Yesterday I have written article called ''What is meant to be''. Witht hat article I stared my new series that is going to be about finding yourself inside of you. About finding out who you actually are and what do you want from yourself, from your life, and from other people.
I hope that some of my upcoming articles from this series will help you. I would really love ot make you think about some things that are truly important, and to help you realize how good you actually are and how big things you can actually do in your life.
Today, we will talk a bit about things that we would love to have in our lives and about what we have to do, in order to get those things.
Set your goals
Maybe you think that you already know what you want from your life, but trust me, you do not. You have to sit, and to think about what is really important for you. Sometimes, you think that you want some things, that are not important at all. Because of that sit down, take a piece of paper and a pen and write down what oyu want from your life. Also, write reasons why you want to have those things.
One more way is to, when you make a wish, sit down write that on paper, and write reasons for and reasons against. You will be surprised how many things actually are not for you.
Sometimes, we wish somethiong and we do not even know why do we want to have it. And, when we think about it, we realize that we do not need it and that it is not for us.
Because of that, be sure that you know what and why you want.
Be persistent
Sometimes, you will not get it from the first try, from the second try or drom thr 48th try, but maybe the next try is the one that will bring you what you want.
You need to keep trying. No matter what is happening, you need to keep trying. Because of that it is extremely important ot know what you really want. What is worth trying and what is not. Do not waste your time on things that do not deserve that.
Things are not coming easy, specially if they are good.
Do not wait
Many people will tell you that good things are coming to those who are patient, who know to wait. And, that is not true. If you wait for something, that things will not come to you. It will come to those who are working hard for it.
You need to be the one who is working hard. Hardest. Hard enough to get what you want to have.
Do not wait for better time, better chance, better people, better mood. Now. DO it now. Take it now!
One by one
You cannot have it all at once. You will have to work hard, to deserve, and one by one, things that you want will be coming to you. Actually, you will be coming to things that you want.
Do not expect to have all at once. That is not possible.
Step by step.
That were my pieces of advice for you. I think that those things can help you to realize what od you want from your life and how are you going to get is.
I cannot tell you do that and that, I do not know what do you want to have. But, what is universal is to fight for what you truly want to have.
See you soon!
XOXO,
@SuncicaZ
Often times we let life carry us without some set goals.