Identify Your Own Niche

Has it ever occurred to you why the caterpillar and the butterfly doesn't feed on the same food source? It is because they operate on different niche though both are found on the same plant. While one feeds on the nectar of flowers the other feeds on the leaf of plants. You will all agree with me that the leaf is more nutritious than the nectar while still agreeing that the nectar is sweeter than the leaf.

Have you ever wondered why they don't feed on the same food source?

It never crossed your mind as you were so bothered why your friend's business is more productive than yours or why the person you invited to the platform is more favoured by @TheRandomRewarder than you. It's no new thing all of us were born with that spirit of being jealous. It's just one fact that you can not deny. We all have felt that butterfly build inside of us when we discovered our friend bought a new car or phone. You are now concerned about what gave her such huge favour and without thinking twice you dive into what gave them wealth without thinking twice.

Forgetting everyone has their own speed lane and it is what makes us unique. You don't expect to get the same tip as your friend or a different user who wrote on a certain topic because you did the same. You should rather focus on your ability, what gets the audience entertained and write on. Everyone wasn't meant to be a musician, doctor or actor. We are unique and finding our niche is all that matters to making life comfortable. Have you ever wondered about the parable of the talents, each person was given according to what he would be able to reproduce. You can't be given a role you will not be able to play.

The world would be a better place if we are able to understand this fact, rather than go around trying to patch our lives up. You can't be a model, an actor and a musician at once. But due to the pressure of living large like your friend, you opted into doing it and it never ended well. Life was never meant to be stressful or full of pleasure but since you are trying so hard to live like others, you are always under pressure. 

Always know someone out there will be richer than you, more beautiful, stronger and more powerful than you. It doesn't mean you haven't tried but just have it at the back of your mind it wasn't your own niche. Changing your line of business, changing your area of focus just to see if you could be favoured won't earn you all the money you want. You just have to be satisfied with whatever you are doing.

Don't be under unnecessary pressure just to trend. Be yourself and you will be happy you did. It could be their turn today to have all the wealth but you should also know it could be yours too. Life was meant to be easy, live it without pressure. Identify your own niche and live happily there. 

Much love from Belgium!

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