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Never Have I Ever Never have I ever, this is a question and answer game wherein you be asked random questions related to you and you will answer either, “I never have” or “I have” And since I don’t have someone to talk to, then I will just give you my own kind of “NEVER HAVE I EVER” in my previous relationship. Never Have I Ever Been to a Relationship Well, I have but that was years ago, way back Senior High School. He was 4 years older than me, so when I was high school he was already a college student. The relationship didn’t last longer than expected (haha) due to some personal reasons. And since then I’m an NBSB – No Boyfriend Since Break. Yes, because I realize that I need to have some ME TIME, I have to love myself first more than anything else. And right now I’m just patiently waiting for the right one to come along. 📍Never Have I Ever Go on A Date I never have, yes I may have been in a relationship but I never ever goes on a date. It’s not that he never asked me to but it’s because I don’t want to, but I did not tell him that. Every time he asks me on a date I always say “Ask my mom first if she allows us to.” But before he gets to ask my mom, I already told my mom about it and made a deal to never ever let me go on a date with him. And when he gets to ask mom, my mom would always say “I won’t allow, maybe next time.” And that’s a success for me. It’s not that I don’t love or trust him but it’s because I just want to avoid temptations. Yes, I may think weird that time but I know it’s only for my own sake, because we will not know what will happen. Temptations are just right around the corner. It’s better safe than sorry. 📍Never Have I Ever Been Kissed (Lips) I never have, we’ve been years together but I never ever did allow him to kiss me. And that is wonderful for me because it would be strange to get kissed by someone you love that now turned to be someone you used to know. Strangers to lovers, to strangers but now with memories. YES!! It’s because I have this principle of mine that my first kiss would be on my wedding day. I know it’s weird, but it’s me. You call that being weird but to me, I call it save the best for last. Kissing the one you love is precious, that’s why I don’t want to give it just to someone, I wanna give to that last one, the only one I would spend the rest of my life with. So, whoever you may be please don’t kiss just anyone yet. HAHA cuz I’m saving mine for you. Perfect!! 📍Never Have I Ever Get Jealous I have, but in years of in a relationship I only got jealous once, yes as far as I remember it only happened once. It was when you go out with your ex. YES!! His Ex isn’t it amazing, going out just the two of you with your ex. Just great. HAHA well, that only happened once like I said cuz I’m not a jealous type of a person. Well it depends if that involves my sister, haha. I get jealous when my mom buys stuff to my sister without buying me anything, like hello? I thought were family here, haha just kidding. Author’s Note. Well, that’s it for my own NEVER HAVE I EVER portion. If you have questions, you can just comment it in the comment section below. And I will try to answer it as much as possible. Have a nice day ahead. ~Love Teensy.💕
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God’s Answer to all Your SANAOL (Part III) If you ever read my previous articles, I already tackled 2 God’s answer of your SANAOL. And this time, this will be last part. God’s Answer to all Your SANAOL – The Last Part 📍SANAOL MAY KWENTA Have you ever wondered even once in your life what’s your purpose in life? Have ever questioned your existence? Why are you even born in the first place? Is there a reason behind it or you just came out unexpectedly? Life experiences can sometimes make us question our existence, we even evaluate what’s our purpose like, *“Sanaol may kwenta”* If you ever question you purpose, here’s God’s answer to that. *“For we are God’s handiworks, created in Christ Jesus to do works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” ~Ephesians 2:10* Meaning you are not just a passerby in this world, you are not like a mushroom that pops up everywhere, you are not the sperm that you thought who won the race you thought you are, silly as it sounds but you are here alive and well for you have a purpose to do so. And that is to live a life accordingly, you are given a once in a lifetime opportunity to experience God’s wonders and creations. Just like as the saying goes, *“Everything happens for a reason”* Cliché line, but when you apply it to your life, you happen to be the reason and that’s why you’re here. Don’t be discourage when no one sees your purpose, sees