Move On...

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He is everywhere, looking for you, with a loud cry, he screamed your name
You choose to ignore him, well, it might be because of your newfound fame
He used to be your all in all and now, he is just a game
Not everyone is bothered about our feelings, they move on quickly, thinking it's lame
He was only trying to love you, it's your fame, he is not trying to tame
He has always been there and with his arms opened, to another, you ran
You are only nicer to others but not to him, to others you even shared your can
Nothing he does makes sense anymore, every attempt to make you smile you ban
I guess he would go unnoticed when he was only trying to be your Peter Pan
He cried silently but he acted bravely with you because he is the man
I know better because life isn't the bed of roses
We can feel hurt but that's life; a door opens and then later, closes
We have all been dealt harsh realities of life with doors slammed to our faces
Life deals with everyone, regardless of your ethnicity and in different places
Life can be surprising and yes, life is also in different phases
A lot of people keeps pretending to the world they are strong
They keep holding back the tears so they won't look weak, they are wrong
Tears aren't a sign of weakness, your heart should feel, it's where you belong
Deep down in your heart, gather the strength and move on
Let them point their fingers at you, let them sound the gong
Life is never about who is right or wrong
You can be right but there are still lessons you'd learn for long
I have seen a lot of people hold tight to their beliefs because they want to be right
This is a recipe for more failures to come; they are compounding their plight
Because life will humble you and everything will come out of sight
There is no need to hold on to just your view so tight
It's okay to learn from others, it's for clarity and to enjoy more light
The more we learn of life, the more we become bright
Focus on those who truly matter to you - those who give value also in return
Go to where you are celebrated rather than where you are tolerated
Many will walk you out of the door and hold off the handle while at it
Offences would come, provoked and even unprovoked in this life
You don't need to be told, wait till you have your husband or your wife
The bottom line is dealing with hurt as quickly as you can, then move on...

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I have noticed that many people hold on to pain for far too long as though they have been dealt with things no other person has been dealt with. We have all been dealt with by life and in different capacities too. When you hear other people's stories, you would marvel and it would keep you humble enough to know others are going through things words can never fully describe.

I've always been a silent observer and I tend to stay off and look at things sometimes from afar. If you brag about having the biggest field in the world, you only need to wait and see another person's father's farm, only then can you stay humble. Life will find a way to humble us because even God resists the proud. You cannot tell me you believe in God or humanity and let your actions speak differently. You cannot tell me you love others and yet you won't let issues go.

We live in a world where all we do is talk but there is no corresponding action to back it up. It's the same with those who have wishful thinking and yet won't take the steps to achieve their dreams. Enough with the talk because talk is cheap. Let us know who you are and it's easier because your character would speak.

It's time to move on...whatever comes to your mind while reading this, it is time to move on. It's hard to move on when the pain and the hurt keep playing in your mind and it results in resentment. It's hard to move on when you keep talking about it. The more we talk about our hurt, the farther from understanding the situation we go. We need to learn to stop talking and start listening coupled with less overthinking and there is nothing we won't understand.

Forgive that hurt, it's time to move on. Forgive him for breaking your heart too, else you would have ended up with the wrong person. Forgive her for choosing another person over you, else you would have been living with someone who wouldn't give you that attention you desire. Forgive that lecturer for failing you even though he only did it to bed you, without him, you wouldn't understand what strength truly means and how to fight for what truly belongs to you.

I totally understand situations hurt us more than others. We deal with pains and hurts differently and I am not trying to make it sound so easy. It is never easy and I have my own stories too but I would rather let go than continue to hurt. It's all about perspective and learning from everything that comes to us. Some situations can be avoided and by all means, let us but for those situations we cannot avoid, we have to learn to deal with them and it takes a strong mindset to know that we shouldn't let some situations throw us off balance.

It's time to move on... Whatever comes to your mind as you read this line, it's time to move on...

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You are right. Many hold tenacious to their beliefs, some hold on to grudges for years. I know a son who according to him was offended by his father. Now he is in love with a lady and has refused to take the lady to his father, just because he has refused to forgive and move on

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2 years ago

That can be a very terrible cycle and that boy needs to break it and move on...

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2 years ago

I really love the rhyming poem you used to begin this article. I also write poems especially those that contains rhymes.

Without some certain circumstances happening to us we would always think life is always a bed of roses.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much, bro. That's true... Life gives us that reality check. Really glad you enjoyed it, bro.

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2 years ago

Moving on is ain't easy, as what I have said, acceptance is the hardest thing to accept, it is hard to accept that pain caused by the person you love, and you trusted. It is hard to accept that they broke your heart, or they betrayed you. And so the only way for you to fully move on was to forgive yourself first from being imperfect and accept your own flaws. They says times heal, but actually no matter how long the pain was, if you haven't forgive yourself, you can't move on. If you haven't accepted the fact, you can't move on.

