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How To Get Over Shyness When You Are Talking To YOUR CRUSH!!

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Imagine you are in a party or a meeting with friends and you behave normally. You joke, you laugh and you enjoy every second of it. Just that moment, you see at some distance that your crush is slowly entering the scene. And just ask your friends what all would happen to you. You suddenly start to have small drops of sweat thought you are sitting under zero degree Celsius, you start shaking your hands, legs or whole body sometimes, you smile like an idiot with no reason, your mouth automatically stammers and keep moving here and there to get some attention.

Well, exactly when you are in this kind of situation, if someone asked you to talk to your crush, what could you do? It is simple, you would surely talk all the stupid things in the world in all the stupid ways you can. The only main reason could be, you are shy along with a tension to impress the crush somehow with your words or actions.

So now we have decided to impress them. But what to do with this shy? What if we do something silly and because of it, they might hate us altogether? Keep all these fears away and read this blog to understand what could be done and how to avoid being shy when your crush is around

Let us see this in points:

First, ask yourself why you are so shy in front of them. The only reason could be in an attempt to impress, you might end up doing something silly. But by asking yourself what makes you shy, whether your language, your looks or way of behavior that is not good compared to them, try to improve and show.

Love yourself first. Oh come on friends, you are the king of your own kingdom. So if you don’t love yourself first, who would do it? So, keep telling and assuring yourself that you are awesome and adorable.

Analyze what you would do immediately after seeing the crush. Obviously, you do whatever I have explained in the start right? So, just try not to do all that. Try to stay calm. Sit on a chair and drink a glass of water. Ask your friends to help you in keeping your mind steady by talking something motivating.

Friends are the best and the worst human relations we could ever have. Good friends always motivate you and encourage towards your successful proposals and bad ones would always add sarcastic sexy and gross way of comments and make you more tenser. Avoid those kind of friends. Have good ones around.

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Be ready with some topics that doesn’t come with attached arguments or issues. When your crush is around, always look pleasant while talking. Never enter in loud arguments or fist fights. Remember, one punch on your friend’s face is like one punch on your crush’s impression too.

What if she has a crush on you too?? The most important thing to remember is, if your crush also likes you or has crush on you, then there is a greater chance of her to have the same shyness just like you and because of this, she might not react to you or talk to you initially. Just give her time and watch your love grow.

Men can have shyness....Your friends may tease you saying “you are a boy and you shouldn’t be shy”. So in an attempt to encourage you, they are actually pushing you towards doing something silly which you aren’t used to do ever. Remember,guys also have shy, and it’s just normal.

Look appealing, smart, handsome or whatever the way you look good. From head to toe, try wearing accessories that your crush likes to see on you if you know her already. As first impression is always the best, look best before her to get an yes. Of course, you can continue that later too.

Tell yourself that only you can bring real happiness in her life and she’s lucky to have you as a special one. And always look confident. Girls love boys who are more confident. So, if you are one, there is nothing to feel shy about. Just do not go overboard with that confidence thing otherwise, you might get overconfident

Approach them in a good smart and sweet way. Some people would just hit straight on the target and say, “hey, would you go out” and that’s the last they would see the girls. If you have mutual friends, approach them through your friends. Give shake hands softly and not like you are pumping petrol from earth. Avoid stupid boring pick up lines like, "did you just fart coz you blew me away". if you do this, you right away give an impression of a playboy.

Smile and Smile. Smile is the best thing in this world. Keep a smiling face throughout your conversation. No one in this world could forget or avoid a smiling face.

No one is perfect: No one is perfect in this world. In fact the percentage “100%” itself is not 100 completely. Its something around 99.9999% which is read as 100%. So, don’t try to be perfect in front of them. Just be the way you are. If you understand this, your shy will leave you and make you confident.

Let her decide who she wants: some situations like you find that your best friend also has a crush on the same girl. You might try more or give up in a shy thinking what would happen if your friend finds out that you’re also trying to impress her. That’s wrong. Never give up and keep trying in a good way because it is she, who’s going to decide.

Never bring controversial topics in between you both on the first day of talking. Imagine you asking her, “Do you believe in Russians having a nuclear bomb that could destroy the world in seconds?” or like, “have you seen the celebrity’s nude pic on the fashion magazine isn’t it amazing?” or "do you think poop is that color because of urea levels in the body?" you can easily guess the look on her face.

Follow these and impress your girls and keep spreading the message of “how to overcome being shy in front of your crush” to help your desperate shy friends by telling them this lol..

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Woahh may apply this when I get to crush on someone hhaha I'm too shy when I'm near them.

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2 months ago

Be yourself, shyness can be endearing. The eyes give it all away, and speak volumes so does not matter if you are shy or not, in my humble opinion.

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2 months ago

there are girls out there like me who you cannot say whether they are shy or nah lol

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2 months ago

There is always one 😁

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2 months ago

Great advice sis! I can be shy too, but nobody would guess ;)

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2 months ago

haha that's like me, I can be shy too but nobody would know that am shy because I usually come across as a strong girl so

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2 months ago

Great article!

