I'm Fine, thank you!

42 46
Avatar for Pachuchay
3 years ago

This morning, I decided to go back to the supermarket where the "marshmallow incident" happened. It really troubles me, thinking that I might be considered a shoplifter in that place and my face was all over that supermarket. Since my husband was at work, I went there alone. After the guard checked my bag, I went inside but I am so ready that someone will grab me and take me to their office. But after 10 minutes, nothing happened. So I continue wandering around the place, making sure that my face wasn't on their wall. And I found nothing! I feel so relieved! It was an honest mistake and it will never happen again, not ever! Lol! I can now have peace of mind.

Okay, so now let's go to the main topic of this article. We'll talk about my F's which stands for Family, Friends, Fun, Fitness, and lastly, Financial.

Family

I grew up in a broken home. My parents separated when I was only 8 years old. That's why my family is so important to me. I have good relationship with my husband. We've been together for 21 years(did I hear Sana all? char). And I know that we can surpass anything that will come between us.

Now let's talk about my sisters, I have two. We're all girls and I am the eldest. Months ago, I had an argument with our youngest. And since then, we never talked. I tried to reach out to her but she never read my messages nor answered my call. I know I am at fault, I should have listened to her first before concluding things on my own. But she's also to blame. Instead of trusting us, her ate, she chose to believe them (our cousin's wives) That is why I asked for an apology but I think she's not ready for it. I mean she's like that ever since we were kids. She's a little bratty because she's the youngest and favored by all.

But I know that time will come that she will talk to us, we are sisters after all and blood is thicker than water.

Friends

I would say I have more virtual friends than real-life friends. Can I still be considered normal? Ever since we transferred here to Capiz, I only met a few whom I considered friends. But later on, lost contact with them. I don't know, maybe we became busy with our lives. From time to time we chat but that's all.

But I am happy with my virtual friends, especially with my two vfs whom I considered as real-life friends, Mabel, and Daphne. Our friendship started also in an online raket. We did captchas and faucets before. But since then, our friendship grew stronger. I already met Daphne when we had a vacation in Manila but haven't met Madel because she's in Italy.

I also met new virtual friends here in read.cash and noise.cash. I would say I am so lucky to have found them here. They supported me every time, even encourage me to continue writing when I stopped. So thank you guys, you know who you are! ❤

Fun

If fun is defined as going out with friends, buying things, or go to different places, well, I would say that I don't have that. But I am having fun by watching korean dramas, making money through noise.cah and read.cash. Spending time more with my husband, going to places with him. And that's what fun is to me.

Fitness

Honestly, I don't do exercise. My daily routines, morning chores serves as my exercise. I am not fit, like any other girls but I am okay with that. As long as I am healthy. I watched my food intake especially fats because our family have a history of high blood and heart problem.

Financial

Can we not talk about it? Char! Well, last year, December to be precised, when my husband resigned from his 10 years job. I was so mad but it already happened so there is nothing I can do about it but to accept the fact that he is now jobless.

That is why I am so thankful to noise.cash and read.cash because this has been my bread and butter. We have survived 9 months because of this platform. So thank you noise and read, you've been a great help for us! ❤

After checking my 5 Fs, am I still fine? Yes of course, we cannot have everything in life right? But as long as I am with my family, I know we can make it. Family is my most precious possession.

Date Published: September 25, 2021

GIF as Lead Image from GIPHY app

19
$ 5.56
$ 5.21 from @TheRandomRewarder
$ 0.05 from @Jane
$ 0.05 from @Ruffa
+ 8
Sponsors of Pachuchay
empty
empty
empty
Avatar for Pachuchay
3 years ago

Comments

I do wonder why your husband left his job without a plan, though. To me that seems counterproductive. Just my observation. I am sure he had his reasons, but one thing I always do is make sure there is money in the bank to make a choice, rather than just make a choice without having anything to back it up and having to suffer through it.

$ 0.00
3 years ago

That is why I am so mad at him at that time because it was so sudden and we have no savings yet.

$ 0.01
3 years ago

I feel for you. I take he is still not working?

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Normal Naman mommy haha Lalo ngayon. Pandemic talagang virtual nalang halos lahat. Hindi man Tayo physical magkasama pero diba gumagaan padin Kasi may nahihingahan Tayo. Parang LDR ganern.

$ 0.00
User's avatar Yen
3 years ago

Heheh tama momshie..

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Ako din madam broken family, mahirap pero nakasurvive din naman hanggang namatay na tatay ko

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Papa ko din namatay last 2018 lang

$ 0.00
3 years ago

My group of friends is very small, I have many acquaintances and neighbors, but very few friends. Like you, I have more friends on the Internet. Between siblings there are always arguments but there comes a time when everything calms down.

