I am feeling so “behind in life”

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2 years ago

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Before anything else, did you feel sometimes that you're already behind in your life? How often did you feel it?

If you often feel it, this article is for you. Enjoy reading!

I know some people think they are left behind because they are pressured into a society where some of their friends are already getting married, buying houses, and cars and some of them are already having their kids.

Stop thinking that!

There are people who travel in their 20s!

 There are people still taking risks in their 30s!

Some people find their purpose only in their 40s!

There are people who find their loved ones when they are already in their 50s!

Not because our mind has the capability to make comparisons, but your timeline is not the same as anyone else in this world.

We have our timeline in life; life does not end at 25! Please stop thinking as it does!

You’re not left behind; you just need to work on your life!

To work in your life, you must have the willingness to move to a new level your life, you must break out of your comfort zone, and must face the things that you are not comfortable with.

To work on yourself is the best thing that you can do in your life. But first, you need to accept that you are not perfect. You have flaws and sometimes you’ll be lost and fail, but you are still enough. You should start to work on everything that destroys you; your ego, your insecurities, and your dark thoughts. And you will see in the end, you will have the peace that you’re longing for yourself and that would be the greatest thing in the world.

If you feel stagnant and like you’ve been left behind, like nothing is happening, it only means that God gives you time and space and helps you to release everything that burdens you, and help you to release the baggage that you can’t ‘carry where God will lead you. 

So how will you remain hopeful every moment of your life?

Always remember are not always the same. There are moments that you feel happy and there are moments that you feel sad. Different phases of life are part of our journey. It doesn’t matter which phase of life you are in now as long as you don’t let any phase will control everything about you. There are times when our darkest and dullest moments will frustrate and disappoint us, and we feel worthless. But never lose your heart in the hardest moments of your life.

It won’t be long before those moments come back, and you will rise and shine again!

Life may knock you down a hundred times, but for sure you can get out of the deepest pits of your life if you don’t give up.

You will get there in time, but only if you keep going no matter how life gets hard.

 So Kudos and big applause to all the people who are trying to build the life that they want from scratch. No rich parents, no inheritance, no connections, and no privilege but just pure hard work, tears, sweat, and prayers. May you achieve the life that you deserve!


So for everyone who thinks that they are already left behind, never give up! You made this so far! Hold on and be ready because your time will come.


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thanks for sharing this... being a mom, a stay at home mom sometimes gives me this feeling..

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2 years ago

I know how it feels mommy, but you know what I just want to remind you that you are blessed, you are worthy because you are a mom of Matti po. You are not left behind po, for me being a mom, is the best job that is not comparable with anyone else.

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Sometimes I felt that I have to step up so that I can see the whole view of my life. Then, I would I realize there is no time and space for me to be jealous to others. I have the resources to meet my dream, and all I have to do is to embrace it.

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2 years ago

Yes, Denn, our success is worth having if we also embrace the process that we've been through and everything is worth it in the end if we let ourselves work out for the things that matter. Thank you for dropping by Denn :) God bless you.

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Kasi ate minsan kapag nasa process na tayo, doon mo lang mararanasan yung feeling na ayaw mo na, susuko kana, at feeling mo di na sya worth it. Pero at the end, kapag natapos naman na, masaya at satisfied na tayo. Hihi.

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2 years ago

tapos magugulat nalang tayo na ang layo layo na pala natin sa dati. Tapos sobrang masaya sa pakirmadam kapag napagtagumpayan natin yung pagsubok na akala natin di natin kakayanin!kaya tuloy lang tayo palagi :) Wag tayong hihinto.

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2 years ago

It's true. We have different mindset when it comes with this. Some have a lot of regrets but we need to fix it and make it better to find yourself to be happy.

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2 years ago

I agree with you po. It's not too late for us to make ourself better. We should always find reason to be happy and to be satisfied with our life. Thankyou for reading! Have a nice day ahead.

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They are many people that always want to pressurize a young age because they feel like there is time for everything and if it exceeds that time, it will be over but that isn't true

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I agree with you! They using time to pressure us and make us feel that we're running out of it. But we should be strong in all the things they throw to us and be firm about our goals no matter what they say. Thankyou Cogamedia for reading. God bless you!

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2 years ago

Exactly dear, how great you said, we should never give up, we must keep going and try to build our life, no matter how life is hard. Stop thinking, work hard and being hopeful, it cause we will rise and shine again...

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2 years ago

Thank you for reading Ellen. Everything you mentioned is all true. all of our hard work will be paid off, and at the perfect time, we will rise and shine again. God bless you!

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2 years ago

of course! and the first way to stop comparing yourself with others is to gain mental peace and that comes when you start accepting that everything comes to us at a time. we just do not have to lose faith and patience.

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I agree with you, we should learn how to wait with patience. Stop comparing yourself, make sure to work out for yourself no matter what. God bless you Trofi!

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Sometimes I felt this way too, that I am far behind others, especially in achieving my dreams, though no one is to blame for my failure. But hopefully, I can still manage to at least lift my life from where I am now.

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Of course, you can. Nothing is temporary, and everything that you do now will be paid off soon. You just need to believe in yourself no matter what.

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I agree, we should work on with the things that only gives us destruction. Let's eliminate it and replace the with positive thoughts. This is perfect for me. Thanks for this ma'am.

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You're very most welcome Sequoia. Let's all be positive, and wait with faith that everything that we are hoping for will come into place. God bless you!

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2 years ago

Haha when I got married and have a kid, I felt like I was behind always because of I changed my priority, but now I am used to it so I am not that too worried to be behind everytime.

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You can still dream and achieve your goal even if you have your family already. And I think it's more powerful because you have your family who will be your strength to pursue your dreams and inspire you to achieve your goals. You are not behind, you made this so far., and you can do more tomorrow. Thank you for reading.

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