It made me remember my days of youth haha. I wouldn't know how to act now, maybe casual and cool, because like it's said here "he who shows his hunger doesn't get to eat"

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2 months ago

That is a great saying and very thoughtful :)

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2 months ago

I love this article. It made me smile (like an idiot XD).

But do you know what? In my opinion all of this doens't matter at all. When you like someone and that person likes you, you can really say nosenses or have an stupid behavior due to the nerves... all of that is fogiven. When someone is in love, he or she acts like an idiot... and this is how it must be. At the same time, his o her lover, cant see that ridiculous behaviour (thats why It is said that "love is blind") XD.

Perhaps I am a some kind of romantic person, but I think that love is too important to lose time with insecurities and nerves. Paradoxically, we can say, in other words, that love is too important... to give too much importance. XD

Thank you for this great and inspiring post!

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2 months ago

Haha that is a sweet comment and you yourself said "It doesn't matter IF you like someone that likes you"... this post is NOT for those people, this is for people that has crush on somebody who doesn't even know they exist lol

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2 months ago

Just details... XD

"People that has crush on somebody who doesn't even know they exist" is just a matter of time.

1 step: Exist. 2 step: Underline your existence with nonsenses and stupid acts / or logical and cool acts. 3 step: get your crash in love / or not.

Just exist and let her/him know about your existence . XD What must be, will be, then 2 step "act-quality" is irrelevant.

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2 months ago

There's no way that I can remove this shyness of mine in front of my crush there's just no way. Maybe because I love my insecurities morw than myself 😞

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2 months ago

You need to realize your crush also would have a lot of insecurities, may be more than you ever have...so it is normal, just be you :)

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2 months ago

Hahaha this is a romantic topic. I sometimes find it funny when I watch scenes where someone gets shy with their crush especially if the guy is known for being tough and manly then suddenly gets shy with his crush. Among all those tips you have mentioned, for me the best one is being yourself. Nothing beats honesty and the crush might appreciate it.

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2 months ago

Absolutely true.. being yourself is the most easiest way to get confidence.. people do not often realize this and try to be someone else and fail and then keep wondering what is wrong lol

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2 months ago

Hahaha, let me save your article hehe because it's going to be very helpful in the future. Haha, who can talk like this nonsense in the first date, I think no one?

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2 months ago

omg you are a guy and you have no idea from the woman's perspective.. there are a lot of creeps and weirdos out there who talk like that regardless what date it is

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2 months ago

Haha, well! I only know about one women that what she likes and what she don’t. I have never apply the technique’s on different girls.

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2 months ago

HAHAHAH I do talk to my crush just a casual conversation as if I don't have a crush on him HAHAHA

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2 months ago

Lmaoo that's funny way to put it

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2 months ago

Aweee the first picture in your article is my crush, Adam Levine ❤️😍

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2 months ago

He is such a sweet guy.. I like his Girls like you

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2 months ago

And now you have become a love guru! Take a bow dear. ❤️

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2 months ago

Hahaha have seen enough in life to know what to do and what not to :)

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2 months ago

I took out my pen and paper to write down the pointers as soon as I saw the topic. Talking to your crush has to be the most awkward yet exhilarating feeling a person might ever have, I say this from experience, and trying not be so silly in front of them can be a real challenge because at that time, the brain is not focused. I will try to follow some of the instructions you gave.

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2 months ago

I understand your comment but being confident is not that hard as people think.. one of the easiest ways is to just being yourself :) and girls like that ;)

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2 months ago

I don't know if I am normal or what but once I found out that I like that person, I will tell that person that I like him, that I have a crush on him. My friends would always ask me if how come I am that confident to confess but I am really like this. I never feel awkward when my crush is around, I always act normal.

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2 months ago

you are literally showing Sagittarius or Leo's energy haha.. amazing

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2 months ago

You forgot one thing, the guy must act normal and keep calm while talking to crush. Actually I was doing this, everytime I talk to my crush,I stay calm and delivering topics that I want to convey. I'm also a brave guy that always sitting behind my crush just to see her face and sometimes touch her.😆

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2 months ago

hahaha that was both so sweet and also creepy 🤣🤣

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2 months ago

Shyness? All the listed facts are good but if the shyness is on a chronic level, it'll be very hard to subdue with these points. Hey, sure you know what I mean by chronic shyness? That shyness from the centre of shyness hahaha🤣. You just made me remember how I once stammered 🤣🤣🤣

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2 months ago

hahaha you made me laugh.. that was a hilarious comment, but deep breaths can help with that hehehe.. and thinking that "you are the king of your world and reminding yourself that you are a good person" can also help :)

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2 months ago

theblackdoll with this lecture i will have all the girls on my list now ( tell me if you are single so I can add you lol) as a lover boy like me this is the best way to kick off, boom lol

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2 months ago

hahaha you're funny and no, i'm not single :)

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2 months ago

I guess you have to let yourself go, not seem forced into conversation, or too invasive of privacy. It's difficult but not impossible. Control!

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2 months ago

Wow, that's a nice thing to say. It's a normal thing to do when you like someone. It's a little embarrassing to talk to them. Yes, but I like your words. It seems to me that you are talking about your real life experience. Hihiha.

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2 months ago

Haha I never dated anybody in my life :p

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