“Does Life Sometimes Make You Feel Stupid?”
We often think that we are so stupid whenever we cannot choose something in our life that we can be happy, but there is something in return that you will not like. Or we can choose the pleasure of others, and in the end, there is regret attached. Sometimes you will wonder if the decision you have made is right, and why you have to sacrifice your happiness for the happiness of others. Why do we still have to choose in our lives, and we can’t just do it like this?
The kind where you insist on explaining even though you know they won’t understand, that they won’t understand anything. The type where you insist on telling your side, even though you know it’s unlikely that they will understand because we have different points of view.
Especially if you dream big enough, like you are so sure that you will achieve that kind of dream but in the end you didn’t . It’s doesn’t mean that you fail, it’s just not for you or maybe it’s still not your time. If life makes you feel stupid sometimes, that’s okay.
Especially when you choose choices, or you choose decisions that are in line with your wishes. When everything is fine, then suddenly something happens that you don't like. Just in that part, you will start asking why the world makes you feel so stupid. Why is your request so simple, but because of its simplicity, you still can't give it and carry it out. When you feel like you're stupid, it doesn't mean you're really stupid. Sometimes we can only feel that because of fear, insecurities, and failing, and we really come to a point in our lives where we can't help but think and feel like this. The world has no sin, the world has nothing to do with our feelings. It's just that, sometimes we can't understand why the world makes us feel this way.
But I will repeat, the world knows nothing about our feelings, it has no idea about what we feel with our emotions. We feel it about what we notice in our environment, or about the things we have around us. Just like, when your partner hurts you or one of your loved ones cheats on you, don't you blame the world? We will say that the world is joking and playful. Well, that's where we're so wrong.
Why should we blame the world? Yes, sometimes we feel that everything is very unfair, that things in the world are very unfair. But, that doesn't mean you're stupid. Sometimes what we feel like this, is what pushes us to find and see the answer to our own questions.
Sometimes other people make us feel stupid. It's so annoying that we try to do our best to make ourselves feel better, but in the end, nothing else happens but they make us feel really stupid.
Always look at the positive side.
If you feel like the world is playing tricks on you, always think that you are on the right path. Sometimes, that's why we experience things that are not in line with our feelings because of what we think.
Don't let sadness swallow you, don't let the thoughts you have swallow you either.
And above all, take everything you experience and extract it as a challenge in your life.
Believe in yourself that you can do it, because there is something that you need to learn and to overcome. That you have something to prove and to show them that you're not the kind of person who will bring your self down all of sudden.
HAPPY BUWAN NG WIKA SA LAHAT! I want to write an articlw with tagalog version but seems I can't do it. my brain was empty whenever I'm trying to write some.