Mom Guilt

Blog:173-10th
Date :September 18,2022
Time :3:08pm

I've been so busy at work these past weeks and today even if it is supposed to be my day off I choose to work since my reliever can't make it today because she's busy with school activities and projects. I asked my boss if I could go to work today because I know we still have many customers who need our services like ID pictures and document printing for students. Sayang din naman ang sales and my salary for today .I've spent too much this week especially since I had to change the two tires of my motorcycle. Anyway, my article for today is about Never have I ever -Mom Edition. I first found this article through sis @Marinov -Never have I Ever "Mom" Edition yet I also bumped into sis@Chelle18 article entitled I used my shirt as a tissue! Feel free to read their articles too.Without further ado let's begin.

Touched a poop

Oh yes! I think most of us moms experience it unless we are using wet tissue or tissue to wipe the butt of our babies or kids. When my two kids were still infants I use Lampin(cloth) to wipe their butts when they poop but as they grow I had to use my hands to clean their butts since I wash them with water.

Said"Because I said so"

Yes, I said this to my eldest daughter. I had to tell her that kasi dami niyang tanong eh.

Hid a Snack

Never.Wala naman din akong itatago LOL.Poor be like. As a mom, I learned to prioritize what my kids want.

Been Peed On

Yes, many times.Both my Daughter and son.Especially my son when he still didn't know how to ask permission when he wants to pee. Glad this time he knows how to ask permission when he wanted to pee.

Drove Around to Help Kid Sleep

No.Never did tried it.Maybe Drove around para maaliw ang tinutupak kong bunso.Sinanay kasi ni hubby na isakay sa motor kaya ngayon alam na niyang mag ask ng favor sakay daw,yun lang sinasabi niya.Mama or Papa "Sakay".But everytime bumibyahe kami ng medyo malayo nakakatulog siya pero minsan naman ang likot kakatingin sa mga sasakyang dadaan.

Used shirt as a tissue

I did this many times especially those times na malayo or tinatamad na akong kumuha ng towels niya to wipe his tears,his running nose or laway or even yung my dumi yung mukha niya.

Finished your child's meal

All the time especially if I am the one who feeds my son.My daughter kasi palakain dati kaya ubos talaga ang food niya.

Licked pacifier to clean it

No! No! No! I never did this. I only tried using my clothes to clean it but I never tried licking it.

Had Mom Guilt

Always. When I had my first born I was a single mom so I had no choice but to leave my daughter so I can find a job so can provide for her needs. She was only 3 years old when I decided to work in Cebu. It's painful for me to be away from her knowing that I have a drunkard Dad and she already had a traumatic experience every time my dad got drunk but I left with no choice. I felt guilty that she never experience a normal life as I had to bring her to my workplace when she was 4 years old until she was 13 years old.

Now with my son, I am still a working mom and I feel guilty that I never spend most of my time with him since I have to work 6x a week. I had to go back to work when he was still around 2 months old. Now he is 2 years old and mostly he cries every time I leave the house.

Been Puked on

Yes, many times especially with my son. Whenever his asthma attacks and he won't stop coughing which made him puke. He pukes like a fountain.

Breastfed in public

Yes, I did especially with my firstborn since I breastfeed her until she was 1 year and 7 months old unlike my son that only breastfeed him until he was 7 months old.

Hid in the Bathroom

No I never tried this kasi kahit mag CR ako kandong kandong ko si bunso.Even until now na 2 years na siya.

Given your Child, the "Look"

Yes, many times lalo na with my daughter. She knows when I am up to something or I am mad.Sa laki ba naman ng mata ko natatakot talaga siya wala pa nga akong sinasabi LOL.

Had a daughter

Yes, I was blessed with a daughter when I was 18 years old . I was a teen mom.

Had a son

Yes, I was blessed to have my second child when I was 32 years old. My son is an answered prayer as I really wanted to have another baby and I really wish to have a son.

Been afraid of childbirth

Yes, when I was about to give birth to my first born I was still young and didn't have much knowledge about pregnancy and childbirth.Funny how my doctor make fun of me by telling me na nagngingipin na daw yung baby ko sa loob ng tiyan ko kasi super tagal lumabas.I was afraid too dahil di ko alam umiri.Kamuntikan na akong ma CS,I was scheduled for CS around 2pm buti nalang eh I tried my best na lumabas si daughter ng normal at yun lumabas siya around 1:15pm.

Ending thoughts

When we become a mom we tend to discover a lot of different things na hindi natin alam na kaya pala nating gawin.We made alot of sacrifices para sa ating mga anak.

Anyway I think that's all for today's blog.Busy man ako pero natapos ko rin itong sagutan.

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