Better on my own.
“I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone, it’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone.”
Every day, I choose to stay and remain active and positive, and one way or the other, I could see the reaction in me as I keep going on with the day feeling happy and excited till the end of the day. Though, every day I keep praying to God to avert any evil or bad event from happening around me because the truth is that, we are humans and we have this flesh in us.
The flesh has its way of controlling our mood when we are faced with fear or anxiety due to one thing or the other which could break us down for a moment, but as time goes on, we tend to move on with our lives because the truth is that we can never control whatever happens or would happen.
Life has its mystery that we keep looking for or searching for the secret but funny enough, we would keep finding more mysteries. Yet, we can't find the meaning to all things but to let things happen the way they are meant to.
For some weeks now, I am trying to make it an addiction for me because it's in a way, helping my day to be productive. I have been listening to music very early in the morning which would then last for an hour. I love music and I have been blessed to listen to many beautiful songs from amazing artists.
It's hard for me to pick just one favourite because each day, I get to know about another wonderful artist which would then be added to my favourites list.
Music has in one way helped me be productive as I would keep humming a song I enjoyed most throughout the day. One of the recent artists I have come to love and admire is Tatiana Manaois.
If you have been listening to her songs, you will agree with me that Tatiana is a young talented artist who is original and her songs are beautiful. At such a young age, she has been focused on publishing her original songs on YouTube and I believe her songs have helped heal many people.
The first time I listened to one of her songs titled “Yesterday, every day Always”, I was eager to listen to more of her songs which made me go to YouTube to check her out. I was astonished to see she is so young (I think 25 now) when I saw her age. Mehn, this girl is so talented and I appreciate her efforts in bringing her original songs out to the world as a motivation.
When you listen to this song, except you just choose to let yourself down for that day, her songs will lift your mood up when you realize that you have got to love yourself because self-love is what matters.
Then, another intriguing song of hers I just listened to yesterday is B.O.M.O. The YouTube link of the song.
I have been coming across this song on my Spotify app but my mind is always skipping it. Perhaps I was thinking it doesn't speak much, mere seeing the title but I never knew it was an acronym that means a lot to everyone.
This is why you should never judge something by its presence without opening to know what the content is all about. Same with humans. Just because you have seen their appearance, doesn't make you judge if they are evil.
It made me remember my friend I just introduced to Readcash @obikay when we talked at length, and he said he never knew I could be this friendly. I said to him “it is because you haven't moved closer to someone”. I can be so friendly only if you move closer. Same as many of us here.
B.O.M.O means “Better on my own.” She sang this song for herself when she was having relationship problems with family, friends and her significant other. She also wants others who are feeling pain or hurt to be better on their own too. It's better to be on our own than to let people take away our happiness when we could do something that brings joy to us.
Happiness should always be our priority and should never let others hurt us to the extent that we miss taking care of ourselves or giving that attention to our beings. We truly deserve the best and one way to make that happen is being on our own to discover who we are and what we are capable of doing.
I hope I have encouraged us through Tatiana Manaois and I think listening to some of her songs would surely help us.
Thanks for your time.
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[September 14, 2022] (No 256 articles for the year)
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