your existence as someone important. Don’t stress yourself out wondering your purpose in life. Remember that you are God’s handiwork, you are His creation. And your purpose is to live your life to the fullest, enjoy while you still can, enjoy while it last, but live your life accordingly – just, right, and fair. What’s your sanaol? YOU ARE A SANAOL MAY KWENTA 📍SANAOL MAHALAGA Who among you here already have someone who takes care of you? Someone who sees you as a precious one? If no one does, then here’s God’s answer to that. *“Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life.” ~ Isaiah 43:4* If you are not precious to someone, it’s okay because you alone are precious and honored to God’s sight. This is not a comforting word to uplift you up for now, this is not made-up but this the assurance and promise of God. How precious are you in His sight? *“And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered.” ~Matthew 10:30* See, all your hairs are not counted but numbered. Imagine having all your hair being numbered one by one. Imagine when your hair falls, for you it’s just a hair but to God it’s like saying *“That’s your number 1028 hair”* and that’s how precious you are that even in your little details God made sure to know it. So, if no one takes care of you yet, don’t be sad for you are cared and protected by God’s grace, because you are PRECIOUS TO HIM. What’s your sanaol? YOU ARE A SANAOL MAHALAGA And the last sanaol of them all 📍SANAOL MAHAL To love and to be love, is it that hard to ask? Let’s not make this long, let’s go straight to the point. *“The Lord appeared to us in the saying: 'I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with unfailing kindness'”. ~ Jeremiah 31:3* God loved us with an everlasting love, and I know for sure that we all know that. Love in this world is never certain, we never know how long can a person love us, and how true and pure it is but God’s love is unmeasurable. If no one loves you yet, God’s love is there. And that is His promise to us. Lastly, what’s your sanaol? YOU ARE A SANAOL MAHAL Author’s Note: Hopefully some of your sanaol is now answered. Whatever it may be always remember that God has an answer to it. Keep in your mind, heart, and soul that you are **BEAUTIFUL, CHOSEN, MADE FOR A PURPOSE, PRECIOUS CHILD OF GOD, AND YOU ARE LOVED FOREVER.** Declaring you will have a blessed day. ~Love Teensy. 💕
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God's Answer to all Your SANAOL (Part 2) Have you ever wondered as to why no one choose you yet? Like what’s there not to like in me? Why does everyone already have someone who choose them? And why not me? With these lingering questions in mind all you have left to say is “Sanaol Pinili”. Here is another answer to your sanaol. God’s answer to your sanaol. A continuation of my article yesterday. SANAOL PINILI Most of us especially the young ones – new generation relates to this, most of the time this is their rants on different social media platforms, mainly Facebook. Rants as to why their crushes won’t crush them back. Like, *“Crush, ano na? galaw-galaw”* *"Sanaol kina crushback"* Everyone already have their own partners in life, boyfriend or maybe someone that you have mutual feelings with. And here you are sitting in the corner waiting for the right one to come along. As you wait don’t get discourage because before anything else, before you came into this world, you are already a chosen one. *“But you are a* ***chosen people****, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” ~I Peter 2:9* God wants you to remember His word that you are His chosen one. So Don’t feel too emotional when no one chose you yet, I mean when no one chooses you in this world bear in mind that you have His word. Maybe the right one is yet to come, you just have to wait because, as what Ecclesiastes 3:1 says, *“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” ~Ecclesiastes 3:1* So whenever your questioning your own existence, again YOU ARE CHOSEN ONE. Don’t let your heart be troubled, Trust and wait the process of everything. Maybe your it’s not your time yet, but rest assured that God already prepared someone for you. Who will choose you for being you, who will choose you and accept you, despite knowing your flaws. Now, what’s your sanaol? YOU ARE A SANAOL PINILI Author’s Note: When you are never chosen by the world, God choose you first of all. I hope that as you read this, you will be at ease. Just leave it all to Him. This is just a reminder that you are nothing less, have His word as your backup. Hope you will have a nice day ahead, take care of yourself. Remember that you are worth it and self-love is the best love. ~Love Teensy.
