This morning, I decided to go back to the supermarket where the "marshmallow incident" happened. It really troubles me, thinking that I might be considered a shoplifter in that place and my face was all over that supermarket. Since my husband was at work, I went there alone. After the guard checked my bag, I went inside but I am so ready that someone will grab me and take me to their office. But after 10 minutes, nothing happened. So I continue wandering around the place, making sure that my face wasn't on their wall. And I found nothing! I feel so relieved! It was an honest mistake and it will never happen again, not ever! Lol! I can now have peace of mind.
Okay, so now let's go to the main topic of this article. We'll talk about my F's which stands for Family, Friends, Fun, Fitness, and lastly, Financial.
Family
I grew up in a broken home. My parents separated when I was only 8 years old. That's why my family is so important to me. I have good relationship with my husband. We've been together for 21 years(did I hear Sana all? char). And I know that we can surpass anything that will come between us.
Now let's talk about my sisters, I have two. We're all girls and I am the eldest. Months ago, I had an argument with our youngest. And since then, we never talked. I tried to reach out to her but she never read my messages nor answered my call. I know I am at fault, I should have listened to her first before concluding things on my own. But she's also to blame. Instead of trusting us, her ate, she chose to believe them (our cousin's wives) That is why I asked for an apology but I think she's not ready for it. I mean she's like that ever since we were kids. She's a little bratty because she's the youngest and favored by all.
But I know that time will come that she will talk to us, we are sisters after all and blood is thicker than water.
Friends
I would say I have more virtual friends than real-life friends. Can I still be considered normal? Ever since we transferred here to Capiz, I only met a few whom I considered friends. But later on, lost contact with them. I don't know, maybe we became busy with our lives. From time to time we chat but that's all.
But I am happy with my virtual friends, especially with my two vfs whom I considered as real-life friends, Mabel, and Daphne. Our friendship started also in an online raket. We did captchas and faucets before. But since then, our friendship grew stronger. I already met Daphne when we had a vacation in Manila but haven't met Madel because she's in Italy.
I also met new virtual friends here in read.cash and noise.cash. I would say I am so lucky to have found them here. They supported me every time, even encourage me to continue writing when I stopped. So thank you guys, you know who you are! ❤
Fun
If fun is defined as going out with friends, buying things, or go to different places, well, I would say that I don't have that. But I am having fun by watching korean dramas, making money through noise.cah and read.cash. Spending time more with my husband, going to places with him. And that's what fun is to me.
Fitness
Honestly, I don't do exercise. My daily routines, morning chores serves as my exercise. I am not fit, like any other girls but I am okay with that. As long as I am healthy. I watched my food intake especially fats because our family have a history of high blood and heart problem.
Financial
Can we not talk about it? Char! Well, last year, December to be precised, when my husband resigned from his 10 years job. I was so mad but it already happened so there is nothing I can do about it but to accept the fact that he is now jobless.
That is why I am so thankful to noise.cash and read.cash because this has been my bread and butter. We have survived 9 months because of this platform. So thank you noise and read, you've been a great help for us! ❤
After checking my 5 Fs, am I still fine? Yes of course, we cannot have everything in life right? But as long as I am with my family, I know we can make it. Family is my most precious possession.
Date Published: September 25, 2021
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I do wonder why your husband left his job without a plan, though. To me that seems counterproductive. Just my observation. I am sure he had his reasons, but one thing I always do is make sure there is money in the bank to make a choice, rather than just make a choice without having anything to back it up and having to suffer through it.