Delay judgement .

Saturday 18th of December 2021.

I am really happy because tomorrow is my mom's birthday , I will like to use these moments to say happy birthday to my mom. Seriously I am really feeling cold these morning ,now I think these is the best time for me to buy cover clothes . The harmattan season is back all we need to do is to avoid our bodies engaging with cold. Let keep ourselves warm as we celebrate these wonderful Christmas . Finally here is today's special topic titled " Delay judgement " , majorities of us have lost a valued friend ship just because we were not able to delay judgement .

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Delay judgement ;

No matter who you are , how experience you are , how knowledgeable you think you are always delay judgement if you can , One of the most important skills human can learn is when to be decisive and when to take a step back and look at the wider picture before making a big calls .

Give others the privilege , benefits , moments and time to explain themselves, it is only fair , what you see may not be the reality of life or what is happening , Never conclude for others , never judge if you can help it . Which is why we should never focus only on the surface and judge others without understandings them first.

In times of turmoils , excitement , rapids growth or crisis ,there will be more descisions to make than usual and less time to make them . There will also be an almost irresistible temptations to make decisions as quickly as possible , A responsible human being must be calm , confident in his or her choice make time to understand people before judging them.

For example ; Those who offer to pay the bills , do so not necessarily because they have more or because they love to value friendships , Does who apologize first do so not necessarily because they think they are wrong or they value peace and unity or because they value friendships .

These is why delaying judgement can be so useful in anything , there will or there have been many occasions when I have been tempted to make a snap descisions and decides to wait until I can clearly see the whole and full picture of the matter more clearly .

Judgement is something that we are all exposed to early in life , society has become engrossed in what everyone else is doing , how they are acting and the choice they make that judgement is difficult to overcome .

Before making judgement before you even consciously recognize it , you have no idea of what is going on in another's person's life , what their history is or why the choose to do say or wear the things they do .

Don't pass judgement on the others when you don't know their circumstances rather be concerned with your own choices and actions , display compassion and try to minimize your judgment of others , "Not everyone will place important on the things you do just as you do ,just as you will not place important on many things others do " .

Don't judge others just because they are different from you , if someone treats you unkindly try to imagine that what kind of suffering that the individual must be experiencing to treat you the way the do .

Delaying of judgement makes the world a better place , makes more content with your life, makes you enjoy authentic relationship , makes new ideas and opportunities that will unfolds your life . " Remember to delay judgement give time for people to talk and also give time to understand people " .

Remember that you don't judge a book by it cover . .

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I am using these Moments to say happy birthday to my mom , tomorrow is her birthday . A special thanks to @HappyBoy , @HattyHats and @gertu13 . Wishing you all happy Christmas