Published: October 28, 2022
Time: 5:17 PM
Article #: 241
My family, which included my grandparents and other relatives, was how I grew up. It's true what some say—having many people in one house makes things more enjoyable. Collaboration exists, and it is made simpler when you have family members nearby who you can readily call for assistance from when you need it. But as time went on, I came to understand that having a large family isn't always advantageous, especially if your in-laws, cousins, and other relatives live with you. Maybe it is good for some people. However, in my opinion, it is still preferable to have only one king and queen in a house.
Even though I was only young, I could already sense how my relatives would dislike my grandmother. I was almost able to witness how some family members handled my mother. There is no issue with my father; up to this point, his relationship with Mama has been good. But in all honesty, I am aware of how challenging it was for my mother to get along with my dad's family. As I recall, when we were kids, mom experienced great difficulty as a result of her in-laws' persistent interference in their lives. I can relate to how difficult that was for my mother. My mother was overjoyed when we got our own house. Although we still share a residence with our relatives, our houses are completely separate, so they rarely gripe about the pleasant life we are living.
I may state that the family in today's society is significantly different from families in the past in our generation. While it may be acceptable for some individuals to have three generations living in the same home, I would feel more at home if it were only the first family. If we give it some thought, living with other relatives in a whole house has a number of drawbacks.
First, dividing the bill is difficult.
Second, you must modify your genuine personality because older people might criticize you if you don't adapt to their expectations.
Thirdly, a large number of individuals will join your husband and you in your argument.
Fourth, you won't be able to properly customize the house you want because there are several people in the house that won't match what you want.
Fifth, your home doesn't have its own set of rules and regulations. How you raise your spouse and children will likewise be a topic of much attention.
In summary, a lot of individuals will meddle in your marriage and your personal life.
Those are just a few of the things I see that are not healthy in having relatives in the whole house. So for me, I would invest only in the family that I will build. “My house, my rules”. So in order to also avoid the damage of the relationship with the relatives, it would be better for the husband and wife to separate themselves.
Disclaimer: The views expressed in this post are solely those of the author. If there was anything I said that offended you, I sincerely apologize.
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Personally, I want to live us alone with my own family, far from both parties (my family and his family). I don't want anyone who's interrupt or worst add fire..