Marriage is not all about sex.

Being in love is one of the most precious feelings that a person can feel. Love can change a person. Love conquers all. But not love story has a happy ending. Couple broke up with the different reason. Maybe it's all about cheating, conflicts between family or you just want to grow as an individual.

Why do people cheat?

Based on my experience as I am a cheater in my past life, i cheated because i am looking for some attention. I want a company or something that can fulfill my loneliness. I want adventure and excitement and my partner can't fulfill those because we are in a long distance relationship.

Not being contented on your partner. Maybe one of the reason is also this maybe that's the main reason why people cheat. I know we have different kind of story, different reason but those story and reason cannot justify his or her act of cheating.

I came up on this topic..

Earlier in the morning as i was scrolling my facebook newsfeed, i saw a post of marites page about the breakup reason of moira and jason. They said that the reason of the breakup is because jason became unfaithful to moira. Being unfaithful means he was engage on spakol thingy. Spakol is a special offer massaging and there's a special service after. I don't know if it's true but based on what i saw on facebook it was like that.

Why jason do this thing.

According to facebook post, they said that jason do that because moira always said no to a sex.

My husband and i talked about it and i shared to him the issue and of course he said that it is not a valid reason for people to cheat. And then i find out that the reason why moira don't want to have sex is because over depression.

And that reminds me of myself because I also feel this way. Sometimes when I said no when my husband want a sex he is not in the mood next day. Sometimes we didn't talk to each other the whole day and I know the reason why he is not in the mood because I said no.

For a person who are experiencing anxiety or depression I will tell you it is not easy to make yourself okay. I know there's a lot of single here or maybe in a relationship and I want you to know that sex is not all about spreading your legs. It's not all about that that's why I am really having a hard time to have an intimacy time with my husband when I have an anxiety. I am lucky because despite of my multiple no to him he still remains faithful and never ask for ispakol haha.

Yes, sexual intimacy is a part of marriage. However, marriage is not solely about sex. Marriage, on the other hand, is about fulfilling God's mission for you as a couple in raising the next generation who will glorify and fulfill His mandate to disciple the next generation for Jesus Christ.