10 Attributes The Ladies want to see in Guys - Part 2 😉

Previously, in my last article (you can read it here) I talked about some attributes that every lady will like to see in a guy. I mentioned 4 bullet points. Here's a continuation.

HONESTY:

Honesty is the best policy. It's important in every aspect of one's life especially in interaction with others. Being honest not only brings about trust but also the binding force. It binds two people together which goes a very long way. Don't tell her that her dress looks beautiful when you know it's not or say her hair is fantastic when it's actually a mess under the pretext of making her feel good or pleased.

The truth is she knows how it looks and lying to her about it make her believe you've got a poor sense of judgement thereby neglecting other things you'd say even if you're really being sincere about it. Women love to hear the truth so tell her the truth in a sweet way😉 For example; Why's your hair this messy? Then you can either say playfully "Scout closer let me braid it for you"😉 or "don't worry about it, I'll personally accompany you to the salon to make it" or whisper to her ears "I love you and not your hair" .

Author's note: If a man with two women tells only the first that there's another, I believe that lady he tells is the one he truly loves.

Curiosity (About Her!) :

One is only curious when there's an interest. Curiosity shows that you really care and want to be a part of that person's life.

A woman likes it when a man is being curious about her. It gives us the tingles😉😊. Being curious also helps to know who she is more .

Author's note: I'd say instead of judging whatever she does, try to ask her about it instead and know the why! It's then you'll now know the how(how to handle it if you don't like the attributes or character that is)

Acceptance -

Ladies don't like Men that are too quick to change them, judge or make conclusions. They come and say oh you look too fat, I'll like you to slim down a bit or I like seeing my woman in skimpy wears or otherwise.

Don't come and all of a sudden want to change her initial set up to the one you like. Learn to accept a woman they way she is or better yet don't go close if you can't. Women have already been told to run far away from a such a one.

Selfless:

This are people who are willing to sacrifice for another, someone that's willing to give up his needs so hers and others would be met. Selfless men are a gem; so hard to find this days. If you're a selfless guy, this applause is for you. 👏👏

Hardworking;

A guy is said to be serious with his life when he's hardworking. A hardworking person is self reliant and also shows that such a one can take care of her too. Ladies gets turned off when we discoversl a guy is lazy.

Being a friend first:

I purposely saved this point for last! I did that because people tend to rush into relationship without really getting to know who he or she is.

As a guy don't be in a hurry to ask her out. Don't always go with the flow. Yes! You might be having that undying urge to be with her or for her to be yours and when you discover she feels same way that urge triples but am saying you should find a way to tame that urge and try to know her some more.

Be her friend! that person she can always fall back on. When you've built a very solid friendship,you can now cement it by asking her out. This is very important because keeping a relationship is not just about love alone, there are other factors. At that point where love will not be enough, the friendship you both hav built will come to the rescue.

Author's view: My ideal relationship is a "Part-time lover and a full-time friend kind" It's a forever relationship and I love it.

I wish you guys Goodluck as you shoot your shots!

I'm sorry I've been away for a while because of some things am working on. Soon I'll let you all in on it.

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