I got engaged twice

Blog:197-3rd
Date :November 03,2022
Time :04:07pm

Saying yes when someone proposes to a marriage means that you are ready to be with that man for the rest of your life. But that's not what happened to my engagement.

Danish boyfriend

The year 2015 when I first got engaged to my Danish boyfriend. After being in a relationship for 8 months he decided to propose. Not a surprise proposal at all as he ask my parents first if they are okay if us getting married. My parents agreed. So he told me that we will buy the engagement ring, and he told me to choose the ring I want. When we arrive at the jewelry shop I was choosing the ring I like the typical engagement ring with a stone or diamond on the top but he told me that it is not suitable for me because of my job, hmmm what's the matter with my job? I only face the computer and type on the keyboard. Then we switch to another jewelry shop I choose something without a stone on it but still, he refuses since the saleslady already notice that my boyfriend is kuripot(stingy she then advised me to choose the thicker ring, not that expensive, I think it only cost like six thousand pesos. Finally, my boyfriend finally agreed. When we got home I expect him to put the ring on my finger but it never happens, I told him if he doesn't have any plan to put that ring on my finger, that was the only time he get the ring and put it on my finger. See how sweet he is?LOL. Honeslty he is not a romantic person.

I ended up our relationship through chat. It was the time when he is back at his place. He kept on complaining about why I am not working on the progress of my Visa since me and my daughter already have our own passports at that time. Honestly, I don't like going to their place, I was just thinking of the safety of my daughter and how I will work on the Visa when he doesn't even bother to send me money to process the Visa. If he really wants us to go to their place he will surely tell me to take a break from my work so I can focus on processing the Visa but he didn't do it.

Even if we already broke up he never deleted our photos together from his Facebook account. The reason why when he had a new girlfriend they will contact me asking me what is my relationship with Thomas. I told them about our history and what had happened then they told me that Thomas was talking bad things about me like he spend almost half a million visiting me twice in the Philippines. It's not true at all coz He is so stingy.

American Boyfriend

I was engaged for the second time to my American boyfriend. We were in a long-distance relationship for around 3 months before he decided to visit me here in the Philippines. He resign from his job coz he wanted to stay in Philippines for good. So since he will be staying here for 3 months I decided to quit from my job. Gaga ko noh. Nag quit talaga kasi akala ko siya na forever ko eh.So we live in an apartment in the city. I had to transfer my daughter to the nearest school where we live. Our relationship was not smooth yet we stayed together until the time that he needed to go back to his place to do something important. When we are back to a long-distance relationship I was shocked at how demanding he is of my time. He wants me to prioritize him over the household chores I needed to do. Not only that but he was asking me for a se*ual video of me doing it myself. I felt so embarrassed about what he is asking for. He told me that it is my obligation coz he is the one providing my needs. I felt so depressed at that time and I even lose weight. Until he decided to break up with me. His reason is he can't take it anymore. He is tired of supporting me. Honestly, I was so happy when he broke up with me. Why happy? I can't stand what he demands from me anymore. He is causing me stress already. He even blocked me on Facebook after he broke up with me.

I just knew that He got married to a Filipina before he died last August 2020. His daughter inform me of what happened to her dad.

Ending thoughts

Life is unpredictable we still don't know what will happen next. We thought we already plan our life but God has a better plan for us.

I may not end up marrying the two of them but I know God has his own reason why it all happened.

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