I already mentioned here a week ago that we are going to stay in my inlaws house. Honestly, I am not comfortable with staying at here. It is not because of my in laws but because on the people around us. I mean the neighborhood of my in laws. Everytime we visited here, they always noticed our son. They are always comparing my son to other babies and its not okay with me. I want to express my feelings , I want to talk to them why they are like that but I choose to stay quiet and calm because I dont want an issue. I remember a time that I cried in the room because I cant handle my emotions anymore.
Last year when we visited here , they said " your son is turning one year old but he doesnt able to walk yet, your son seems so soft, my son when he is one year old he already walked "
The other said " your son is thin and short, my baby is bouncing and big "
And a lot more than makes my ego hurt. It feels like I am not giving my best to my son. But then Kyrie started walking by 13 months and now he was running and try to hide and escape from me now 😅
So after a year. We are here again. Kyrie is now 21 months old. Yesterday his Papa give him a walk outside the house. I hear a voice saying. " Is your son already speak? " my husband said " yes a little bit " then this neighborhood speaks to my son and son didnt response. The neighborhood smiles like theres other meaning and said hes going two years old, by this time he should pronounced some words. My husband just stay quiet and ignored thier neighbor.
I know, babies has different development. Just adults are different when it comes to maturity. I dont want to pressure my son regarding his development. All I know is I will support him and guide him all the time.
I am just thinking that why other people are like that?
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He's just a late bloomer. A kid I know is like that too (and we're friends). He talked when he is already three, I think. Bow that he's four, he still can't talk properly but he's very smart and sweet.
Don't mind those gossipers haha. Be a good mom and teacher and slap them with your baby's improvements. Anyways, you don't have to prove anything to them lol.