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Don't Press Send!
Tip When having an argument with your partner, friend or family member, don't send that long impulsive message or say all those things you think you want to say in that moment when you're angry and make things worse.
Write it down on a note instead, or write it on your phone, this would give you enough time to really think clearly and help you explain how you feel better, it would also save you from the mental stress of arguing and fighting. Once you send that message, you can't undo it so don't rush, take your time before you hit send. Little things like this make a huge difference!
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Count to 3, calm yourself first before doing any actions.
It's easy to say but extremely hard to do especially in the heat of the argument, you just want to tell them your mind and how you feel, it almost always ends up bad.
I know it's hard, but if you don't do it, it may add fuel to the fire until the arguments becomes deep.
You just keep going deeper and before you know it, you've said something you can't take back just because you're angry. Anger is really bad and causes a lot of harm.
Exactly! And it can cause more misunderstanding.
It always does, we need to be able to control ourselves when we are angry.
Hahahaha I feel you though there is remove a message for all, but when they read it already, boooM. You have nothing to do.
😂😂 you have to be really fast so they don't see it or you're in trouble! I think only a few messaging apps have that option like whatsapp, normal text messages on your phone can't undo it
Yeah... 😂😂😂 Like text message not an apps. 🤣
Absolutely! Before, I was too impulsive everytime I get mad. I say a lot of hurtful words. But, I did realize I should not. This may look funny and interesting, but the things you mentioned like write it down on a piece of paper or type it on your phone, I literally and usually do that everytime!! 😂😁
I do it everytime i'm having an argument with my partner and most times I end up not sending the message at all cause I realize how horrible I sound! I just calmly talk about it later 😂
Yes. That is the best thing you could do when you are in a relationship, being able to control you anger.
Anger is really bad and causes a lot of harm, once you're no longer angry you realize how little the issue may be and you see there was no need to say all those mean things.
Absolutely!
"Think before you click"
Exactly! don't rush and do something you will regret
Indeed!
This can save you, from lot's of future troubles. Very good advice.
It works trust me! I do it almost everytime and I always look back and thank my lucky stars I didn't send that impulsive text and ruin everything. It would save you a lot of time arguing and fighting and saying mean things you don't mean.
don't make decisions when you're angry. don't make promises when you're happy
Yes better decisions follows by a better result so you need to think about it repeatedly especially if its causes a hurt or harm to the person
Once you say things that would hurt them, you can't take it back.
So true, so better think
When you are on the peak of your emotions jotting down all your feelings is impossible. On the moment of arguments you will become impulsive, freaking weirdo and your head is like a bomb wants to explode. So, suppressing your impulse of fighting back is impossible. I remember the homily of a priest that in times of family argument put your mouth an ice,to calm your heated head and surely no hateful words will come out because your mouth is full. What if you don't have an ice in your freezer and your freezer is far away from the location where you argue? What a joke! I think the other remedy is, when the other one is hot, the other one must be cool. Let the day pass, let the moment cool down on its course before laying down your side of the story.
You're right, don't react immediately!
So me haha .Maybe I should start applying it to my self .😂 But sometimes if things out of the limit you can say something when your angry. But thanks for this .
You're welcome, you should try it next time you will be glad you did
Oh no! What a nice advice! I am always angry and say what I want I hope it helps to me thanks
I hope it helps you make better decisions and helps you communicate better.
Sometimes I have this kind of feeling too, panicking what to decide whether I'll say it or just leave it be and do noyhing, in the end regrets just pop up to my head.
We can all avoid situations like that if we just take a moment to rethink what we want to say, writing it and reading it again gives us time to change some harsh words we could have said and regretted later.
The think before you send mood is really helpful! you won't have a problem and you won't have regrets after. It's really helpful whenever your mindful even if you're angry. Clashing will also be avoided so yeah it's really great
Thanks for your contribution, we can all avoid it if we just take a second to breathe and think properly.