Don't Date Cause They're Cute

If you know the numbers of relationships people get into daily all because the person is cute, little wonder why the numbers of break up too are escalating by the day, its not a gamble, mere looks doesn't sustain the affairs of the heart, you can only be mesmerized by the attractions for so long, shortly you'd begin to get disgusted by more important issues that's lacking in the person. We don't want to make choices, especially life choices like who to date or marry just for a beautiful face, or fine or well built body, few months to few years down the line, it wouldn't be the bone of contention any longer and by that time I can only wonder what would keep sustaining the relationship.

Beauty fades as we all know for a reason, but apparently we care less about if it fades or not, the ladies still can jump freely to the handsome and the guys to the beautiful. Well who wouldn't want someone who's attractive, I sure do too and I'm sure you do too, so I'm not saying beauty means no brains or beauty means not good for a relationship, but rather let's ensure we go for compatibility, someone who can merge with us and together become achievers, someone who appreciate your dreams and drive and can as well contribute to the success of it.

Its lovely to see women succeed generally, because the stereotype that a woman needs to only get a rich man and her life is good to go is in no way sending the right messages. To be truthful it is fastly becoming the hidden agendas of many female, so they write off any struggling guy and made do with the wealthy males. Listening to the older people speak I could clearly realize that gone are the days we see ladies ready to start from the scratch with you, staying with you when you have nothing but ready to grow, work and pray with you. Not that it doesn't happen anymore but it's less rampant compared to before.

How do you like it few years down the line, after days of repeatedly seeing that beautiful face, already getting tired of the well shaped body, what then? Do you jump to a new guy or a new girl? This we see every now and then. Its no more true love making people make decision any more, neither is it wisdom controlling their actions anymore but outright mesmerization. Funny enough this could only last a while which makes it a totally wrong choice to making beauty a main reason for selection, i know we all want cute kids too, but there are definitely other beautiful people who can match your compatibility and be great partners.

A pure cajole of beauty, haven't you notice how people compliment your siblings oh they are so cute, but it matters less to you, you don't go wow that's so true and stare at their faces for hours, because you've seen them multiple times, same would go for your partner overtime, you'll knoe they are cute but it'll matter less to you soon. Oh she's cute, oh he's fine and that's all you care about, other important questions of does he understands you and how to deal with you, do you respect him, is he supporting your dreams, does he even knoe your dreams, is she having the wifely attributes, can she support the home, even on your absence, and so on, so many wise questions to ask but who cares anymore.

Celebrities marriage has often been mostly adored and as you know they too are so fast to ending, if I'm to say what I feel the reason for this could be then I'll say its over excitement created from the thoughts of "can you imagine how it'll be like, me and you", " we'll be the talk of the town", "we are popular so we'll be adored that day, the world would celebrate us", apparently few of this conjunctions has worked fine and the couples Still carry on till date, but few others which I guess skipped the more important aspect, are currently splitted, come on we can't afford to make decisions so sensitive base on beauty or the moment.

In a nutshell, our happiness surpasses how we tolerate things, one day you'll wake up to say, how long would I keep dealing with this, I don't care if he's the most good looking guy or Lady in the world now, all I want is someone who truly makes me happy, knows how to treat me right and loves me for me and not just how I look. But all that can be prevented by having discipline enough to think through the urgent feelings and know this is the right choice for me. Its not easy at times but like dey say nothing good comes easy.

Go for the future, go for the good of the kids having a great mother or father, go for the success of your dreams, go for one who knows how to gladden your heart with words and actions, beauty is no yardstick for enjoyment, everyone has to learn to treat someone right including the cute also, be cute and be a great partners, this we must do for the happiness of who ever we choose to be with.

Don't make hasty decisions guys, always think things through, as we remember beauty fades.

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