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God's Answer to All Your SANAOL Most of us nowadays can relate to this SANAOL thing, when we see someone who’s beauty stands out we say “Sanaol Maganda” and we see someone who’s in a happy relationship we say “Sanaol may jowa”. Saying sanaol has been already part of our daily lives, whatever we do we always say sanaol, even just to simple things. We say sanaol to things that we wish we have, we wish we were, and we wish we do. But do you ever wonder what’s your sanaol? Don’t ever feel down, don’t pity yourself, God has an answer to all your SANAOL. 📍God’s Answer to All Your SANAOL (PART I) SANAOL MAGANDA This is common to us nowadays, as to we usually have this feeling that no matter how much we love our self but when we see someone whom we think over qualifies beauty we say “Sanaol maganda”, “Sanaol Pogi”, “Sanaol may itsura”. And by saying those we evaluate ourselves if we are also the same as them. Wishing you would be someone prettier or attractive physically. Though it ain’t much but we know for ourselves that we sometimes feel like comparing to them. And if you ever feel discourage of how you look, by your physical appearance, you start to have insecurities, and you start to compare yourself to others, but please be reminded that you are beautiful. And God made you so and it is written in His word. *“So God created mankind in His own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” ~Genesis 1:27* In the book of Genesis verse 1:27 says that you are beautiful, because God created you in His own image. Every one of us may look different from each other but it’s a reminder that we are unique, we are made special that God molds us differently from each other. Imagine there are billions of people around the world but none of us has the same features, though they are times that we have a look alike but there is always, always a different feature. Even though we look different but God reassured us that He created us same as His own image. When you ever feel insecure just remember that the word of God says, *“You are fearfully and wonderfully made.” ~ Psalms 139:14* So rise up and defeat your insecurities, you are not meant to compare to yourself to others. Because you yourself is unique and you have to embrace it because God made you so. Don’t mind when someone tells you that your ugly, don’t belittle yourself instead speak up for yourself. They don’t have the right to look down on you. Be yourself, show them who you are and beat them with your confidence carrying the word of God that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. That you are beautiful no matter what they say. What’s your sanaol? YOU ARE A SANAOL MAGANDA Author’s Note: God’s Answer to all your SANAOL will be a series, if you wanna know more I will be posting daily the continuation of it. So stay posted. Thank you lovely one. ~Love Teensy.
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Circle of Friends Do you have your own circle of friends? How many are you? Do you have something in common? Or all of you are unique and diverse? Every one of us has our own circle of friends, it may be since elementary or it just started out recently. Friendships always starts with a random talk, simple smiles and gestures that later on turned into a bond, and whatever circle of friends you may have you always, always has this type of friend. Smurf Often referred to as minion, troll, and whatever small creatures in a cartoon. In every group of friends there is always a tiny one, the smallest of the group. And most of the time the smallest one is the oldest, just like in my own circle of friends. I’m the oldest yet the smallest one. Noisy The energizer of the group, the one who do the talking. Without him/her the group is boring, and most of the time they are the source of information “chismis” and all. Always Quiet When there is a noisy one, there is also a silent one. It’s like he/she has been awarded as “The Most Behave” student. The one that usually observes and just enjoys listening to every talk, the one that seats on the corner and seldom talks. The introvert of the group, but be careful they may not talk much but when they do, it will be a solid burn. Late Comer This one is always present, we always have that one friend that never ever arrives early in every meet up. The one that always says “I’m coming” but then he/she is still in the bathroom taking a bath. The one that has so many excuses of being late but then in reality it’s just that he/she woke up late. Bully They say bullying is bad but friendship without bullying is boring, yes and that is always present in every group of friends. The one who always have a favorite person to annoy to. And most of the time it’s either they go along with the noisy ones or noisy ones are being bullied. Actually there are a lot of type of friends’ dependent on the type of person you are dealing with, and that is because every person has different personalities, different point of views. That why friendship is diverse. You may have different characters but you have the same vibe and gives and shares the same energy. We may have different characters but that difference is what makes our friendship unique, complementing each other’s personality with the respect and acceptance of each other. We may experience misunderstandings, and conflict but we never ever leave each other behind, a true friend will always be there in all our ups and downs. Conflicts will never destroy us rather it will only make our friendship strong. Lastly, before I end I want to leave this quote to you, “Tell me about your friend, and I will tell you who you are.” So be careful of choosing your friend for they will also describe what type of person are you base on who you mingle with.
