I am feeling so “behind in life”
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Before anything else, did you feel sometimes that you're already behind in your life? How often did you feel it?
If you often feel it, this article is for you. Enjoy reading!
I know some people think they are left behind because they are pressured into a society where some of their friends are already getting married, buying houses, and cars and some of them are already having their kids.
Stop thinking that!
There are people who travel in their 20s!
There are people still taking risks in their 30s!
Some people find their purpose only in their 40s!
There are people who find their loved ones when they are already in their 50s!
Not because our mind has the capability to make comparisons, but your timeline is not the same as anyone else in this world.
We have our timeline in life; life does not end at 25! Please stop thinking as it does!
You’re not left behind; you just need to work on your life!
To work in your life, you must have the willingness to move to a new level your life, you must break out of your comfort zone, and must face the things that you are not comfortable with.
To work on yourself is the best thing that you can do in your life. But first, you need to accept that you are not perfect. You have flaws and sometimes you’ll be lost and fail, but you are still enough. You should start to work on everything that destroys you; your ego, your insecurities, and your dark thoughts. And you will see in the end, you will have the peace that you’re longing for yourself and that would be the greatest thing in the world.
If you feel stagnant and like you’ve been left behind, like nothing is happening, it only means that God gives you time and space and helps you to release everything that burdens you, and help you to release the baggage that you can’t ‘carry where God will lead you.
So how will you remain hopeful every moment of your life?
Always remember are not always the same. There are moments that you feel happy and there are moments that you feel sad. Different phases of life are part of our journey. It doesn’t matter which phase of life you are in now as long as you don’t let any phase will control everything about you. There are times when our darkest and dullest moments will frustrate and disappoint us, and we feel worthless. But never lose your heart in the hardest moments of your life.
It won’t be long before those moments come back, and you will rise and shine again!
Life may knock you down a hundred times, but for sure you can get out of the deepest pits of your life if you don’t give up.
You will get there in time, but only if you keep going no matter how life gets hard.
So Kudos and big applause to all the people who are trying to build the life that they want from scratch. No rich parents, no inheritance, no connections, and no privilege but just pure hard work, tears, sweat, and prayers. May you achieve the life that you deserve!
So for everyone who thinks that they are already left behind, never give up! You made this so far! Hold on and be ready because your time will come.
thanks for sharing this... being a mom, a stay at home mom sometimes gives me this feeling..