Have you ever been in this kind of situation? Have you ever experienced having simple conversation with someone, that turned out to be someone you’re having late night talks to? From simple talks, turned to intimate talks. Able to stay up all night just to talk to you.

This is current trend nowadays – everyone can relate, especially to the young age. Finding someone you can talk to with the most nonsense things. Someone you’re comfortable of telling what you feel. Saying things, you need to do even if it’s pee or poo. Someone you can wait until the active status turns green. And someone that can make you grin. Simple things that warms the heart, even though label of the relationship is not a part. We do have someone that we really loved having time to chat to, even if we never met the person yet. Staying up all night talking whatever comes in mind, with the most concerned thoughts and care, sharing the same energy and spreading the same vibe.

In this current trend, commitment will never be present.

“If that’s one thing that you want to have, then I’m not the right person who can give you what you want.”

Common reason as to why a person chooses to leave the other and find someone new. That’s where ghosting plays the part.

MY ADVICE

In this new kind of intimacy, when you engage unto something like this you have to be prepared for what’s coming and it’s either mentally or emotionally.

• If you want it to last, don’t take his/her replies too seriously just go with the flow.

• If you’re a lady, keep your guard up. Don’t let simple words influence you. It may become your weakness.

• If you’re a man, don’t play too much with your words. Cause you can be naughty sometimes.

• Be flexible, never give too much – don’t give less. Just the right amount of attention, love, and care.

Because it this scenario, you can never be certain of how it will end up, never certain up until when, and never certain if it’s true or not. All you know is that you have someone you can talk to which is a good point for me, because there are things that you cannot dare to open up to your parents, but you can comfortably share it to someone your chatting to but be careful whom you share it with because it may become your weakness to someone who wants to take advantage of you.

Every trend brings both joy and doom, and it’s up to you how will you engage yourself to such and how will you see it in a broader picture. I just want to say that enjoy every moment for the reason that we will not know when will it last while putting our guard up. Lastly, never ask for commitment if both of you are not seriously unto each other. Remember it’s just a thing called, “Chat now, Ghost later”.