Bible, Anna Karenina... every single person at least one time during life.
Vengeance, revenge...
Why do we need to revenge to those who hurt us?
Because we think that we will feel better thanks to that revenge. Actually, we do not think, we are sure that we will feel better, we are sure that pain of person who has hurt us will bring us healing.
We, it will not. Pain of other person is not going to cure your wounds. Pain of other people will not fix what is broken inside of you.
You will still feel bad about what happened to you, you will still be hurt. Pain will not disappear. And, you will not feel satisfied because you hurt someone, no matter how bat that person is. You will not feel better if someone else feels bad.
I know that now you may think that I am talking things that you already know, and I was also thinking about revenge sometimes.
IT IS NATURAL, BUT IT IS NOT GOOD AT ALL.
Now, you may say 'God is good and I am not, I am just as I am'.
You should be good, and God, Karma, circle of life, will vengeance instead of you.
Just forgive
Just forgive everything what was not goof. Forgive things that were making you feel bad. Forgive about things that you do not want to remeber. And, even if you cannot forgive those things, just do not think about those things.
You will feel better if you do not think about things that are hurting you.
This sentence is originaly from the Bible, and it is meant that vengeance is not for men, it is for God. God will give them what they deserve, you do not have to do that.
You do not have to believe in God, you may believe in Karma, in circle of life, what goes round comes nack around... whatever you believe in, will revenge instead of you.
Do not spend your life on bad things
When you think about revenge you will realize that it is not good at all. You do not need things that are not good in your life.
Focus on good things.
Focus on good inside of you.
God is good and you are good.
Good is everywhere, all around of us. Everywhere.
When you are good, you will attract good things.
That was just my opinion about revenge.
I hope that you will find this article inspirative and my attitude correct.
Please, share your opinion about this with me, I would really love to talk to people here about this. I would love to know what other people think about this.
When i get to much Hart but stil opposite person Don't understand that he make a bad behaviour but i give t Her another chance but stil he did not ment to herself then i get angry and think of my self i must get revenged but after few minutes latter my Angry gone Away like water