I'd rather choose the one who loves me, as you are stating on that question, it was about yourself right, so you still have an option to learn and to realized the things that the person will doing to show their love to you, people comes to that point in reality, a realization and a guilt on to value the person that loves you and youre not loving them back, cause if you choose the one who dont love you, is like forcing your love to someone you dont deserve, think of it.
Pipiliin ko ung mahal ako kesa mahal ko Pwede namn matutunan mahalin ung ndi mo mahal. Pag lage kayu magkasama matututunan mo din sya magustuhan. Mahirap namn kc ipilit mo ung sarili mo sa ayaw mo namn sayo @okia @joebyral1415 @rizza
Thanks for upvoting @annoftheroses
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I would still choose to love someone even if she doesn't love me back, I ofcourse have no choice over whether or not she will accept me. But if I ask her out 100 times,200 times, or 100000 times, she'll eventually acknowledge my sincerity at least once,wont she? Even if it ends in frustration. The time I spent passionately seeking her love will always remain a good memory.π @jihan @ARC-fortune @xyrxyl