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2 years ago

This is beautiful and so true. You have to forgive yourself first...that's the first step in the right direction. If you don't forgive yourself, it would be hard to forgive another.

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2 years ago

Yea, moving on is not easy, sometimes we think to move on but we can't. When we try to avoid thinking about that problem then we only think about that more. But you describe everything very beautifully and it is very helpful for me. Thanks a lot.

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2 years ago

I am so glad you found this helpful. It means a lot.

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2 years ago

Move on , easy to say but I swear it's too difficult to do. It's like finding a needle in a bush of grasses. But if we just let time to heal the surely we can do it. Accept and move forward.

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2 years ago

Absolutely difficult and hard... And like you said, we have to take our time, let time happen while we do our part too.

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2 years ago

Moving on is the best way to let go of the past that is keep on holding us. Honestly if we want a better life, let go of the things that will just hurt us. A peaceful life is a lot better than holding on to the things that will just keep us sad.

But in cryptoworld holding on to our dear life is the key to success😁 Have a good day my friend:)

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2 years ago

Hahahaha I love this, my friend. Yes, a peaceful life should be desired above anything else.

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2 years ago

We have to move on ,. Normally everyone has a story . Just like the poem like is never about what is wrong or right . Never waste your precious time . We must move on not Matter the challenges we are facing 😉

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2 years ago

We just have to keep trying. It can never be easy but we have to keep trying.

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2 years ago

As what I had written in my bio " the beautiful journey of today will began if you let go of yesterday". Moving on might not be east to some people but I hope so time would heal their pains and eventually have peace in their hearts Have a nice day po.

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2 years ago

Absolutely...It is never easy but it's the way to go... We have to do it afraid.

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2 years ago

It’s not that easy my friend. I tried, maybe I succeeded for some way but it took a long time. Human beings are made with true emotions. It’s hard.

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2 years ago

You didn't read the fine lines between the post, my friend. I already said it's not easy but there is a difference between hard and impossible.

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2 years ago

Its not easy to move on, only tIme can tell but help ourseves of course

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2 years ago

Yes, It's never easy and I mentioned it in the post as well ...but we have to just try... It's the way to go.

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2 years ago

Yes,its in the article. But we must try

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2 years ago

Yes,.we have to, my friend.

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2 years ago

I love the poem you wrote in the beginning. It is said that time heals all pain, but sometimes it really doesn't. Letting go heals all pain. Time is just a means through which we let go and without letting go, time can't heal anything. There are many things in life you can explore, you can't do so unless you free your soul.

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2 years ago

I love the key words; free your soul. We need to let go so we can feel lighter.

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2 years ago

I let the time works until I don't feel the pain.

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2 years ago

That's right... Time works its magic and we have a part to play too.

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2 years ago

There are some challenges or pains someone may faced in past that someone may find it difficult to move on. But no matter how is it, we need to exercise forget, and adjust pain so that we can move on easily.... Thanks the motivating article

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2 years ago

I am glad you enjoyed it and you nailed it with this lovely contribution as well.

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2 years ago

It's really difficult to move on from the past especially after what I've been through but I will keep on pushing. Thank you for the motivation.

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2 years ago

I know it's hard...it's never easy but keep pushing. Don't rush it.

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2 years ago

I won't lie to you, I find it difficult to move in from my past. It's keeps coming and it's hurt so deeply. Thanks for the motivation. I will keep trying to make sure I move on from it

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2 years ago

It's never easy and I understand that. Take your time but keep pushing.

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2 years ago

Thanks boss, I will definitely do that. I am not giving up so easily

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2 years ago

I am glad.

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2 years ago

Yeah! Move on! That’s the key point.

Why waiting? We just have to forgive and at times. Try to forget things so we can move on in life.

Nice poem. Been some time I wrote one 😢

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2 years ago

Thank you, brother. It's about time you get that creative juice to flow and write one of many to come.

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2 years ago

I just hope I am able to write something long again. But I would try in the days to come.

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2 years ago

I would love to read it. Kindly tag me in it, please.

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2 years ago

I would try my best boss.

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2 years ago

🤗🤗🤗

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2 years ago

Before one can move on, I feel such a person has to heal from whatever he/she faced. And healing may take for as long as it takes, maybe years, months...

But if the healing stage is skipped and such a person moved on, there is higher possiblity that the next partner, friend etc would be affected

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2 years ago

Yes, healing is part of moving on just as time is part of taking is slow. It must never be rushed...but we have to keep trying.

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2 years ago

We should all learn to move on from our pains amd our past. That's the only only way grow and become better versions of ourselves.

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2 years ago

Yes, moving on is to become better for ourselves and that should take the center stage.

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