Male guides for communicating with women!

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2 years ago

For males to get along with women, they must be patient and attentive listeners. In extended chats, patience is both highly valued and essential. It would be best if you attempted to comprehend their emotions while also demonstrating some empathy. If necessary, provide criticism or suggestions, or listen attentively without giving a solution.

Even though communication is so simple, males frequently misunderstand women, don't convey their messages clearly, or engage in extended dialogues.

Men don't always feel the need to express their emotions openly. They frequently keep their feelings to themselves out of concern for unfair judgment, which destroys their capacity for effective conversation, especially with people of the opposite sex. Because female talks might be mysterious, most men will look for instruction and advice on how to have meaningful conversations with the other sex.

To facilitate and increase communication with the female partner, men could follow these helpful communication tips:

Having active listening skills:

It's wise to listen before you speak. For males to get along with women, they must be patient and attentive listeners. In extended chats, patience is both highly valued and essential. It would be best if you attempted to comprehend their emotions while also demonstrating some empathy. If necessary, provide criticism or suggestions, or listen attentively without giving a solution.

Men must listen calmly when women say things that may not always seem significant to them. While being patient, you should pay attention to what she is saying and her gestures. She is telling you for a reason and wants to share that reason with you. In addition to paying attention, active listening involves observing her body language and gazing into her eyes.

When it comes down to it, all ladies sometimes want is someone to listen to and offer comments or suggestions. I realize that you might want to steer the conversation or disagree with them. Put your ego aside and allow her to have the last say. Remember that doing so will not lessen your masculinity but will help you build strong relationships with female partners.

Understanding how to say things:

Women enjoy talking to guys about anything and everything and frequently wind up conversing for long periods. Sometimes, they may want you to listen to them and understand rather than offer advice or solutions. All they want at that point is to be understood.

Since women are known for being very verbally expressive, you must ensure that whatever you say has a warm, positive emotional core. Keep your language calm, straightforward, and concise without too much detail. An honest and close dialogue has power.

After you have given her enough time to speak, you should only provide a solution that you believe is crucial to the plot or situation.

Women tend to be indirect:

Just because a woman is indirect doesn't mean she's lying. It simply means that they won't typically express their sentiments in words, and you can never tell what they desire at a given moment merely by their terms.

Women are rarely blunt. Men find it convenient always to speak clearly, whereas women like to think things through and use indirection where possible. However, they frequently drop indications that you should pick up on and try to comprehend their emotions. Women do not want to be hurried. Thus, they speak slowly and consider their words carefully before speaking. It's because we haven't had time to think about it when you suddenly spring something on a female and you don't get the best response or perhaps a long pause. Women must ponder; therefore, occasionally, they tend to dodge the subject. They sometimes want extra support and encouragement to express their feelings.

When she is depressed:

Women frequently utilize language as a means of exploring and expressing challenging feelings. Men need to listen to women carefully rather than merely hearing them out to recognize when they are angry or going through a difficult moment.

When someone is there to understand her unpleasant emotions, she can process them and let them go. She enjoys nurturing and support and finds fulfillment in helping others and working together. She feels loved and cared for when she shows interest in her by taking good care of her or expressing genuine worries. By doing so, she satisfies her most fundamental desire for affection.

Communication Fails When:

-If a spouse cannot express their needs and desires clearly, comprehending and accepting them becomes pretty challenging. The secret is good communication.

- To improve their relationships and prevent them from feeling stuck and disappointed in their relationships, men and women need to be educated about these differences.

-Get back on the path to greater comprehension and communication if you feel stuck; it will be beneficial in the long term.

- Never tell her that the feelings are unfounded or that discussing the issues is pointless. When you ignore the problem, it demonstrates how insensitive you are. There will be a significant communication gap unless you try to downplay her feelings or convince her otherwise.

Communication breaks down when one person ignores a problem rather than listening to it and comes up with a solution.


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2 years ago

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Yes it is common that women remain indirect in their conversation and those are not much expressive By the way I came here to have a guide about hive please I don't know what to do there

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2 years ago

Heelo there my friend, actually I am not an expert in Hive, I was still guided by my sister-in-law, by the way, what do you want to know about? so I can ask her about that.

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2 years ago

Actually I have written an article on hive but I could not publish they were saying to buy something I don't know what please guide me

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2 years ago

Hello there again, huhu, no matter how much I want to, I'm on my way again to school, and I have no signal and internet connection there for about 8 hours and more 😔

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2 years ago

very practical advices and explicitly put forth.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much! :)

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2 years ago

Communication is a two-way street. Both should be attentive, active and effective listeners.

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2 years ago

You are right and I agree with you. I just hope that all relationships find their way to be better with good communication with each other.

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2 years ago

I agree with all these. The first one; listing skills, has a lot to say. Ladies loves a guy that give them listening ears even what they're saying is not not making sense, they just want to be listened to and it makes them feel loved

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2 years ago

I really love this. You are right because I am the kind of a girl who loves to talk even the nonsense thing that I have for a day, I just him to listen and appreciate how my day went well.

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2 years ago

nice nice, for me these reminders go for both men and women. Knowing, understanding, and familiarizing each other for better communication is what couples need.

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2 years ago

You are right po. I hope that every relationship gets better with a good communication po :)

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2 years ago

Very helpful piece✊. The importance of communication cannot be overemphasized.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much my friend! :)

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2 years ago

Naalala ko yong mga nababasa ko da comment sa fb like "lagi namang tama ang gurls ee." Hahaha

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2 years ago

Hehehhe tama ka ate! Madalas tayo ang tama, kahit minsan tayo ang may kaslaanan hehe.

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2 years ago

Love this one! I found it helpful especially for us Men

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2 years ago

I am happy that you loved all the things that I mentioned, I hope you can use this too to tour partner :)

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2 years ago

This is the second article I've read about this today. I'll give some more input this time. Your right on communication being crucial. Guy perspective here ... I think it's even more important at the beginning of the relationship to figure her out. Cutting her off is only used in extreme conditions. Like in a fender bender, child gets hurt and few others. I think she acts frantic because she hasn't soaked in what to actually do yet and we men have to tell her to calm down and gently ask direct questions. I think this calms her down rather than yelling back what's wrong. My experiences on just one of many actions.

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2 years ago

I strongly agree with you, my friend :) Thank you for sharing your ideas about this too, and I am sure that you're a great partner with your wife. :) I am just glad that you really find ways too to make your partner feel calm in such situations.

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2 years ago

I love it. Men should take note of this. Hehe

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2 years ago

Indeed! I am happy that you loved it sis!

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2 years ago

Agree ako jan. Minsan kc kulit din nteng mga babae 😂😂 di nila megets minsan ung indirect msg nten haha

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2 years ago

Interesting! I should call this relationship 201 😁😁

Women tends to be delicate and so, men needs to understand them and learn how to handle them and their situations. I love what you wrote here and this is really helpful.

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2 years ago

I am that you find it, helpful Princess! I guess our boyfriends should read this too hehe :)

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2 years ago

Quite insightful, I must confess. Thanks for this, I will apply it when interacting with people.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much, I am glad that you like it. God bless you ♥️

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