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90 Days Rule
Do you think sex on the first date is bad? When do you think is the right time to have sex with your partner? There's a common rule women follow, it's called the 90 days rule and it says you must wait for 3 months before having any sexual contact with your partner. Some people think it's best to wait for a few weeks or months or even years cause if you do it too early the relationship would not last long. There are also couples that did it on the first date and they are old and still together. What do you think? **Don't forget to Subscribe** 💞💕 *Click Here for more articles like this.* https://read.cash/c/marriage-and-relationship-4c4c
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I think, that there is no rule. It is how you feel like (both of them, no forcing), and this is enough.
I agree, they should communicate and understand each other and also respect each others decisions.
I think those rules aren't necessary at all, it's about commitments s*x is not the core basis of relationship.
You're right, I think it's up to the both people, everyone and every relationship is different.
Exactly, that is some rules are not applicable or necessary.
Absolutely unnecessary!
Maybe some women follow the same rule you have mentioned. But in my perspective, there is nothing wrong about having sex during your first date, or after months of talking, and even if it took years for you to finally have sex with your partner. It is a decision to make by the person. If she said yes, then be it. And if she said no, respect it.
I think so too, we should do what makes us happy, also communicate and respect each others decisions. sex doesn't determine how the relationship would go, you can wait for one year or one day, if he wants to cheat or leave, he would.
Sex won't make a man stay. I am sure with that, because sex is already everywhere. You can get and have it to anyone. But, the attachment, affection, and unconditional love you get from a woman is a blessing. Having sex with her would just be a bonus.
Facts! Thanks for your contribution 💕
In my opinion, we cannot just abide for a rule thats uncertain. All we have to do is, if we truly love that person we stay committed and wait for the right moment to come. The right moment for that is to do that after a sacred wedding. I believed that Love must be the center of relationship and not lust. I hope I enlightened your minds from my perspective.
Thanks for your contribution, we should all do what's best for us and what makes us happy, if you want to wait or not, It's up to you to decide how you want your life to be.
As i m a muslim so we follow the rule of our religious.instead of first date we do all this at after wedding first night.
A lot of traditions and religions do that too.
Uhm I don't think the 90days rule is wise cause that's not what will keep the man, who wants to stay will stay despite that
Some men will wait for 90 days and still leave once they get it.
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I dont know that rules 😅 but for me it depends for the couples
lol google it, it's there. You're right it depends on the couple.
For long lasting relationship sex is not the berometer. It is like food, it is not the main dish it is just a dessert for added sweetness, it won't make you full. The main dish is the love and mutual understanding, accepting each flaws. Always having dessert man will be used of it and lost its excitement and eventually the relstionship.
Exactly! It's just the icing on the cake. 😀
Good
I think if you love each other on any date as long as you two understand each other. That depends on you two partners. There is also the fact that it is in their culture to wait a few months. let's respect that. we can do nothing there.
We all have different cultures and religions and we should respect that.
Nice article
Sex on a first date? That would be awkward!
Really? why?
it's best after wedding for me but it's up to the couple if they will do it or not.
It depends on the couple......Both of them.....
You're right it's totally up to the couple to decide
Personally,i only wait for a week. I'm quiet liberated, i admit. But sex is part of a relationship, it is where you can express how much you love your bf or partner. It works for us because we are still together.
I don't have any time frame, I just do whatever I feel like and it's been working for me too. It doesn't matter, we should be free to express ourselves however we like, no one should tell you what to do with your body, it's your choice.
Thatbgoes for me as well though it is not very common to our culture. Most of us are not open minded when it comes to sex.
Tell this article to a liberated lady, she will just laugh. I mean, today's mindset is really disgusting. They have a girlfriend/boyfriend engage in intimate relationship is like a walk in a park.
It's not disgusting it's called a choice, we are all entitled to our choices, don't tell anyone what to do with their bodies or relationships, If you don't like it that's not their problem that's your problem and it's totally not your business or your right to call them disgusting for their choices. if they want to have sex on the first date or after one year it's their decision to make and it doesn't determine whether their relationship will last or not.
My opinion, sex shouldn't be mentioned till after sacred wedding only if both agreed to be together, because there is nothing backing it up that, sex helps to show affection or helps to know if they both love each. Its not really good and it's called immorality.
If that's what you prefer that's okay, we all have different cultures and beliefs and should respect each others decisions.
Nice post