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People Would Surely Talk About You

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You'll agree with me that people are so quick to judge, they percieve from afar and conclude so quick, they be like "is it not that guy? he can't get the job done", "is it not that girl? she can't get married " "oh that family, they hardly get by every day, so fast so easy to conclude about someone else's and sadly we too take this to mind and starts feeling down, now the issue is when we are sad because of what people have said instead of just believing on in ourselves and keep pushing ourselves to greater heights regardless of their hurtful opinions.

The reality of things is that people don't really care, you see they can say whatever they like however they like it, doesn't concern them who they hurt on the way. This action has often led to depression for a lot of people listening a lot of people, listening to what people have said about them and believe in it to be true, However we must know our live belongs to us and us alone. We have the singular power to change at will, whenever or however it pleases us. This is the beauty of life, the free individualistic choices we have.

Well, we all get guilty off this, we all judge people in our heads, only that few of us knows better than to speak it out so it doesn't hurt another. We know not everyone is emotionality intelligent, as some would deal with it easily, some others won't and it'll lead to stigmas in their life, huge enough for them to deal with alone, might require a therapist to help them through. Hopefully they meet a good therapist, cause if they don't then life might keep being a rollercoaster ride, as they hardly find peace within theirselves.

The bitter truth is that no matter how tough you claim to be, you'll still care a lot about what people has to say concerning you. I might act like I'm living my life regardless, but I know deep down that I wish people would say what I love rather than the hurtful words they say currently. I can only act up for sometimes or get used to it especially when I have no option than to continue, maybe because of my job, or because of a certain benefits I enjoy from it, so I don't want to stop regardless of the hurtful and accusing fingers from people, but bet you I really wish I can be on the good side of people.

It doesn't matter what you are people will talk if you're good people will talk if you're bad people will talk if you're white if you're black if you're tall, if you're thin, if you're a short they would talk. Talking is one of our major fun excercises, so you can't stop anyone from expressing their opinions, or should I say, you shouldn't stop anyone from expressing their opinions, cause you can decide to confront the supposed gossiped and beat them up, so you shouldn't stop anyone, that's not the way out, there is a better way out.

Well the first step is to judge for yourself, If people are talking, then they must have clearly seen something to talk about, there must be a content of any such before people would talk, so what are they talking about, is it good or bad? If it's good then that's fine, if it's bad, then do you want to change or not, don't be surprised a lot of people don't want to turn a new leave, and would continue doing what they please regardless of they knowing what they're doing is outrightly bad. Now after knowing all this, you'll feel more relaxed knowing fully well you've dealt with the issue within yourself.

Stop letting people get to you easily, especially when you feel you're in the right track, you shouldn't switch course because of fear or because of humility of what people has said, no one really care, that word you heard and is causing you sleepless night, may just be a pure cruise, the person who said it might not talk it seriously but there you're hurt and battling with emotions and bad mood swings. More reason why its best we see things for ourselves too. Don't forget that person who talks about you is also being talked about by someone else, so take it easy with yourself.

I too wish there's a easy way to get them to stop, or an authority you could report gossips to and they would take it up for you, but apparently it'll be treated as a minor issue, though you're feeling hurt and hated, and that is because it truly is a minor issue, one you can deal with within yourself and still live a healthy life. Don't take something's too serious, it's just life remember, find your happiness and shun bad energy. People would Surely talk about you, it's all part of life's experience.

Thanks For Reading.

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Do not bring people in your life who weigh you down. Choose your friends wisely and also choose friends that you can trust. ❤️❤️❤️

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1 month ago

That's so right. Be with people we can never be too careful as people change.

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1 month ago

I strongly agree with you that people judge so easily even without knowing anything about you and without knowing what you have been through

But we all do the same thing because sometimes we say things like "where did this little boy get this amount of money" meanwhile we don't know his age and what he does for living but we have judge without knowing him from anywhere

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1 month ago

You know right, it's a crazy world we live in, however we would he fine, all is well 💪

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1 month ago

Yeah buddy

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1 month ago

That'a life indeed. People will always say bad things upon us without knowing the whole story. We just need to ignore them and focus what to our goals and desire. Yes, it hurts but that's the sad reality about thr peope around us. 😊

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1 month ago

Yes, we are mostly quick to judge. However life continues, we must keep living anyways

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1 month ago

I don't mind them. I will roll my life the way I want it

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1 month ago

Lol, that's the spirit dear, keep being you.

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1 month ago

Yeah we have to. People's opinion doesn't matter to me

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1 month ago

You are right people will always find a way to criticise you no matter what you do or what you look like so stop caring about their opinion. Never change yourself to make others happy.We are unique and that's enough for us.

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1 month ago

That's right, don't ever give in to their words, be true to yourself.

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1 month ago

Don't let other people control you by their words, you know yourself more than they do. So prove them wrong ✨

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1 month ago

Indeed we know ourselves more, we shouldn't be tossed to and fro by others words.

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1 month ago

True ✨

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1 month ago

People around would always gossip about us and our life. Let them be. We know ourselves better than them. I've been there a lot of times, even now. But I don't care! I will live my life the way I wanted it to be. ❣

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1 month ago

Simple let them be, its their mouth however. 😁

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1 month ago

When we know ourselves better, we won't be swayed and sidetracked by what other people would say.

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1 month ago

Yes that's true, so we need to self reflect and understand ourselves better.

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1 month ago

I agree with you, that we must also judge ourselves maybe we did something wrong. But if they will still gossip then the problem is not with us it's in their behaviour.

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1 month ago

Yes let's self reflect if we're guilty and need to change, if not just keep being yourself.

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1 month ago

I feel that it's not even ours to judge ourselves not to talk of others. Don't forget that whether we like it or not people will definitely talk about us, we just should try to ignore 🤷and be less concerned about it.

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1 month ago

Indeed people would always talk, we should just keep being ourselves

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1 month ago

It's actually kinda sad to know that 'people talking about you is normal'. Like, yeah, we know it affects our self esteem greatly, and our mental aspect as well, bit we have to accept that this happens, no matter how we try to stop it from happening. It's like accepting the fact that others will really be there to talk about us, and hurt us, intentionally or not.

The real secret is knowing who we REALLY are, and not minding what others may say. They may talk a lot and spread lies, but at least, we have OURSELVES that know the real us, and we are not required to explain to them.

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1 month ago

Indeed, the real secret is when we know who we truly are, and be sure, then we would live our lives truly.

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1 month ago

As they say, no matter how good you are to others, there are still some people who don't like you. We have so many people like this in our place. People who loves to mind other people's businesses. For me, I just ignored them. They can talk about me all they want, I don't care. As long as I am happy what I do and know that I didn't hurt others, it is very fine with me.

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1 month ago

You know right. Just do your thing conscience free, knowing you're right on track.

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1 month ago

Let them talk. Yes, that's right. Let them do their job. They will find your fault & that will help you to recover from that mistake. Ignore their example & answers against you. One day they will have their answers. Don’t forget to ask them for a cup of tea then. 😜

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1 month ago

Truly one day they would have their clear answer undoubtedly. Just keep doing and being you.

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1 month ago

That's the spirit

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1 month ago

Yes that's the spirit

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