Trait, Lesson, Relationship tip.

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2 years ago
Date: February 10,2022
Author: Sequoia

The life itself is definitely full of ups and downs. We cannot predict what will happen next moment and the only thing that we can be sure of is that, everything changes and nothing stays the same forever. The only constant thing in this world is the change itself. Being open with the new possibilities and doors should be one the abilities that we should carry.

Everything has its own different endings and we should learn to prepare ourselves when that time comes. Enjoy your life but don’t get crazy over it. Eventually, all the things that we see, including us, will soon perish and will be forgotten.

Accept that things are bound to happen with or without our approval. We are not the only person who lives in this world. Socializing and adjusting for other people’s sake is the selfless thing that we can ever do in our whole lifetime.

Can’t you see? Open your eyes and look at your surroundings. A lot of people are dying just to have the life that you are living as of the moment. Do not stay ungrateful. You are privileged enough to be able to live that kind of life.

Hence, you choose to focus on the dark valley. Disregarding the things that you have learned during your previous battle. Life is all about finding the right view to look at. It’s either you control your life, or let your life control you.

Agony and despair are the two things that majority of the people suffer from. We are sall struggling and fighting. Let’s always choose to treat each other with love and respect. Remember, you never know what that person is going through.

Be open for corrections and criticisms. They are crucial for your growth in every aspect. Don’t be afraid to fail, it is all part of the process.

Let them guide you, teach you, and show you the things that you never know before. Acting like a pro won’t bring you nowhere but destructions. We are human and we have to remember the fact that learning is a lifetime journey.

Ending this with a thought that being adaptive and open for corrections will always be the best trait, that a person can ever have. Nothing can beat a man who craves for betterment through acknowledging that they don’t have everything.

Having a teachable heart is rare. In this world full of “I know it”, be the person who says “I want to learn more.” Yes, you read it right, I will truly admit that being teachable is my greatest trait so far.

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“Come with me, I have a lot of candies in my car.”

“But my mom told me to never talk with a stranger.”

“I am not a stranger anymore. I already introduced you my name right? Now, if you want more of that delicious candy, I have a lot more of it in the car.”

“Okay, but let’s just be quick sir, my mom will surely be worried for me.”

Breaking News: A kid had been abducted in the parking area of a renowned mall in the Unrealistic Supermarket.

I am the typical kid who grew up with a reminder to never talk to strangers, no matter what happens. Gladly, I was able to carry that learnings until I reached the legality. And along with the arrival of legality age is the forgetting of some of the important advices as well. And this is included in that. I let my guards down and trusted countless people right away. And that leads me to my destruction. Therefore, the greatest learning that I’ve learned in my whole life was to never put your hope in anyone but in God alone.

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Maintaining a relationship to work is the most tiring part in being in a relationship right? That is the reason why we badly need to remember some of the fundamental things in keeping a relationship more healthy and far from toxicity. Of course, who would want a toxic relationship? Being in a two year relationship, I can say that the most important thing for us, is the acceptance. Well, a lot of things can changed when you start to learn on how to accept things. There will always be a time that you will get tired with your other half because life isn’t just all about rainbows and butterflies. However, acceptance allows us to see the wider and bigger picture and not just a dot. Accept that your partner will never be perfect, neither you. That’s why, instead of continuously demanding something from them, just let things be and accept them for who they are. And you will see how your life will slowly unfold in front of you.

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Author's Viewpoint

This is my entry for @carisdaneym2 challenge or give4aw4y. I actually forgot about it but I am glad that I was able to read an article about this as well and I was reminded to make mine. I decided to answer the three questions using different genre or format in writing.

Anyways, Belated Happiest Birthday to our awesome caris. May the Lord grant all the desires in your heart. More power and BCH to you beee. Continue to be a blessing to every human you meet. God bless!

I am tagging @Athaliah for this.

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Don't talk to strangers, never gets old. That's the golden rule. 😁

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2 years ago

Oo ate Jea. Mas tatandaan ko na yan ngayon..

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2 years ago

Hindi ako nakatry ng talking to strangers when I was a kid or hindi ko lang talaga matandaan.

Ang importante sist kahibaw ta nga limited ra ato kaalam and di pod ni gikan nato ra. That is why we have older people, experienced people, our parents and teachers for us to be guided in life.

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2 years ago

Tama jud sis. Naa sila draa para i guide ta to have a better future.

