Long Distance Relationship: Important Things.

I love ilokanos. That's the only thing that I can say. It's all started when my step sisters and brothers have their Ilokano partners and so me.

Some of us hate LDR since they said it was just a waste of time, and they said it was boring. But for us it was not, if you want to know what's the important things being in the long distance, then this article is for you.

I'm a person who used to have a relationship in long term version, I prefer that since I don't want to get hurt by someone who's near to me. There are LDR who's having a hard time and a good time, there are people who's enjoying being with this relationship and those who not. But, everything's change when I meet my partner. Lol, I want her presence beside meeeee, only her presence. I'm so excited to meet her next month. Those who wants to try and those who's already tenured to this, so this article is base on my own experience.

Me and my 3 years ex was LDR, she's from ilocos sur and I am from Iloilo. But as you know, ilongga were born with a sweet personality. Like even if they're angry, they're still sweet, you can't even imagine when were angry because we're just laughing and we not used to say words that can hurt someone's feeling. Lol, that's the life of being ilongga.

My 2nd ex was from iloilo, but I don't like it since she's always throwing me out and ended up fighting each other.

My baby now is the most sweetest ilokano person that I've ever met. she's from Baguio by the way. Yes, her voice is sweet, her gestures also. Anything about her, she's a sweet person and I really love her personality.

My step brothers and sister have an ilocano partner also, and so me.

So why do I like Ilokano people? I met many ilokanos/ilokanas already and both of them are hardworking person, they said kuripot daw sila, pero yung iba oo. but for me they're not. They're friendly also, love to be engaged with other things and they love giving advice to someone. For me, they are the most friendly person with a hardworking personality that I've ever met.

When i figured out that she's an ilokano, I just said to myself maybe that's why she's sweet it's because of their nature. But nvm, it depends on a person or people.

So what are the important things that we need to remember when we are on a Long distance relationship?

The first one is Trust.

• Being in a long term relationship is the most challenges at all time. You need to manage your time, you patience and anything that can affect your relationship in a good way.

Actually, when we both first in a relationship I don't still have any trust since it was only a day after I said yes to her. Lmao, she just asked me if we both official so there's no courting happened. 3 days after, she told me that someone called her famous because she's ignoring that person and that when I figure out that she's couring a girl before me.

I feel guilty, I really feel guilty because I don't have any idea that she's courting someone and I let her to be part of my life that time. Were just 3 days before being in a relationship so I am thinking what if I just let go of her since there was a girl who was supposed to be with her than me? So since the both of us are just 3 days, I asked her why did she choose me. The girl was from their place also and I'm from the far away, so I'm afraid ti get hurt just like what happened before.

She told me that I don't need to question anything because I'm the one that she choose. She choose me she said, being ldr is not a reason for her to broke up with me or to choose someone who's near to her.

I thought she was just joking, but after months and months and months, she was choosing me everyday and love me like that day that the both of us met. She's sweet, I love her.. I really love her. She told me that she's sure with me and she were planning to see me soon, and here we are... I'll seeing her next month and it makes me feel excited.

Let me fulfill the duty, baby.

We need a lot of Patience.

• Whenever that my partner is busy, I am just waiting for her to chat me or if she's on her duty I'm chatting here all the time and keep her updated. That was the only thing that I can do, I always says, "I miss you", and "I love you", over and over again.

A small update from her will always do, I know she's tired and instead of getting angry because she's a busy person, I'm always understanding her situation. Wanna know why? Because we're old enough. I'm not her first priority and I respect that, when she's not busy that's the only time where she was calling me or chatting me. There are times where was busy at her duty and then she'll suddenly chatting me like, "Baby, I miss you.", Whenever that she's doing that ny heart were melting.

She just living alone with her own so I have a huge patience especially when she's kinda hostile sometimes. But I understand her moodswings. Lmao, I love her and she kept repeating that even though she's hostile sometimes but she loves me.

Grabe sya bumawi kapag alam nyang wala syang oras, jusme I feel special tuloy sakaniya always.

Always make them feel that distance doesn't matter.

• As I said, being in a relationship is the most challenges thing that we were trying. But, take note. Me as her girlfriend, I always keeping her updates all the time, telling her stories even if she's offline. Sometimes I'm really lazy to chat her because she's not replying to everything that I'm chatting but I know that she's replying when it was important.

Huling away namin because sa bagay na I'm lazy to chat her sometimes I realize very important thing that I only realized because of her, it doesn't matter if she's not replying those sweet chat or any nonsense chat that I was saying because she's reading it all. I realized that she still appreciate it even though she's not replying to it, I realized that afterward nung nagtampo sya dahil sa bagay nayun. And it makes my heart melt because it makes me realize that she really loves me even though that we're apart.

Always remember that distance is just a distance, true love will never fade even if both of you were far away from each other. Don't argue with them, arguing with nonsense things makes u both feel useless and can even the result of fall out love. Kept on mind that trusting them, updating and anything will makes them feel that they are loved.

Don't make a scene that can be the result why you two is arguing, always wait for the right time where both of you will argued because of other things and not to the things that you two made up, it's nonsense and can only hurt the both of you.

Again, happy Valentine's and belated happy Valentine's everyone! Stay in love!

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