"When things get you down, and life is hard, look back and tell yourself "you done a good job."
Life is not always a bed of roses sometimes it has tons of torns that made you bleed just to know you're alive. Life sucks when you tend to look at it in its hard time and beautiful when you see the other side of it. There are negative and positive side of life. And every side denotes different lessons we must learn.
The negative and positive side of life
These are the seasonings of life to make it favorable and tasty. Negative things are design to make you see and appreciate the positive things in life.
We need to learn and accept it in order for us to become better individuals. In order for us to continue life with hope and faith that someday, somehow things would get better. And when we do learn, and become hopeful we tell ourselves with pat on our shoulder "good job". You did a great job on life and look back on the things that you had become.
When is the time we tell ourselves "good job"?
When we learned to accept our flaws
When we learned to accept defeat
When we learned to make amends
When we learned to accept our fault
When we learned to forgive
When we learned how to survive
When we learned to value things
When we learned how to trust
When we learned how to do honest things
When we learned to how to fight for our dreams
When we learned when to be silence and when to make sound
When we learned to face realities
When we learned to accept defeat
When we learned how to be Selfless
When we learned to continue to fight with life even with tired body
When we learned to see things differently
When we learned continue to be hopeful
When we learned to survive our silent battle
When we learned to conquer our fears
When we learned to continue to love even when we're hurt
Things such as those and many more. I know you have learned it, if not all things, at least few of it. Even if you're still work in progress. Tell yourself a "Good job" and be proud of what you had accomplished. I don't need to elaborate those because with one look at it, we could understand it. With one look, our heart knows what those words mean and relate to it.
Closing thought
Telling ourselves "Good job, self" is the word sometimes what we needed. Sometimes it's not the other people who must say that but our own. We must be proud of what we have accomplished through our existence. Learning to appreciate yourself is one way of value YOU. Appreciate yourself, and others will appreciate you. Value yourself, and others will value you. Be proud of yourself, and others will be proud of you. Love yourself, and others will love you as well. Yes, we need others to appreciate, value and love us, but sometimes the things we are looking from others are things we didn't do to ourselves. Everything comes first in ourselves and other things will follow without asking it from other people.
Today I tell myself a sound "GOOD JOB SELF, continue what you are doing and your doing just great. Thank you self. I love you."
I hope you tell yourself too. Have a great day! God bless everyone.
Thank you so much to all the great people in my life- sponsors and friends, who always supports me and motivates me.
I appreciate you all. I love you ๐ฅฐ๐
There's no one to help you but yourself. So you should help yourself and set a positive mind. ๐