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Hello everyone, I just want to thank my new sponsor @Micontingsabit. Thank you very much po. Thank you for your trust and appreciation of my works. God bless you more. 🥰✨
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Good afternoon everyone, and good afternoon @Niazi420. Thank very very much for the sponsorship. God bless you more 🥰
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Get to Know Me More Hi! I’m Teensy, not my real name but it was a cute description of me I think. Since I’m new here in this platform I’ll just give you a brief heads-up of myself. Let’s start with the introduction. I’m Teensy, 22 years of age. From Mindanao. In my entire existence I thought I was 5” tall but then later did I know I was only 4’11” hence the name, Teensy. I’m the eldest among my groups of friends and yet I’m the smallest one. Let’s talk about sad life. HAHA Currently studying at one of the known universities here in Mindanao and which is also my dream school since high school not because of the school’s name, background and all but only because of the UNIFORM. Yes, I decided to study here because I like the uniform a lot. I’m a 4th year student and still struggling academically, but luckily I have friends whom I can call on to ask for help. And since, question and answer is the trend here on read.cash, I want to try this one. QUESTIONS Highest Top Elementary – my highest top in elementary is top one, though it’s not referred as top 1 before. Some of you here might have read my article “Only Treasure” that story started when I was in elementary. Reason as to why I graduated as a valedictorian. Junior High School – Top 1 but only in the class, since high school is a lot much bigger environment than elementary. But I graduated as a Third Honor. Senior High School – With High Honors, and I graduated as class valedictorian. My article “Only Treasure” was my valedictory speech back then, I just edited it a bit to add details that is good for publishing. Lowest Top High school – Top 7, it was way back Grade 8. It was because I was addicted to Ebooks or currently known as wattpad. I almost failed the Aral-Pan subject because even during discussions I’m still reading, I’m just covering my phone using a book. Highest Average of All Time My highest average ever was 98. I was when I was in Grade 10, I got it from my favorite subject of all SCIENCE. Pambato ka ba ng school nyo? Elementary – Yes, I was always picked up to represent the school in every competition. But when I got high school, just seldom. May ka kompetansya ka ba? Yes, I have. It’s not that I’m competing with her but it’s her who sees me as a competition. Like girl I’m not after the academic reward here, I’m looking forward for my father’s reward. I don’t know but in everything that I do she always, always does it better and I think that’s good because it’s for her own sake, but to her it’s not. Anong oras ka nag rereview? The night before exam, and I only spend an hour reviewing all subjects. Hahaha highlight lang tapos scan-scan na lang. Hindi talaga ako fan ng pagrereview, minsan nga nilalaro ko na nalang ang ibang question. Bingo! yan ang parati kong gingawa “Apat na yung D na answers ko, bingo na ako neto” hahaha. Great Fear as an Honor Student My only fear is to fail, at ang mawala sa listahan ng mga TOP ACHIEVERS. Napepressure kasi ako sa mama ko. Yes, I don’t know if my mom knows this but she’s one of the reason why I’m having academic pressures. The last time I came out top 7 she got mad, and scolded me after the recognition saying I should have told her that I was only top 7 so that she wouldn’t bother attending. I was hurt, but I held it in. Author’s Note: Being a top student is not easy, especially when the people around you already have high expectations on you. But despite that, we should continue to strive to survive this academic journey of ours for after all these hardships will be triumph. Thank you for reading my story. God bless. – Teensy.
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Good morning everyone, new day new blessings to receive and share. I just want to thank my new sponsor, @charmingcherry08. Yung sponsorship niya talaga ang bumungad sakin ngayong umaga. 🥺 THANK YOU VERY MUCH 🥺😊
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Alamat: Bakit nakakagat ng Mansanas ang Baboy? (Source: https://pin.it/Xi74Tn9) Natanong mo na ba sa iyong sarili kung bakit ang letchong baboy na inihahanda tuwing may okasyon ay nakakagat ng mansanas? Sino ang pasimuno nito? At ano ang rason sa likod ng gawaing ito. Kung gusto mong malaman, basahin mo ang kwentong ito. Noong unang panahon, sa panahong hindi pa uso ang letchon. May isang babuyan sa hindi kalayuang syudad ng Townsville, na tinatawag na Boyba. Ang mga baboy rito ay inaalagaan ng husto at pinapakain ng sapat at sakto sa oras ng kanilang amo. Malulusog at malalaki ang mga baboy na ito. Isang araw, umalis ang kanilang amo at matagal na hindi nakabalik. Nagutom ang mga baboy na sanhi nga kanilang pag-iingay, hindi sila sanay sa gutom. Wala silang makain sa loob ng kanilang hawla at wala ring nakakarinig ng kanilang ingay dahil hindi pa nakakauwi ang kanilang amo. At bunga ng kanilang