Grow-Yourself Before The Garment
May 10th, 2022.
Self-Growth is one of the secrets for a long lasting relationship. No relationship grows without the ability to solve problems, it is in your place of learning you gained insight on how to solve problems and build your home in marriage.
You must learn, unlearn and relearn before you get married. Many are married and frustrated in the marriage because they never take time to develop and grow themselves before the marriage, many are married and become so inferior in the marriage just because they did not develop themselves before the marriage.
You must be dutiful before you can be relevant in marriage. Many couples are liability to each other in marriage because they wasted their single years doing nothing to develop themselves.
Listen to me, if you wish to enjoy and fulfill purpose in marriage, you must begin to learn and develop yourself in that path now while you are still a single.
No house is built from the top but from the foundation, every soldier prepared for the war and not in the war zone also you don't prepare in marriage but you prepare for a great marriage.
I advise you now, stop playing around, stop acting in the script you are not competent for, stop the parting that may not lead you anywhere, disengage yourself from association that could limit you in marriage but make serious effort to develop and prepare yourself before the marriage.
People may be singing your praises now, hailing your beauty, adoring your looks and clapping for you, just because you are nice to them but remember that beauty is not enough to keep you in marriage, and your look sometimes may not determine the look of your marriage.
The best time for you to prepare and become indispensable in marriage is now that you are still a single.
Grow yourself, improve on your career, learn on how to raise baby, learn how to cook, make house chores one of your hobby now, develop good relationship with people, learn to say 'I am Sorry', build good character, be ready to tolerate and forgive easily, look smart but not arrogance.
It is little issues that destroy great marriages, grow-yourself, prepare very well and be totally ready before you take up the wedding garment.
Receive grace to do what is right in marriage.
May rest locate you this week and in many more years to come.
That's what some people don't know, they believe that when they get to the river, they shall cross it, without planning and preparing how to cross it now.