Random Questions for Taken

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3 years ago

I have missed joining some of the challenges here like the this or that challenge and many more, I am already late but this post by @Eybyoung prompted me to make this article. Here's the link to her article in case you want to check it out: Random Questions For Taken

First, I find the questions entertaining and I know that I can make articles from them. Second, it's all about those who are already taken, married or not yet, these are all for us.

So, I don't want to make a long intro. Let's dive into the questions that I have selected:

This question brings back a lot of memories of when my husband and I were still in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. We got into our relationship when we were in our senior year in college. Although we were already past the 18-year-old mark, I felt like we were still very childish.

Looking back, every specific quarrel and argument that we had, they were caused by unimportant things, just small matters which can be easily resolved but then, we would tend to make it a huge one. I for one had this tendency of making a huge deal about the issue.

So, whenever we have these fights, I would often tell my husband, boyfriend at that time that I wanted to be alone, I would tell him to go away but then he would stay. Of course, as a woman, I would say things that I don't really mean. Even if would say go away or leave me, it melts my heart when he stays.

My husband would immediately know my answer to this. He knows me well that he will immediately say we must go to a place that is cold because I love wearing sweaters but I can't wear them in the city or at the beach of course.

So, for this question, we would surely be in the mountains. If we are in Cebu, we'd be heading to Balamban a hundred percent. But I would prefer to go to Baguio or anywhere up north, perhaps in a place that we have not yet visited so I can also blog about it and share the experience here.

As a couple who had been together for 13 years, a special day means our wedding anniversary and we are not into dinner dates or going to restaurants. We would prefer traveling. But this pandemic had been so hard on us travelers that it is a great factor.

But if there's no pandemic already, then it is given that month before we have already planned a trip outside of the island. Perhaps, we'd go to Siargao or Camiguin or even our dream domestic destination - Batanes.

If we are going to Batanes, then it will not just be a day or two, we'd surely be spending a whole week or two weeks there, capture every single sunrise and sunset, and this time, we have our baby with us, he must be big enough to appreciate nature.

Honestly, I don't remember even a single word at all. But since we were already friends since freshmen years, our conversations back then were all about our family, our experiences back when we were still young and all about learning each other's lives.

That best relationship advice came from a book - 5 love languages and this is very effective. Individually, we know we have different love languages, and realizing the language helped me in our relationship.

My husband's love languages are words of affirmation and quality time so I would always compliment him, appreciate his efforts, and would spend time with him. On the other hand, my love languages are acts of service and quality time. It's great that we have similarities. I love it when my husband serves me, does me favor and I feel very special when he surprises me, not too much with material things though because we both know where we should spend our money but with the simple things like he had already cleaned our room and such.

Yes, I am still friends with my first boyfriend from high school, we are even neighbors and his wife was once a colleague of mine and we are also friends. Our relationship was one that I consider as my first love but we consider that as part of our past.

With that, we are still friends, civil, and neighbors.

Cheating of course!

But let me tell you that my husband had made a mistake once. We were still dating at that time, I don't know why but I had a gut feeling of him doing something fishy so I made my own investigations and found out that my boyfriend had a "friendly date" with his ex. He was with his best friend (his ex-best friend now) and I figured it out immediately. Of course, I had confronted him about it, I said my goodbyes but he was sorry and I can see he was indeed sorry so I accepted him back and from that time on, I never had that gut feeling again, he never had given me a reason to feel it and so I know he won't do it again, else, I will for sure know.

For sure go out for a date and my husband knows that.

He knows that I would love to be out of the house, given that there's no restriction. We already had enough staying indoors because of the pandemic and so it is just a breath of fresh air to be out.


That's it. Thanks for reading guys! If you want to check the questions, you can visit this link: https://www.mantelligence.com/relationship-questions/#get-to-know


xoxo,

mommy jean of momentswithmatti

Love harder than any pain you've ever felt.

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Omg mamshy. I can relate to what happened between your husband and his ex before. Lol. I Burst into anger when I also knew my past bf is still having a connection with his ex while he's with me. 🥺

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3 years ago

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yep.. grabe talaga ang gut feeling ng isang babae.. anyway, I gave him second chance and never naman akong nabigyan ng reason to regret the chance I have given him..