gutom, nakaisip ng magandang ideya ang kanilang leader na si baboy 1. Baboy 1: “Gutom na gutom na ako, kailangan nating gumawa ng paraan.” Baboy 2: “Ano po ang plano niyo leader?” Baboy 1: “Tumakas tayo!!” Baboy 3: “Saan po tayo pupunta?” Baboy 1: “May alam akong palengke sa di kalayuan, maraming pagkain dun. At alam kong mamabusog tayo.” Baboy 2: “Paano po tayo makakaalis dito? Nakakulong po tayo” Baboy 1: “Tumalon tayo” At dahil nga sa gutom, nag dadalawang isip man ang iba ay sumunod sila sa kanilang leader. Tumalon ng tumalon ang baboy upang maabot ang bakod ng kanilang hawla, “Talon, talon, talon!!” at tuluyang nakatakas sila. Dali-daling tumakbo ang mga baboy papunta sa palengke na sinabi ng kanilang leader at sa di kalayuan may nakita silang tindahan. Tindahan na kong saan punong-puno nga mga prutas. Lumaki ang mga mata ng baboy’ng gutom na gutom at dali-daling tumakbo papunta sa tindahan at pumasok. Baboy 1: “Sakto at walang tao, KAIN!!” Walang ibang ginawa ang mga baboy kundi kumain ng kumain. Hindi na silang nag-atubiling balatan pa ang mga prutas at nilamon na ito agad. Samut-saring prutas ang kanilang kinain ng walang tigil na parang isang taon silang hindi nakakain. Habang sila ay abala sa pagkain, isang trahedya ang naganap. Nasunog ang kabilang tindahan na malapit sa kanilang kinaroroonan. “Sunog! Sunog!” sigaw ng mga taong tumakbo. Narinig ito ng mga baboy at dali-daling umalis, at naiwan si Baboy 1 na abalang-aba sa kanyang kinakaing pinya. Dahil sa katakawan na inisang subo niya lang ang malaking pinya, nabulunan si Baboy 1. Hirap siyang lunukin ito na tumagal ng dalawang minuto, at habang abala siyang lunokin ang pinya ay inabot na ng sunog ang tindahang kanyang kinaroroonan. Ngunit sa halip na tumakbo at lumayo ay pinilit niyang ipinagpatuloy ang kanyang pagkain at sumubo pa siya ng mansanas. Hindi niya ito nalunok sa kadahilanang nakabara pa ang malaking pinya sa kanyang lalamunan. Lumaki ang sunog at hindi na nga nakatakas si Baboy 1. Pagkatapos maapula ang sunog ay nakita na lamang si Baboy 1 na sunog na, habang kagat-kagat ang huling prutas na kanyang isinubo at yun ay ang mansanas. At dun nagsimula ang tradisyon, na sa bawat inihahandang letchon, may kagat-kagat itong mansanas. Bilang pag-alala kay Baboy 1 na nasunog dahil sa katakawan na may kagat-kagat na mansanas. **At yun ang alamat kung bakit nakakagat ng mansanas ang letchong baboy.** Author's Note: I'm still working on my English article, hopefully you'll understand. But I'll try to upload as soon as possible. Thank you. ✨
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Young, Dumb, Broke I was young when I let you fooled my heart, committing to you and hardly plays a part. Young enough to know whether its love or not, young enough to submit my full trust to someone I didn’t know wouldn’t last. I was young when I let you broke my heart into two, I accepted every bit of your flaw because I know it’s you. And young enough to suffer this pain, that took me years of healing but it left a stain. I was dumb to say I will never regret loving you, because I never knew you would meet someone new. I was dumb in a part that I let you step on my pride; I didn’t say a thing I only cried. There was never a time that I argued with you, because I was dumb enough to never react when you said “I already lowered my standards on you.” Back then, I was hurt, in pain, in regret but I keep on holding on. Holding unto you and your promises, then moved on. I was broke, and for the first time in my entire life I blamed myself a lot, I blamed for not being someone you want me to be. I blamed myself for not giving you all the time, attention, love, and care. I was broke and I hate to see myself apart from you, and yet you are doing just fine with somebody new. I was broke and I never did expect to experience something like this, having to suffer mental and emotional pain from someone I love as much as I love myself, I even ended up degraded my own self. But then, as years passed by I realized that “Why would I be hurt by your words?” when you said “I already lowered my standards on you.” Because of what you said it made me realized my self-worth. If I can’t be someone to meet your standards’ then you don’t deserve me. If you cannot accept me for being me then find someone else, I don’t have to pretend to somebody else just for you. If you cannot respect my decisions, then you don’t deserve my respect as well. So for those who are suffering from a heartache, don’t consume yourselves pitying and blaming for everything that happened. Because when the love is right, with the right person and right time you will never suffer such pain like I’ve experience from my previous relationship. Knowing your self-worth is the most important thing, don’t let someone step on to your pride. Stood up and fight for your right, he/she don’t deserve you. The right person will always give you all the love and care you deserve and you don’t have to pretend to be someone else, when he/she truly loves you every bit of your flaw will be accepted no matter what it is. This may be a cliché line but keep this in mind “Never settle for anything less, you deserve better.” Lastly, You will never be a little too much to someone who sees you – JUST RIGHT.
