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You Are Your First Priority!!

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4 months ago

Hello my fellow readers, how are you all doing? I had a busy day today and that is why I wasn't that active today and has not posted anything yet... I was doing some work when this idea hit me to write about this, growing up, I always kept other's happiness in front of mine and did not participate in decisions that were life altering. Sipping my morning tea every single day, I keep thinking "I wish I knew when I was young..." to always make myself a priority....

There is a saying that no matter how hard or how much you try hard, you cannot satisfy others completely. I was considering to impress others by dressing according to their expectations, eating items that they selected and so on and I was not happy. Still, I was doing it because I wanted to make them happy. Surprisingly, despite my efforts, they all ended up very unimpressed and disappointed in me and I was seriously tired of seeking validations from others.

This is all I did when I was in my teens. As my age went by, I learned that we are our first priority. If there is anyone who could make us happy, is us. Eat whatever you like to eat, play according to your rules, be always confident, bold and straight forward. I mean, I don't want you to be rude or something but there is a thin line between confidence and being arrogant. Learn your boundaries and always be kind and straight. Make yourself happy and content first before trying hard for others. It is all worth at the end, because if you cannot love yourself first, you cannot love anybody else..

Thanks for visiting guys, hope you put yourself first before others... you are important, your happiness is worth to you :) good luck

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4 months ago

I am guilty of impressing others before. But thein I realized that we are the only ones who can make ourselves fully satisfied.

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4 months ago

we all can relate to this :) I'm glad you realized, that is success itself :)

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4 months ago

I guess most of us are struggling with this. Thanks for this reminder.

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4 months ago

yes this is your reminder Indeed... Love yourself :)

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4 months ago

Same here.. this past few days, I'm struggling with that .. trying my best to prioritize myself

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4 months ago

keep trying sis, you will achieve it soon... don't give up. And be brave to say no

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4 months ago

I have always been a free spirit and don't care about pleasing others. Sometimes I might appear selfish because I always put myself first, but it is better to appear selfish than to build your life around other people

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4 months ago

Kudos for putting yourself first even if it appears a bit selfish, at the end, it's your life and you have to live it

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4 months ago

Right, dear. Let's prioritize ourselves more than anyone else. Loving ourselves is the first step to happiness.

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4 months ago

100% yes sis :0

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4 months ago

You can never please everyone no matter what you do. They will still complain and discourage you. This is why you should follow your mind, love yourself and do what you know how to do best without waiting for people's recommendation.

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4 months ago

It was too late once I realized this and I' m not trying to please anybody in the world now.. I'm so happy and at peace now, should have known earlier

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4 months ago

There is no way to satisfy another person, they will always want more and when you cant do it they say you are a disappointment!! We should focus more on our own life than others, after all u didnt come into the world with them

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4 months ago

We should put ourselves first, because in the end, we only have ourselves

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4 months ago

wise words, if we can't keep ourself happy, who else will?

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4 months ago

I believe that the first thing I need to prioritize is myself. The rest follows. :)

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4 months ago

Yep, always put yourself first before considering what others think. If you don't prioritize yourself, you'll be left alone to clean up all the mess that others make in your life.

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4 months ago

omg exactly what happened to me in my life...and I was dragged deep into the mess before I know it... well, not anymore

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4 months ago

We don't need to satisfy others.we don't need to please anyone. We just do whatever we wanted and what we love. As long us we are happy and not hurting anyone in our sourrounding it's okay to do it

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4 months ago

I agree. We shouldn't seek validation from others. We can do whatever our heart desires so long as we're not hurting other people. Let's do what makes ourselves happy 💗

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4 months ago

This is called self confidence. Lack of it will ruin everything. We should take care ourselves as everyone is finding a way to ditch us. Well written dear.

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4 months ago

Thank you dear :)

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4 months ago

You are right, Dolly. We should only have ourselves to please and not other people. They steal happiness anyway

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4 months ago

If we don't put ourselves first, hardly other people will. So true what you've said!

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4 months ago

yes thank you :)

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4 months ago

We all appreciate you too and ypur value input here as they will never go unoticed. Good night angel

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4 months ago

Thanks for the sweet words honey bee :)

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