Trait, Lesson, Relationship tip.
Date: February 10,2022
Author: SequoiaThe life itself is definitely full of ups and downs. We cannot predict what will happen next moment and the only thing that we can be sure of is that, everything changes and nothing stays the same forever. The only constant thing in this world is the change itself. Being open with the new possibilities and doors should be one the abilities that we should carry.
Everything has its own different endings and we should learn to prepare ourselves when that time comes. Enjoy your life but don’t get crazy over it. Eventually, all the things that we see, including us, will soon perish and will be forgotten.
Accept that things are bound to happen with or without our approval. We are not the only person who lives in this world. Socializing and adjusting for other people’s sake is the selfless thing that we can ever do in our whole lifetime.
Can’t you see? Open your eyes and look at your surroundings. A lot of people are dying just to have the life that you are living as of the moment. Do not stay ungrateful. You are privileged enough to be able to live that kind of life.
Hence, you choose to focus on the dark valley. Disregarding the things that you have learned during your previous battle. Life is all about finding the right view to look at. It’s either you control your life, or let your life control you.
Agony and despair are the two things that majority of the people suffer from. We are sall struggling and fighting. Let’s always choose to treat each other with love and respect. Remember, you never know what that person is going through.
Be open for corrections and criticisms. They are crucial for your growth in every aspect. Don’t be afraid to fail, it is all part of the process.
Let them guide you, teach you, and show you the things that you never know before. Acting like a pro won’t bring you nowhere but destructions. We are human and we have to remember the fact that learning is a lifetime journey.
Ending this with a thought that being adaptive and open for corrections will always be the best trait, that a person can ever have. Nothing can beat a man who craves for betterment through acknowledging that they don’t have everything.
Having a teachable heart is rare. In this world full of “I know it”, be the person who says “I want to learn more.” Yes, you read it right, I will truly admit that being teachable is my greatest trait so far.
________________________
“Come with me, I have a lot of candies in my car.”
“But my mom told me to never talk with a stranger.”
“I am not a stranger anymore. I already introduced you my name right? Now, if you want more of that delicious candy, I have a lot more of it in the car.”
“Okay, but let’s just be quick sir, my mom will surely be worried for me.”
Breaking News: A kid had been abducted in the parking area of a renowned mall in the Unrealistic Supermarket.
I am the typical kid who grew up with a reminder to never talk to strangers, no matter what happens. Gladly, I was able to carry that learnings until I reached the legality. And along with the arrival of legality age is the forgetting of some of the important advices as well. And this is included in that. I let my guards down and trusted countless people right away. And that leads me to my destruction. Therefore, the greatest learning that I’ve learned in my whole life was to never put your hope in anyone but in God alone.
________________________
Maintaining a relationship to work is the most tiring part in being in a relationship right? That is the reason why we badly need to remember some of the fundamental things in keeping a relationship more healthy and far from toxicity. Of course, who would want a toxic relationship? Being in a two year relationship, I can say that the most important thing for us, is the acceptance. Well, a lot of things can changed when you start to learn on how to accept things. There will always be a time that you will get tired with your other half because life isn’t just all about rainbows and butterflies. However, acceptance allows us to see the wider and bigger picture and not just a dot. Accept that your partner will never be perfect, neither you. That’s why, instead of continuously demanding something from them, just let things be and accept them for who they are. And you will see how your life will slowly unfold in front of you.
________________________
Author's Viewpoint
This is my entry for @carisdaneym2 challenge or give4aw4y. I actually forgot about it but I am glad that I was able to read an article about this as well and I was reminded to make mine. I decided to answer the three questions using different genre or format in writing.
Anyways, Belated Happiest Birthday to our awesome caris. May the Lord grant all the desires in your heart. More power and BCH to you beee. Continue to be a blessing to every human you meet. God bless!
I am tagging @Athaliah for this.
Don't talk to strangers, never gets old. That's the golden rule. 😁