$ 0.01
3 years ago

I think as we get old, it is better to have few friends..

I know, time will come that I will be able to reconcile with my sister..

$ 0.00
3 years ago

family will always and forever be the first priority :>

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Exactly sis! ❤

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Iba po talaga ang pagmamahal na natatanggao natin sa family. Kahit anong pagsubok at away pa yan, andiyan lang sila. Saka nakakatuwa din na mas marami pa akong online friends kaysa sa actual. 😹

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Hahah, bihira na din kasi tlaga ako lumabas ng bahay at mga tao dito sa amin eh puro Maritess😂

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Sad to hear that you grown up in broken family but I am glad that you and your husband are together for 21 years.I wish you both more years of togetherness. You are lucky to have good friends, but you should also exercise daily to keep you in good health.

$ 0.01
3 years ago

I will keep that in mind ItsFarah, thanks!

$ 0.00
3 years ago

For sure you are fine ate hehe.. Lalo na sa family

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Yes Jane.. I am😅

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Wow 21 years , my favvv and lucky number 💗 I am so happy for you sis that you found a great man that will stick with you forever yieeee! God bless you always. ❣

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Thank you beh di din biro pinagdaanan namin pero we stay strong..

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Sana all for the 21st success of relationship. Stay strong po sa inyong dalawa ng husband mo ate. Relate ako jan sa kapatid na hindi nakikinig heheheh,i also have one little sister na matigas ang ulo..😅 pro atleast kau kahit papano maganda samahan ninyo,kami kc never nagkasundo..

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Madami din kaming oinagdaanan na muntik ng mauwi sa hiwalayan sis, pero we remain strong, heheh..

Ay oo, meron kasi tlaga tayo kapatid na pabebe eh, hahaha..

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Sana kami din..mag remain strong. Hahahahahha

Totoo ate.. nakakapikon..minsan ang hirap maging ate..problema nya problema ko din,pero Siya wlang pakialam na pinuproblema ko problema nya..hahahhahaha napakaunfair.

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Atbyun ang role nating mga ate, hahaha

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Sana all ng malakas!!! Hehe sana kami din char. Natatawa na agad nung mahagip sa matavko yung word na marshmallow e di ko pa nga nababasa e hehehe buti naman wala 😂

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Hahaha, nabasa mo ba yun article ko abaout jan? Jusko naloka ako eh, at least ngayon may peace of mind na ako, hahahaha..

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Hehe opo nagcomment din ako. Haha akala ko dala mo e at ibabalik mo e. Kamusta pala yung marshmallow na yun? 😂

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Likewise sis family first before anything else.

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Exactly sis... Pag nagkaproblema tayo, pamilya pa din angbtakbuhan natin sa huli..

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Yes sis, true good and bad always your family is on your side.

$ 0.00
3 years ago

coming from a broken family, you made sure you gave much importance to your family not to happen that again ,that takes some serious commitment, kudos to you. And surviving just on read and noise? next level inspiration to newbies like me :)

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Yeah, it's a bit struggling but I think I did great for earning enough to help us survive..

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Wahahahaha, ehhh bakit di na post ang face mo sa wall nila madams? Ahahaha. Napasana all talaga ako ee kaso wala nga pala akong balak mag asawa hahaha. Same sa fum mo madam, KDrama and Anime that's my kind of fun yiehh

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Jusko madams kahiyahiya kung ipaskil ng mukha ko dun sa halagang 17 petot hahahaha.

For sure madams makikita mo din ang iyong the one, heheh

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Yes sis family is more important. Para kanino tayo nabubuhay siyempre para sa pamilya at sa pamilya din tayo nagiging matatag at kumukuha ng lakas.

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Tama ka jan sis,

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Family above all else, sis :)

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Couldn't agree more sis..

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Isa ito sa nakadraft sa akin na hindi ko matapos tapos.. Parang ang hirap kasi gawan yung family sa akin..feeling ko kasi pang mmk yung kwento ng pamilya ko..Ahahaha..

Anyways, natawa ako sis at binalikan mo pala talaga yung supermarket.. Hehe..baka hindi na nila pinansin yung nawala kasi magkano lang naman ang marshmallow..

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Baka di din nila napansin yun sis.. Hehehe

Naku, sabihan mo ko pag ikwento mo na dito ha, magbaon ako ng tissie, hahaha, char!

$ 0.00
3 years ago

feeling ko hindi sila nagrereview ng CCTV talaga unless may mga unexpected incidents

$ 0.00
3 years ago

Ang saya lang maibahagi ung kwento ng family sis..

$ 0.01
3 years ago

Heheh, yes sis, kahit na may probkema eh i am sure maayos din kasi family is family..

$ 0.00
3 years ago