So Mature In Social Status, Why Not In Life

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Have you noticed these people nowadays are more mature, smart, and intelligent in their social status like Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram, Twitter, etc but they suck at life? The virtual world was supposed to be an escape route to reality but I think people are more making it a fake reality. Such good words, motivation, and sense you can find in people's words but when you meet them they are kind of the same normal person. They just put good words in status and never follows them. I know status is meant for other people to see but our status is also for ourselves and one shouldn't put in blindly just to show off.

This has become a kind of trend.

What's The Point?

I mean one should realize your social media is not your actual life. What you show, and do in that doesn't matter much if you are opposite in reality . You can portray yourself as a great guy/girl on those websites but if in reality you aren't even the 1% of it trust me you will face a ton load of problems in future.

Relatable Example

You can simply see the case of online dating. Everyone there looks like the top of their class, they even act like that until and unless you meet and try to know them. I think only 1% of online dating is successful and genuine.

It's similar to ordering clothes from online shopping sites where the product isn't 100% similar to what you see there. Maybe the color, size, or even the quality is not up to the mark. No joke it's a fact.

Where's The Problem?

The problem isn't the social media it's in the people, everyone tries to become as good as they can in social media rather in real life. If even 50% of how good we are in those sites if we become and follow I'm sure our life the world will be a better place filled with better people.

Oh and let me reveal, I had also been caught in this mess but I realised it very early that what I am doing isn't going to benefit me at all.

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Final Thoughts

Sometimes I say harsh words because that's how I am. I am good in some way and bad also but not egoistic, hehe. I can't act because it seems meaningless to me. Overall people you meet on social platforms aren't like that in real life. They can be good or bad mostly the bad, I mean look at me, lmao.

Anyways, don't be like that. Be good to people around you, be compassionate like you are in social media, be understanding like you are in social sites, follow those motivations, teachings, and life lessons you share in posts, blogs, statuses, etc and see how fast your real-life changes in a good way.

Be someone who is even better than in real than what he/she is on social platforms. And this is for you, me and everyone!

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Coz some are pretentious

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2 years ago

And people are following them and becoming like them without even realising.

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2 years ago

Yeah sadly it's like some people create an alter ego in social media. It's hard to find genuine these days.

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2 years ago

Most of the things as well as people we see in online is completely different in real life.

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2 years ago

Social life versus social media, people with fake life, some don't so as they say

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2 years ago

It's a trend now to be good and intelligent in SM but completely opposite in real life.

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2 years ago

No one reveals their other side which is most likely bad on social media. That's why one must be very careful in making digital friends

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2 years ago

Yeah, one should not get to attached from them as everyone is a good person in social status but when they show real face one would be very hurt.

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2 years ago

Most times people try to fake everything and this affect their attitude about life. I know someone who coordinates so well but when it comes to life outside the internet, he sucks so much. Pretence is so bad.

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2 years ago

It's very difficult to know people nowadays especially in social media.

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People on social media are really different in their practical life. This thing hurt me a lot. We should be human on any platform. I agreed if 50% people become as good as on social media, then there will be healing effect for others as well.

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We can be good actors, lol.

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