@TeacherLynlyn
“You’ve changed, we can’t reach you anymore”
Someone told me yesterday, ***"You've changed; we can't reach you anymore."*** In my previous article, I mentioned some changes I've been through in the past years of my life. There are a lot of realizations that come my way along my journey, so when I decided to change my perspective and focus on my goals, there were a lot of changes and sacrifices I made for me to push true all the better changes in my life. I became a ghost, limiting myself from unnecessary things that consume much of my energy and time. I began to put all my time and focus into my work and side hustles, and I make myself busy with things that are worth it and benefit my peace and satisfaction. *Then yesterday, some of my friends told me that I'd changed a lot, and they could not reach me anymore; it's quite annoying because of how he says it with sarcasm.* I know that I change, but she knows what I've been through for the past years of my life, and I guess if she wants me to be okay, he will understand what I'm doing for myself now. There's a little pain in my heart that I thought she would be the first to be happy about the better changes I have, but I was wrong. ***People don't change of a sudden just because they want to, but because they have a certain reason why they've come to decide to change the way they are leaving, and here are some:*** **People change because of pain:** Pain is everywhere, but it's up to us if we let pain conquer our hearts a hundred times. So some people decide to change to see their worth, and they deserve to think that they also need to feel loved and be loved. **People change because of past experiences and past mistakes:** Life is full of learning, and all occasions that we have in life are things that we should learn that we use to motivate ourselves to push through all circumstances that we have. These past experiences and mistakes will be our guts to move forward to be better and the best version of ourselves for the future. **These are the common reason why people change suddenly.** *Self-love is power, and everyone should know their worth. We change not because we have to but because we need to.* *If we want to change our life for the better, we need to focus and sacrifice some things that are not meant for our growth.* *Though others may not understand your sudden changes, the most important thing is the satisfaction that you get from all the changes that you've been.* *If you want to change to be the best version of your own, you need to work out and work hard for your goals and dream in life.* *So this is my response to my friend: "I've been through a lot, I'm living the life now for growth and changes for the best, and there's nothing wrong about that."* *So for all who are in the middle of changes in their lives, do things that make you succeed. Have a little more patience, and success will come for those who believe!* Good evening everyone! How are you guys?
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Yes we change for a lot of reasons. Really there are two types good and bad. Good changes are to better ourselves. Bad changes are poor decisions usually derived by the person acting out or purposely wanting no self worth. I say make changes to better yourself don't let someone else alter them just because they see you a little different. A lot of people hold there selves back by altering their plans based on how others might see them. If it's good for you and not toxic to others go for it.
I really loved all the things that you said! Thank you so much for this. ♥️ You're right, changes for the better is something I should be proud of no matter what they say. I will go for it, I will and I can.. Thank you so much again! ♥️🥰
Daming reasons why ang isang tao sis nagbabago. Like sabi mo sis dahil sa past experiences. Yes isa yan sis kasi ang mga experiences natin nagbibigay satin ng realizations at aral na nagpapabago satin.
Tama ka po sis, sobrang maraming pwede magbago kapag natututo ang isang tao. Lahat ng past mistakes and experiences pwedeng maging dahilan ng pagbabago natin. Thankyiu so much po ♥️🥰
Oo sis. Isa sa mga dahilan kung bakit nagbabago ang isang tao. Walang anuman sis.
Importante change for the better ganurn 😉 either will improve your physical or emotional. If san k magiging masaya n nde k nkakasira ng iba
tama.po. Basta sa ikakabuti mo at wala kang tinatapakan na ibang tao, tuloy lang ang laban. Thank you so much for dropping by po. 🥰♥️
Truth is most people expect us to be that same person they have always known. People are always scared of others changing.
This is perfect! "people are always scared for others changing" they are scared for the fact that they don't want me to move higher ground before them, but I'm not like that, I may be changing to be better , but I will always choose to be humble. Thank you so much!
May ganyang tao talaga ma'am, hindi natin yan maiiwasan, makikita lang nila nah may kunting naiiba sah atin pinupuna agad nila, pababayaan moh nalang, as long as wala tayong inaapakan.
Tama po, ang magandang gawin ay e-ignore lahat ng puna nila tapos tuloy lang ang laban! :) Thankyou so much!
