Spoiled Child, Whose Fault?

April 29, 2022 (Friday)

Hello, hello readcash community. It's another Friday and tomorrow is gonna be a rest day for some but for a mother like me, everyday is working day. We don't have holidays but it is still worthwhile for performing our duties like taking care our children is the most beautiful job especially when we see them smile. So, kudos to all mothers out here.

Why there are children who are spoiled? What makes them like that? What could be the possible factor of their behavior?

Why am I asking those questions? The other day, my brother called me. It was his day off so we had a long time chitchatting. My brother is currently working at David's salon.I learned that he was reassigned to Laguna. I told him to pay a visit to our biological mother since Laguna and Cavite is just a neighbor town. He just laughed. Maybe he doesn't want to go there. Well I can't blame him. Until he shared to me that there was one time that the mother let out her frustrations about her daughters, which are our half-sisters. She shared to my brother that she and her daughter had a huge fight. Her daughter asked her to buy I think that was a jewelry but she declined for she didn't have enough money. Her daughter got mad and they fought. Her two daughters are spoiled according to my  brother.

There was also one time that the mother had got positive by the COVID-19. I think that was last year when my brother informed me about that news. Though my brother has a tiny grudge for the mother for what she had done to us, but that time, he felt sorry for her. Why? Her daughters didn't take care of her. Instead, they were with their friends hanging everywhere around. He saw their posts being with their friends enjoying in the cafe or in the beach. They just neglected their mother who suffered.

But whose fault is that? Who's to blame? I told my brother that it is the parents fault why his half-sisters are spoiled or acted like that. Well, it is the parents responsibility to give their children's need. But they should also give limitations and not pamper them to much. There are many cases that many parents want to shower their child with their undying love and tend to overdo it. Pampering children is different from loving them. There's nothing wrong in giving them gifts but we also need to explain them that we can't give them everything they want. I understand that it is the parents innate urge to please their children by always giving them gifts. But this behavior may led the children to think that they are entitled receiving those gifts. So as young as they are, it is very important to teach and inculcate them the importance of hard work in order to acquire things.

Now with my daughter, I started to teach her that she needs to earn a present. I didn't buy her presents everyday for aside the fact the she didn't like it, I also don't want to spoil her with things. I personally believe that if you love your children, you will teach them with good behavior. Disciplining them is a good way of showing our love to them. Teaching them with the good behaviors is the best thing we can give to them as a parent for they can bring it when they grow old.

This is all I can share for today fellas. I failed to write yesterday for I was not in the mood because of the not-so-good circumstances that happened. I did try to read some articles but I can't comprehend much the topics for my mind was so bothered. But now, I'm feeling better and able to be productive. Yeyyy, I am happy for myself.haha charing.

Thank you guys for reading. I appreciate your time. Till the next blog.

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