“Does Life Sometimes Make You Feel Stupid?”

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We often think that we are so stupid whenever we cannot choose something in our life that we can be happy, but there is something in return that you will not like. Or we can choose the pleasure of others, and in the end, there is regret attached. Sometimes you will wonder if the decision you have made is right, and why you have to sacrifice your happiness for the happiness of others. Why do we still have to choose in our lives, and we can’t just do it like this?

The kind where you insist on explaining even though you know they won’t understand, that they won’t understand anything. The type where you insist on telling your side, even though you know it’s unlikely that they will understand because we have different points of view.

Especially if you dream big enough, like you are so sure that you will achieve that kind of dream but in the end you didn’t . It’s doesn’t mean that you fail, it’s just not for you or maybe it’s still not your time. If life makes you feel stupid sometimes, that’s okay.

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Especially when you choose choices, or you choose decisions that are in line with your wishes. When everything is fine, then suddenly something happens that you don't like. Just in that part, you will start asking why the world makes you feel so stupid. Why is your request so simple, but because of its simplicity, you still can't give it and carry it out. When you feel like you're stupid, it doesn't mean you're really stupid. Sometimes we can only feel that because of fear, insecurities, and failing, and we really come to a point in our lives where we can't help but think and feel like this. The world has no sin, the world has nothing to do with our feelings. It's just that, sometimes we can't understand why the world makes us feel this way.

But I will repeat, the world knows nothing about our feelings, it has no idea about what we feel with our emotions. We feel it about what we notice in our environment, or about the things we have around us. Just like, when your partner hurts you or one of your loved ones cheats on you, don't you blame the world? We will say that the world is joking and playful. Well, that's where we're so wrong.

Why should we blame the world? Yes, sometimes we feel that everything is very unfair, that things in the world are very unfair. But, that doesn't mean you're stupid. Sometimes what we feel like this, is what pushes us to find and see the answer to our own questions.

Sometimes other people make us feel stupid. It's so annoying that we try to do our best to make ourselves feel better, but in the end, nothing else happens but they make us feel really stupid.

But if you really feel that the world makes you feel stupid,

Always look at the positive side.

  • If you feel like the world is playing tricks on you, always think that you are on the right path. Sometimes, that's why we experience things that are not in line with our feelings because of what we think.

  • Don't let sadness swallow you, don't let the thoughts you have swallow you either.

  • And above all, take everything you experience and extract it as a challenge in your life.

Believe in yourself that you can do it, because there is something that you need to learn and to overcome. That you have something to prove and to show them that you're not the kind of person who will bring your self down all of sudden.


Final thoughts

  • HAPPY BUWAN NG WIKA SA LAHAT! I want to write an articlw with tagalog version but seems I can't do it. my brain was empty whenever I'm trying to write some.

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Sometimes, especially when what I always experience is negativity

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2 years ago

I do sometimes but as what you have said I always look at the positive side for me to still continue the journey. It's okay to feel stupid sometimes as long as you have takeaways from it.

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2 years ago

yes, and its okay to feel stupid as long as you can still go on

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2 years ago

True. Fighting!

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2 years ago

We all become stupid at some point in our life and it's okay so long as we learned from it.

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2 years ago

rest day mo sis? medyo active ka ah

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2 years ago

uu sis tapos absent pa ako kahapon haha

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2 years ago

Ay gagi bakit?

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2 years ago

tinamad ako bhe haha

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2 years ago

Katamad no? Sick leave lang ng sick leave hala sige

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2 years ago

Hahahah ubos na ata dayys for leave ko sis kaka absent ko 😹

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2 years ago

Akin sis no choice ako kundi magresign, kasi unt sweldo ko sa check up at sa hosp napupynta

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2 years ago

I agree. We should learn to shift our focus from negativity to positive side of the room. There is always a glimpse of light in every darkness.

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2 years ago

true, isa pa di naman tayo makakaexperience ng ganyang kung dikelngan. may need lang talaga tayo patunayan

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2 years ago

There's always a positive side on every story, we just need to recognize it, so that we will not end up hopeless. Sometimes we need to sacrifice our choices for the sake of others, so true to me.

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2 years ago

true, sometimes the other person kase dont know how to recognize rin kasi super down sila

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2 years ago

Yes, one thing I feel stupid, kahit Alam kung mali Nah pero nagiging tanga parin ako sa bagay nah pwede naman baguhin, hahai, pero minsan kailangan mo rin magpakatanga para malaman mo kung ano bah talaga? Pero need din natin gumising sa katangahan natin, whahaha ang labo ko.

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2 years ago

kahit mga cumlaude ate nagiging tanga rin, i di us magiging tanga wala naman kasi tayong matutunan

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2 years ago

Yes tama po kayo sis, hindi tayo ma learn kapag ganun, kung hindi tayo magkakamali.

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2 years ago

Just be yourself, and believe that you are capable of doing such a thing. Life sometimes makes us feel the world is so unfair because there are times that we commit g what we planned and what we want. But you need to do something about it, you should never give up and remind yourself that everything happens for a reason even if something does not come in your way.

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2 years ago

true te, we shud not give up kasi in the end, yung hinahabol parin natin is ung giging success

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2 years ago

I am guilty of blaming the world lol. Like it's valid that I talked to it, but yeah always look upon the positives. But somehow drama of being stupid still a sense hehe.

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2 years ago

legit manong, I feel the same way rin always if the world makes me feel stupid

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2 years ago

Madali lng itaglog to. Itranslate mo 😂 I feel stupid sometimes, but I guess it's normal to us...there is always an opposite to goodness in this world.

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2 years ago

trny ko sya ate pero hutek iba nasa google translator HAHAHAHA kaya nakakatamad huhu

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2 years ago

Most of the time I'm stupid 🤣 I don't make a big deal about my stupidity sometimes, just so I won't stress out myself.

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2 years ago

tama lang yan ate HHAHAAA nakakastress rn pansnin kung feeling nain minsan ganyan

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2 years ago