Figure Out Who's Worth Being Part Of Your Outcome!

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2 years ago

"Most people don't want to be part of the process; they want to be part of the outcome. But the process is where you figure out who's worth being part of the outcome" – Carey Lohrenz.

This quote catches my attention when I browse my social media account.

Have you ever experienced where people tend to disconnect from you in times of struggle? You knock at their door so hard and cry too many times to beg for their attention and help. They become blind and deaf even if you make an effort for them to notice you and hear your scream.

 But that's the reality of life now; people tend not to recognize you, especially when you are at the bottom.

Along your journey, you will meet many of these people, and here’s the reason why they never want to be with you along the process:

They never want to be part of the process because they see you as nothing, or you never want to exceed them in life.

These people never believed in you, that you could make it and you would overcome everything to succeed.

 These people question your ability and never see your worth and that you are capable of making your dreams come true.

These people are also the people who are just waiting for you to stumble and lose control of everything.

These people love to see you fight alone and lose the battle.

Despite this, you must continue to fight even if you're alone. Make all these people your motivation to push harder. Let them believe and see that you can be what you want and be the best version of yourself no matter what and whatever it takes.

But when the time that you already have the chance to achieve all the victories in life, that will be the time that they will recognize you. This is when they will entertain you as if they are there in times of all your troubles. This is when they will have time to listen and give effort because they know they will benefit from something about you.

So please, let these people will define your future, never let them conquer your perspective in life, and never let them control you.

So along your journey, you will recognize the people who are true to you and believe in you that you can, and only these people will be worth appreciating. These people are the one who only deserves to stay by your side for where you belong now.

So for people who help and lessen the burden of those struggling and fighting alone, thank you so much for being their ears to hear, eyes to see, and mouth to peak. Thank you for decreasing their burden and encouraging them to go through with their lives. You are now worthy to witness their better changes.

So again, thank you!


Today is Sunday here and tomorrow is Monday again. Another week will begin. May you have the strength to face the challenges every day.

Good luck, everyone. May you have a beautiful journey in life and meet people who will be there for you even if you're on your bottom rock.


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2 years ago

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The journey to success is not easy and it could not be covered alone we need help we need support so for this there are just few people who can stand with us who are loyal to us

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2 years ago

I agree with you, there are times and situations that we cannot make it alone, so we need someone who will be there for us but of course these are people who are only true to us and be with us no matter what. Thank you for reading :)

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2 years ago

It is definitely very difficult to get the real picture of a person whom you trust than everyone. When anything befalls us, we get to know who is better than the other.

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2 years ago

you're right my dear friend and we will know where the grass (person) is greener, that would be the fake one.

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2 years ago

Reminds me of how others support other people in the entertainment industry. We only support them once they succeed.

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2 years ago

I agree with you, I'm just hoping that everyone should learn how to return the favor from nothing into something.

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2 years ago

That's why you can only tell who's the real gem when you encountered battles in your life. Those who stay is the real one and those who left you behind, for sure they only recognize when they need something from you

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2 years ago

I agree with you Mayiee, you're right, they will give time and effort if they will get something from you, and when you have nothing, they are nowhere o be found.

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2 years ago

I agree with you dear.. hayz... but then again, life has to move on and even if it's sad to go on with just ourselves, it's reality.

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2 years ago

Yes po, we have no power to control what others may other think about us, but what's matter the most is how we handle it and move on.

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2 years ago

he most is how we handle it an

we just have to accept this

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2 years ago

Indeed po ♥️

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2 years ago

Ang daming ganyan. Ang bait sau pg napapakinabngan k. Pg wala k n pkinabang sa kanila di k na nila kilala. Pg ikaw n may kelangan hu u ka. Sad life.

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2 years ago

That's the reality of life now po. Kapag nakuha na nila yung gusto nila sayo, wala na. Kaya minsan migi talaga na magtira ng para sa sarili. Maraming salamat :)

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2 years ago

I have few people who's been there through my ups and downs in my life. Kahit kakaunti Lang sila but I am thankful kasi I know may tao paring naniniwala sa akin at my mga Tao pa ring kilala talaga ako at alam nila ang kakayahan ko.

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2 years ago

I'm so glad to know that sis, that you have these kind of people. Tama po, kahit kaunti basta tunay at nainiwala sa kakayahan mo ay sapat na yun. 🥰 May you achieve more achievements po, I know you are capable of anything po ♥️

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2 years ago

Salamat sis

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2 years ago

If the people you meet are selfish and jealous, they do all the evil you mentioned above

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2 years ago

Yes, you're right..They will do such thing just because of being selfish and jealousy. How I wish that these people will experience and feel the same too.

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2 years ago

Believe me, I want them to experience the same situation.

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2 years ago

In difficult times talaga natin makilala ang mga tao na totoo satin sis. Kung sino yung mag stay satin sa panahon na kailangan natin sila.

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2 years ago

Totoo sis, malalaman talaga natin yung mga tunay na nandyan para sa atin kapag humaharap tayo sa mga pagsubok, kaya dapat dun lang tayo sa mga taong makakatulong para sa atin para lumago. Maraming Salamat! :)

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2 years ago

Oo sis. Piliin natin yung mga taong mag motivate sa atin. Yung i-guide tayo sa path para sa ikabubuti natin. Walang anuman sis.

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2 years ago

A lot has happened to me, in fact right now I'm experiencing it, I don't have friends. Do you know who have been part of my process? your:)

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2 years ago

Thank you so much, my friend :) Whatever you may be facing and experiencing right now, I know that you can do it, I know you will overcome it, just keep going, and thank you for being always there :)

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2 years ago

This is interesting. The quote caught my attention and I enjoy reading your post.

There are people I categorize as naysayers just like in my post. These set of people do not want to see you succeeding. They do not want to be a part of the process but one thing we should never allow is letting them have control over us.

Instead, they should be like a motivation to prove them wrong. God will surely mock them.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much Princess :), I appreciate you so much. Well, you're right. Never let them control you, but rather make them wonder and let them shock by the success that you will have in the future. Thank you so much for dropping by :)

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2 years ago

Ignore those people who believes in you that you can't do nothing and appreciates those people who believes that you can.

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2 years ago

Indeed, these people are not worth it especially when you already reached the success in your life. Always connect yourself with the people who helps you to grow and who are there with you along the process. Thank you for reading ♥️

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2 years ago

It's my pleasure 😊 as what they've said even your relatives can talk bad gossips behind you but the time you will reach/commit your success lulunukin nila mga salitang binitawan nila.

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2 years ago

And sometimes, mas magandang manahimik tapos ang sasampal ng kusa sakanila eh yunh success natin :)

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2 years ago

Indeed po😊

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2 years ago

So true Lynlyn. It's good though to have those that help and support us. Yes there are times we end up alone and have to push hard to get that outcome even those others look the other way. I always find it strange when those same people who looked away give you congratulations, offer help in the future, or come up with excuses why they weren't there with you.

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2 years ago

I agree with you. There's a lot of people who acts like they are with you during your hard times and congratulates you like they help you along the process, but they are not. Thank you for dropping by ♥️

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2 years ago