Yes, fight² lang tayo ma'am,ahehe
I think that was the best answer to give. I don't know why people would choose to say those words. We all need changes to better our lives and we would pass through some sacrifices. The best is to be happy when you see me doing well because of what I have passed through in the past. There should be those to see us growing well and not to say such words.
Indeed! Some people are not just happy for the changes that you have. especially if you're changing for the best. Thank you so much! 🥰🥰
Changes is the constant in this world. Normal Lang naman talaga ang changes. Ako nga laki pinagbago ko after I got married. We have our reasons why we change eh.
Tama po, maraming bagay ang pwedeng mgaing dahilan ng pagbabago, pero kahit ano pa man yun, sana maging aral natin para mas mapabuti pa natin ang ating mga sarili. Maraming salamat po! 🥲
Yes change for the better
For instance, I'm also aware ate that I have also change but I'm happy because I know that it is for the better me. Sad thing is not everyone will accept the changes we have.
Tama ka Mayiee, hindi lahat magiging masaya, at hindi lahat maiintindihan ka..Pero ang importante ay nagbabago tayo oara sa ikabubuti natin. God bless you .Mayiee 🥰
Slayed! I actually think you are right and your response is also good ate. Well, lahat naman tayo nag babago at ang hindi magbago ay laging nahuhuli.
Tama ka Denn! Thank you so much. Lagi doat natin tandaan na ang pgbabago ay magsisimula sa sating sarili. God bless you Denn! 🙂♥️
It is not unusual for people to change. Many people change because of their situation and many people change because of the pain given by others.
absolutely right, everyone change for a reason, so we must respect that if they do. Thank you so much for reading! :)
We should care about others who are suffering. If we talk without hurting anyone, his behavior towards us will not change.
Well, I'm not sure if our comments will make it alright for you but change is good for your betterment. Look out for yourself not them. True friends will cherish you no matter how much you've changed and for those people who doesn't appreciate your change, are just making the best out of you. But you really make me wanna do a lot more! The 2nd person to motivate me to do something very big, going back to school - considering it despite knowing I cannot afford it right now. But... Thank u for the motivation and thank u for sharing. God bless!
Aww thank you so much! Thank you for the appreciation, and I'm so glad that I motivate you! More blessings to come, and may all your goals be achieved! Rooting for you.
I can totally relate with this article because right now I am also at the stage where I have become a ghost, I have reduced the time I spend with friends and I am completely focuses on my hustles and developing my coding skills. Whenever anybody tells me I have changed, I always reply with: "we are supposed to". Because that's the truth, we aren't meant to remain in one spot and sooner or later, things will have to change
When we have our priorities in life people tend to see our changes but we our doing it for the best
I agree with you sis! We do it for ourselves, and we do it for our family, so we must do whatever it takes.
Tama nga sis basta for our family talaga we will do everything eh
I agree with you, my friend! We are growing old every day, we must focus no on things that will benefits us sooner or later. Keep hustling and keep working hard! Sooner or later everything is worth it.
Exactly Lyn, that's what I always tell myself. Even though I have to sacrifice a lot of things now, I know all my efforte and hard work will be worth it later in the future
May point ka din langga and we don't need pleased everyone kasi may kanya kanya nmn tayong desisyon sa buhay. Di nga ako nkikialam sa kanila so back off sila sa buhay ko, taray nho hahaha.
hehe true ate Langga! PAg walang ambag wag makialam hehehe, Have a nice day ahead ate Langga! Happy Sunday :)
Very much true dear. Peoples change only due to circumstances. It is not purposeful. Better to ignore those who dont understand us.
I agree with you, my friend. It's better to ignore those people who never understand your changes. Thank you for reading!
Everyone change naman talaga, dahil sa mga pangyayari sa buhay. Lalo na kung adulting na at marami responsibilities.
Totoo po, hindi naman tayo pabata. Kaya we need to focus to hustle and work hard for the better future. Thank you so much! ♥️
Yeah, it's better to focus on your and DGAF about people think
People change and I hope others wil respect and understand that...
Indeed! 🙂 Everyone are capable to change their faith, and we must respect that they need to focus with their lives. Thankyou fir dropping by.
Very true naman po talaga na people change for the better they can be and sometimes people don't understand that..Dont be sad when someone don't understand us because we know better ourself than others.
You're right po. We need to focus if we want a better change to ourselves. If they don't understand it, then we don't have to bother ourselves to explain. Salamat po sa pagbabasa ,🙂