As the Day of Love is getting near, everyone is busy thinking about their special someone. Others are busy preparing gifts and surprises. Is this the loneliest day for the single ones?

I always see Valentine's Day as the month of showing love and care. I do not see it as the month of dating and spending time with someone special only. A lot of people are being pressured by the fact that they have reached a matured age yet they still haven't found someone to be in their side. It's a matter of choice. Not everyone wants to be inside the relationship because some are already happy in their own way. We should respect everyone's choice in life. Not because someone is alone on Valentine's Day at the age of 40 doesn't mean they are unlovable and lonely. Think about your family and friends. Spend time and show them how important they are in your life.

Remember it is okay if..

You are already near your 30s or 40s and you're still single

Nothing is bad with that and do not feel being outcasted. You are not alone and lonely. You have your own way of living your life to the fullest. Don't feel embarrass of being single at that age, do not let everyone's opinion to be your opinion too. Enjoy life and live with zero regrets.

You are doing self-love for so many years

You are not selfish for loving yourself before anyone else. Love yourself and know how worthy you are all the time. Once you start loving yourself, anything negative that you will hear about yourself doesn't matter anymore because you know who you are. You don't need to seek for validations and appreciations.

You are single because you have been rejected or cheated before

It's okay if your past still hurts you. Let the wound heal before you open your door for someone new. Being rejected doesn't mean you are unworthy or unlovable, it simply means the person is a wrong person for you and someone else better is waiting for you. Being cheated really sucks and you have to remember that you are not lacking something. Forget and forgive, one day the right person will heal all the pain you've been through and it's going to be worth it.

You have no luck in relationships

I don't know if there is such thing as bad luck or being unfortunate towards having a love life but if you found yourself failing all the time, I guess it's the time for you to rest yourself from entering different relationships. Maybe now is not the right time for you yet. Not because you are always unlucky on having a love life, doesn't mean you won't find the right one. Only time can tell and one day it will reveal you the right one.

You have never been on a relationships

There's nothing wrong about it. What now if you haven't kiss someone yet? Haven't dated anyone? Haven't been asked once? Haven't been called in a special way? There's nothing wrong with these and there is nothing you should be embarrass. Being a human doesn't mean you need to deal with different relationships just to see yourself better. It is never like that and won't never be that way.

There are so many reasons why someone is single on the Valentine's Day but does it even matter? You should be worried about living your life without seeing your worth. Do not let it be the reason to feel envious, different, alone and do not feel unworthy if you are living a single life throughout the years. You are a human and you are valid. Your choices, your preferences and your perspectives are valuable. So, I disagree that February is the loneliest day for the single ones.

"Remember you are always worthy and you matter."

February 5, 2022