Your Reaction Matters A Lot

Hello my beautiful friends, u trust you are having a wonderful weekend. I went to visit my boyfriend, so I have been busy. I promise to read all the posts in my notification as they matter a lot to me.

I went with my boyfriend to the coffee store today. We just wanted something unusual. While we were there, some guys walked in, they were so handsome and I admired them, hey! Don't look at me that way, I told my boyfriend about it.lol!  While they were being served coffee.the waiter mistakenly spilled some on one of the guy's shirt. He never waited for an apology from the waiter, he slapped him and pushed him. Ewww! I overheard myself say that, while my boyfriend laughed at me. I was greatly pissed by his actions and that was the reason I reacted that way.

A lot of times, we've heard people say, I really admired that lady/guy but I don't like the way he reacts to issues. This shows how much emphasis is laid on your reactions. I called it, your first impression. What would you do, if you were to be that guy? Will you have reacted in a different way or same way? Of course everyone would have reacted in a different way, who doesn't want to serve his/her reputation. But the truth remains, the way we react to situations, tells a lot about our personality. 

Like the guy at the coffee store, I could tell he isn't a patient type and gets pissed off at every slight mistake. I don't think anyone would like to have anything serious with such people. That's how important you need to be mindful of how you react to situations.

How do you react to Tough times?

Do you throw in the towel and walk out or do you stay crying all day. The truth is, our strength is measured from how we react to situations. Regardless of how tough or demanding it is, you are expected to lay calm, think of other options before you do anything. You don't just give up on your dream, because you failed at it again. You have to weigh your decisions and try again.

That's why, when the police want to arrest you, they are watchful of your reactions. They give a command and watch your response. That could be used to detect an offender from an innocent person. Ever heard them say ' put your hands in the hand, anything you say will be used against you in the court of law? That's to explain, your action can either set you free or lock you. So when you try anything, you really need to weigh the consequences first.

Your reaction to things can be used to detect, if you are lying or not. I know of a friend, who blinks her eyes and looks away while she is lying. As simple as that, you could get the truth from here, even without asking her. Though this is a great format to use to detect her sincerity level, this could also be used to harm her. 

If one is conversant with her eyes blinking, looking at some other place, while lying. She could be forced to do things outside her will because they could detect she is able to do them, even when she doesn't want to.

Finally, how we react to things could either tint our reputation and I will admonish everyone to react accordingly. You don't need to be warned before you react accurately. Even when you are taken unaware, you still need to put up your best reaction. The world is always watching us.