Is it necessary to get married if you get pregnant?
Blog 67-16th
Date :April 27,2022
Time :1:36pmGetting married is a serious matter that should be tackled by the couple.
When Angie got pregnant by Apeh(hubby's bro) my in-laws decided to let them be married. As Angie told me she just knew that she was getting married because my mother-in-law told her to go to the municipal hall to sign the paper. Now Angie and Apeh's marriage is failing. Angie is working abroad while Apeh is just living with my in-law with his daughter. As I know they are just communicating for the sake of their daughter.
Moreover, when my in-laws knows that I am pregnant they decided to visit our L house and talk to my parents about our wedding. Honestly, it just came up in my mind that they should have asked us first what's our plan if we want to be married. But they just decided on their own without asking our opinion on their decision. They should know it better that I got pregnant just 2 months after hubby and I started our relationship. They know that we are still in the stage of adjustment. We still need time to know more each other. As for now, we are already married for 2 years and 3 months. Those year was a disaster and full of regrets. We always had fights because of the wrongdoings of my husband. If I didn't stay strong and hold on to our relationship then maybe I had already given up on our marriage. For me, we are just living together for the sake of our son. Respect is there but I can't feel the love any more. I don't trust him anymore. He gives me reasons to doubt him even when we still started our relationship.
However, hubby had another brother (eldest brother). Vil is currently in a relationship with Cel who is a single mom of 2. Now they have their own daughter and they decided to get married. They were supposed to have their Civil wedding this coming June but then just recently Cel didn't want to marry Vil anymore. I understand her reasons. She's been into failed relationship with the father of her two kids. Yet Vil is acting like a single man who keeps having drinking sessions. He's now a smoker too and even join cock fighting too. Now Cel doesn't want to be married so whenever happens it will be easy for them to part ways. This is true. I just hope that my in-laws will respect Cel's decision because after all, Cel is the one who is working for their own family.
Ending thoughts
In my own opinion, it's not necessary for a girl to get married after getting pregnant after all it will take time for us to know more about the person we wanted to be with. I believe that you will get to know the true colors of a person if you both live in the same place. What do you think about this matter?
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I know a college friend, they just got engaged this week but before that happened, they were in a 10 year relationship and they already had a daughter. By tradition, our parents would want us the children to get married when a girl gets pregnant out of responsibility. But today, some people are not adhering to that anymore and they will marry when their decision is final, and not simply because they had a child.