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2 years ago

Napaka legend tlga yang "don't talk to strangers" pero wla nmn mwwla kung gagawin ntin diha. Ang hirap tlga mg adjust sa relationship kahit ako nsa 8 years na kmi pero still may kulang pa din. Kya habaan na lng ang pasensya.

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2 years ago

Wala atang perfect na relationshop sism kaya accept nalang natin wholeheartedly ang bawat isa.

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2 years ago

True ka dyan sis.. no one is perfect tlaga.

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2 years ago

Thank you for this beb! Got a lot of learnings in this article. Not to trust easily, not letting our guard down, be teachable and accepting criticism. These are all noted!

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2 years ago

Yeeey. Salaamt sa imung ateeee.n

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2 years ago

Welcome beb! 💗

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2 years ago

Open to cristisms. Simply respecting others. Ngayon mainit ang pagkampanya, nakikita talaga mga ugali ng tao. Ang daming naging mapait ang mga relationships.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis eh. Sayang yung pinagsamahan.

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2 years ago

Kabrayt aning mga tao dre sa read.cash uy... Cge ras acrostic

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2 years ago

Hahahhaa char2 ra

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2 years ago

Saying "I want to learn more" and really going for it is a welcoming attitude towards growth. Goodluck to you on the contest!

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2 years ago

Thanks maam 🤗

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2 years ago

Bago mo baguhin Ang tao alamin mo muna bakit GANYAN sya at kung bakit nandyan siya sa kalagayang iyan dahil minsan Ang tao nag jujudge na lang bigla na hind Naman nila alam Ang story Ng tao na iyon mas mabuting kilalanin munang mabuti para makuha mo ang tamang pakikitungo at mas mabuti pang ikaw mismo Ang mag adjust para sa iba lalot kung alam mong mas higit kasa kanila, Ilan lang iyan sa mga Sinabi Ng aking mama palagi at laging panatalihing kalmado Ang sarili sa lahat Ng pagkakataon.

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2 years ago

True, before you judge, alamin muna yunh rason.

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2 years ago

We need to accept that some things are meant to happen amd those things cannot be changed. We shouldn't let our past determine our reality but work towards being better daily.

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2 years ago

You are totally right. Let's aim for the betterment.

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2 years ago

Truelalu sis! We must be open to corrections and criticisms. With that, we'll learn and grow. 💗

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis ehhh. It's really important

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2 years ago

My parents also told me before to never talk to strangers or believe in them instantly co'z we don't know who really they are

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2 years ago

Yah, and we should out that in mind always.

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2 years ago

True Langga. Acceptance is really important of a relationship. We should accept who they are. The relationship will less toxicity if you accept you partner who he/she is. The relationship will be healthy. It will be stronger if each one of the partner has acceptance.

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2 years ago

True ate Ganda at the end of the day, we should learn to accept things.

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2 years ago

We can learn our mistakes, all you have to do is to corrected on it.

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2 years ago

Ahuh. I totally agree.

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2 years ago

It's more easy if we can easily adopt to anyone and also absurb from anyone. Life indeed is a journey of a lifetime and there is always room for change. So go out and make mistakes, be free but be cautious too.

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2 years ago

Ahuhh. Mistakes teach us great lessons in life.

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2 years ago

Yes lods, me personally has a lot of learnings to gain so i need to make more mistakes lods 😅 tawa muna tayo lods hehe

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2 years ago

It's true no one here is living a perfect life, everyone have to pass through different challenges so instead of losing hope we should try to be courageous, and be grateful for what we have.

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2 years ago

Perfect life doesn't exist, let's aim for. A better one.

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2 years ago

Every mistake is a new learning. We must be wise and be smart enough to apply that new learning to avoid more mistake. We must be teachable.

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2 years ago

Mistakes are part of the journey, we should learn from it.

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2 years ago

Learned from mistakes and now applying on my life. Is there a contest going on?

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2 years ago

Yesss Luci.

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2 years ago

Teachable lisud kaayo if pride maong so rare na kaayo na karon.

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2 years ago

However, if willing jud nga maging better, then dili sya lisud.

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2 years ago

Kana sa willingness mag based.

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2 years ago

True. But if we are going to base it sa Christian life, dapat jud naa ta anang teachable heart as a follower fo Christ.

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2 years ago

Being teachable will not be worth it without you applying what you learn and always remembering it is a must. I can say that I am teachable and I apply everything from my experience

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2 years ago

Truuuee. We should apply the things that we learned from the mistakes.

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