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1 year ago

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When having an argument with your partner, friend or family member, don't send that long impulsive message or say all those things you think you want to say in that moment when you're angry and make things worse.

Write it down on a note instead, or write it on your phone, this would give you enough time to really think clearly and help you explain how you feel better, it would also save you from the mental stress of arguing and fighting.

Once you send that message, you can't undo it so don't rush, take your time before you hit send.

Little things like this make a huge difference!

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One who think before reacting is really blessed.

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1 year ago

True! It's so hard to do especially when you're in that heated argument, it's really hard to think before reacting

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1 year ago

Control your mode so you will not regret later

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1 year ago

Control your mode so you will not regret later

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1 year ago

The think before you send mood is really helpful! you won't have a problem and you won't have regrets after. It's really helpful whenever your mindful even if you're angry. Clashing will also be avoided so yeah it's really great

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1 year ago

Thanks for your contribution, we can all avoid it if we just take a second to breathe and think properly.

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1 year ago

Sometimes I have this kind of feeling too, panicking what to decide whether I'll say it or just leave it be and do noyhing, in the end regrets just pop up to my head.

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1 year ago

We can all avoid situations like that if we just take a moment to rethink what we want to say, writing it and reading it again gives us time to change some harsh words we could have said and regretted later.

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1 year ago

Wow very. Good advice

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1 year ago

I can see you're new here, thanks for your contribution, also leaving the same type of short comments on articles would lead to it being marked as spam and downvoted.

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1 year ago

Oh no! What a nice advice! I am always angry and say what I want I hope it helps to me thanks

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1 year ago

I hope it helps you make better decisions and helps you communicate better.

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1 year ago

honestly, sometimes, that split seconds just don't matter anymore and you'll just keep sending messages till your done HAHAHA

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1 year ago

Then you start regretting saying all the things you didn't mean

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1 year ago

yeah .. but sometimes saying harsh, reasonable words would make people grow. But still, doing it in moderation also.

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1 year ago

I don't think so, we don't need to say hurtful things to people we love and care about just because we are angry especially if you're going to regret saying it.

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1 year ago

someday.. you might need to ..

we might have different thoughts on this and you might have not experienced the struggles that I did, so let's just respect each other's point of view.

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1 year ago

You're right, we all have different views based on our experiences.

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1 year ago

Agreed! :)

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1 year ago

That is nice

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1 year ago

So me haha .Maybe I should start applying it to my self .😂 But sometimes if things out of the limit you can say something when your angry. But thanks for this .

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1 year ago

You're welcome, you should try it next time you will be glad you did

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1 year ago

Good

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1 year ago

When you are on the peak of your emotions jotting down all your feelings is impossible. On the moment of arguments you will become impulsive, freaking weirdo and your head is like a bomb wants to explode. So, suppressing your impulse of fighting back is impossible. I remember the homily of a priest that in times of family argument put your mouth an ice,to calm your heated head and surely no hateful words will come out because your mouth is full. What if you don't have an ice in your freezer and your freezer is far away from the location where you argue? What a joke! I think the other remedy is, when the other one is hot, the other one must be cool. Let the day pass, let the moment cool down on its course before laying down your side of the story.

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1 year ago

You're right, don't react immediately!

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1 year ago

Yes better decisions follows by a better result so you need to think about it repeatedly especially if its causes a hurt or harm to the person

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1 year ago

Once you say things that would hurt them, you can't take it back.

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1 year ago

So true, so better think

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1 year ago

don't make decisions when you're angry. don't make promises when you're happy

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1 year ago

"Think before you click"

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1 year ago

Exactly! don't rush and do something you will regret

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1 year ago

Indeed!

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1 year ago

This can save you, from lot's of future troubles. Very good advice.

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1 year ago

It works trust me! I do it almost everytime and I always look back and thank my lucky stars I didn't send that impulsive text and ruin everything. It would save you a lot of time arguing and fighting and saying mean things you don't mean.

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1 year ago

Absolutely! Before, I was too impulsive everytime I get mad. I say a lot of hurtful words. But, I did realize I should not.

This may look funny and interesting, but the things you mentioned like write it down on a piece of paper or type it on your phone, I literally and usually do that everytime!! 😂😁

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1 year ago

I do it everytime i'm having an argument with my partner and most times I end up not sending the message at all cause I realize how horrible I sound! I just calmly talk about it later 😂

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1 year ago

Yes. That is the best thing you could do when you are in a relationship, being able to control you anger.

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1 year ago

Anger is really bad and causes a lot of harm, once you're no longer angry you realize how little the issue may be and you see there was no need to say all those mean things.

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1 year ago

Absolutely!

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1 year ago

Hahahaha I feel you though there is remove a message for all, but when they read it already, boooM. You have nothing to do.

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1 year ago

😂😂 you have to be really fast so they don't see it or you're in trouble! I think only a few messaging apps have that option like whatsapp, normal text messages on your phone can't undo it

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1 year ago

Yeah... 😂😂😂 Like text message not an apps. 🤣

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1 year ago

Count to 3, calm yourself first before doing any actions.

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1 year ago

It's easy to say but extremely hard to do especially in the heat of the argument, you just want to tell them your mind and how you feel, it almost always ends up bad.

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1 year ago

I know it's hard, but if you don't do it, it may add fuel to the fire until the arguments becomes deep.

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1 year ago

You just keep going deeper and before you know it, you've said something you can't take back just because you're angry. Anger is really bad and causes a lot of harm.

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1 year ago

Exactly! And it can cause more misunderstanding.

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1 year ago

It always does, we need to be able to control ourselves when we are angry.

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1 year ago

Wonderful article. We should need to learn

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1 year ago