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Only Treasure “Finish your studies and succeed for that is the only the treasure that we can leave on to you.” This was always the line that my parents would say to me every time I’m leaving for school – both an inspiration and motivation. Every one of us has our own story of motivation, how are we being motivated to succeed. And this is my story. As a first child, my parents always have high expectations on me as a person, and most especially in academics. And I guess it’s not only me I know some of you are experiencing the same thing. I grew up being an achiever since grade school and my motto is to be “ALWAYS ON TOP”. Back in elementary days I don’t really know what it means to be on top – what lies behind it, all I know is that I made it. And that was influenced by my father’s reward system, his own kind of giving me motivation to succeed. “If you will be the first honor I will give you what you want.” That’s my favorite line since then, the most precious line that I want to hear every time I’m leaving for school. That’s why I always pay attention during class discussions, participates in every activity inside the class and even in school, always present in every competition, and studies every lesson every night before I go to sleep. That was my annual academic routine. I have a different favorite month of the year unlike other child my age, my favorite month was not my birth month nor December, but it was March – recognition month. From the very beginning of the school year I’m only looking forward on the day of the announcement of who will be the top student. And when the teacher-in-charge says, “The top student is …”, Hearing my name being announced beats up my heart fast, and my mind would burst out because of the excitement and happiness I’m feeling inside. I’m excited and happy at the same time not because I made it on top but it was because of the reward that my father will give me. At that time everyone always thought that I was happy because I was the top student but no, it may seem different but I don’t actually care about much of my academic reward, it’s always because of my father’s promise that he will give me anything I want as long as I’m on top. And that’s the promise I’m always holding on, even up to now. I may have a different perspective on achieving my goals but we have the same intension and that is to succeed and make our parent’s proud. Reaching our dreams may not be as easy as 1,2,3 we will encounter many struggles that may pull us down and make us discourage, but even though we may be having our different ups and down we should always put in our minds that it’s only a challenge for us to take to examine how determine we are in achieving our goals. What’s your story of motivation? Comment it down, I would love to read it. Thank you. ✨
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Inner Turmoil Most people nowadays are battling different battles which we do not know of. And one of the battles that most of us do not understand is a battle between an unknown turmoil and oneself. It is difficult to handle such situation struggling an existential crisis or in the middle of nowhere surrounded by darkness with the longing to be understood in a world where no one literally understands. Accepting that this is the way of life, with questions creeping inside ones mind "Does anyone really care about me?" Maybe there is but decided to neglect it, pretending not to know or maybe no one really does. Or maybe its you who chooses to keep it. Despite those lingering questions, to those people out there who experienced being consumed in loneliness, who feels suffocated by darkness I would like to emphasize to you that you are not alone. Tell your struggles, stories that you fear of sharing open the door, take a step and learn to be embraced. You dont have to be alone, speak up! Dont conceal it, though it may hide your pain but it will only deepen out the wound you are in. You may look okay on the outside but you cant hide the fact that you are bleeding inside. You dont have to face it alone, face it on your own, there are people out there who will listen and be there you you just have to reach them out. Though it will be hard for you to talk to them or even share a glimpse of your struggle but trust me it will be harder as time pass by. The burden youve been carrying on since day one, will become bigger and bigger and that will bring no good for you and for hearts state as well. Sometimes silence is never the answer in this situation, you have to make noises for you to be heard. So, to those who suffers silently, you dont have to remain silent. Consider your human - vulnerable, you dont have to pretend that you're okay because it is okay not to be okay. Not all the time we can be as positive as we can, sometimes we have to accept our weakness in order for us to become strong. Reach out to people whom you know that can help those you trust. Someone that you can rely on, I know you have someone in mind so what are you waiting for? Tell them, maybe they are just waiting for you to open up. A bright world awaits, there is never been a night without a dawn. Together we can go through, together we will face tomorrow with smiles on our faces and hope for a better tomorrow. No stories should be left untold. Together lets help spread mental health awareness, and continue to support each other, be there for each other, and pray for each others mental and emotional well-being. We never know that our small effort will become a great cause to others.
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Chat now, Ghost later Have you ever been in this kind of situation? Have you ever experienced having simple conversation with someone, that turned out to be someone you’re having late night talks to? From simple talks, turned to intimate talks. Able to stay up all night just to talk to you. This is current trend nowadays – everyone can relate, especially to the young age. Finding someone you can talk to with the most nonsense things. Someone you’re comfortable of telling what you feel. Saying things, you need to do even if it’s pee or poo. Someone you can wait until the active status turns green. And someone that can make you grin. Simple things that warms the heart, even though label of the relationship is not a part. We do have someone that we really loved having time to chat to, even if we never met the person yet. Staying up all night talking whatever comes in mind, with the most concerned thoughts and care, sharing the same energy and spreading the same vibe. In this current trend, commitment will never be present. “If that’s one thing that you want to have, then I’m not the right person who can give you what you want.” Common reason as to why a person chooses to leave the other and find someone new. That’s where ghosting plays the part. MY ADVICE In this new kind of intimacy, when you engage unto something like this you have to be prepared for what’s coming and it’s either mentally or emotionally. If you want it to last, don’t take his/her replies too seriously just go with the flow. If you’re a lady, keep your guard up. Don’t let simple words influence you. It may become your weakness. If you’re a man, don’t play too much with your words. Cause you can be naughty sometimes. Be flexible, never give too much – don’t give less. Just the right amount of attention, love, and care. Because it this scenario, you can never be certain of how it will end up, never certain up until when, and never certain if it’s true or not. All you know is that you have someone you can talk to which is a good point for me, because there are things that you cannot dare to open up to your parents, but you can comfortably share it to someone your chatting to but be careful whom you share it with because it may become your weakness to someone who wants to take advantage of you. Every trend brings both joy and doom, and it’s up to you how will you engage yourself to such and how will you see it in a broader picture. I just want to say that enjoy every moment for the reason that we will not know when will it last while putting our guard up. Lastly, never ask for commitment if both of you are not seriously unto each other. Remember it’s just a thing called, “Chat now, Ghost later”.
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Even at your Lowest Life can really be playful at times; it challenges you up to your limit – tests how strong you are and measures how far you can keep up. Life can never be predictable; we can never be certain of what lies ahead all we know is that we can make plans for our future. All of us has our own way of preparing for our future – reaching our success, that some might took a long a way to reach it, years of striving together with both motivation and determination and after a long run of seeking, finally made it to the peak. Some are just not lucky enough to make it through they experienced downfall rather than triumph. But when you take time to realized and see what you have experienced in a bigger picture, you can see that there’s more to it that even overcoming our day to day struggles in life is another form of success that is something we should also be proud of, because not everyone can carry it on and pass through. These struggles’ is an instrument of knowing our ourselves much more than we think we already do, that we can only discover it as we seek answers to our problems. How you handle and perceives a problem is a description of what you are as a person and in visible scenarios which in some cases our responses depend on the weight of the problem – we can be positive, “I can do this” if we think that the problem weights a little less and when it’s a little too hard we tend to say “I can’t take this anymore” and letting the negative vibe plays in. We may have our different struggles, different stories to tell, and different perception of things but we have to bear in mind that no problem is permanent. What you carrying on right now, burdens that aches your heart, and things that continuously runs through your mind will sooner or later fades away. As what they say that we are not given problems that we cannot solve, we just have to have a strong faith and will that we can make it. Never allow negative thoughts to cross our mind because it will never give us comfort rather it will only lead to discouragements, disappointments, and failures. The dream that we once wanted will never come true, the goals that we’ve been planning for years will never be achieved. So stand up tall, face your problems bravely and have faith in Him for He will surely be there for you even when you feel the world turned on you. Cheer up for all your struggles will be rewarded, and the pain that you’re feeling today will be your strength for tomorrow. Never settle for anything less remember that you deserve better. Positivism in spirit and in mind will prevail all hardships in life, continue what you’ve started and remember that life goes on even at your lowest.