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3 years ago

Mga last year yun. Hehe I'm happy to know that, sis. Love love lang 🥰

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Of course, as a woman, I would say things that I don't really mean.

In general, we all do that when emotions are high.

If we are in Cebu, we'd be heading to Balamban a hundred percent.

Is that where there's fog too?

As a couple who had been together for 13 years, a special day means our wedding anniversary and we are not into dinner dates or going to restaurants.

That's a long time and going strong. Congrats!

That best relationship advice came from a book - 5 love languages and this is very effective. Individually, we know we have different love languages, and realizing the language helped me in our relationship.

That is true. We all have strengths and weaknesses and we should build each other up.

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3 years ago

love your comments... ganda ng formatting and evident na binasa talaga..salamat sir!

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3 years ago

Wow! 13 years is extensive already. Congratulations sis at nakatagpo ka ng isang matino at mapagmahal na asawa. More, more years to count sa inyo.

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3 years ago

Gustong-gusto din namin puntahan ng partner ko yung Batanes. Actually nasa bucketlist namin sya. Hopefully after this pandemic maka gala na rin kami. We prefer travelling din kasi like you po.

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3 years ago

Wow, 13 years haha more years to come your relationship must have a strong foundation and you guys enjoying each other's company and exploring things together like traveling. Hopefully soon when things gets better we can do it with my partner as well.

All the best for road to infinity. Thanks for participating the challenge, pleasant read.

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3 years ago

Happy to read about your successful married life sis. Understanding in both of you is the main base of your successful relationship. May God bless always keep blessing you.

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3 years ago

Thanks a lot dear..

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3 years ago

Yun o. Finally a challenge for taken people haha. Baka sakali ma-inspire naman kaming mga bitter singles. Charrr. 😆

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3 years ago

Ahahaha.ayan na

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3 years ago

wow 13years of marriage is amazing. You’ve experienced already a strong yet firm foundation of relationship, you know each other well na, more anniversary to celebrate and sana abot din kami ng hubby q ng gnyan hehehe 1decade p lng kami God bless

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3 years ago

Sorry to.confuse you.. we have been married for 6 years then 7 years as bf gf

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3 years ago

oh thank you for the clarification,, keep the fire burning hehe

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3 years ago

thanks dear!

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3 years ago

13 yrs.. That's long already.. Grats. I saw your baby's photo in one of your posts . ang cute2 ,🥰

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3 years ago

Thanks sis

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3 years ago

Second article I read about these questios. I am having fun, even I can't relate at some point. Hahah!

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3 years ago

Go go go na yan

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3 years ago

I think our gut feeling must be trusted, it sure let us know when something is off :D

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3 years ago

True...

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3 years ago

Parehas diay ta dai. I love wearing sweaters, too. Mao gatuon ko mag crochet kay gusto jud ko magbuhat ug akong own sweaters. 😂

Grabe 13 years na diay mo dai nuh? Dugaya na gud ba. 😊

Si Carlos pud dai, nag cheat sa akoa once pero it wasn't on a great extent. Text mate text mate pa man sila ato and then, no idea jud ko. Blind kaayo. Pero siya man ni confess. Haha 🤣

Lingaw lagi ni nga challenge dai uyy. I might also write my entry for this one. 😊

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3 years ago

saun ra mag crochet dai? hehe murag nice pod sya na hobby

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3 years ago

Sayon ra man dai pero time consuming siya unya kuti pero lingaw. 😊

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3 years ago

Hehe mao sad.. join ani dai

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3 years ago

Congratulations for having a 13 years of successful marriage. It's a relationship builds with trust and understanding, I know that both of you experienced lots struggles but in the end, you overcome those dilemma. My only wish is forever for both of you and more children more fun.😅❤

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3 years ago

Yes to more children hahaha

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3 years ago

hahaha wag lang po madami madam, mahal po ang bigas at gatas hhaha.

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3 years ago

hahahaha

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3 years ago

Maybe if I got married, I prefer traveling din po than eating in a fancies restaurant. And yeah, cheating is a deal-breaker of a relationship. I was once cheated with my boyfriend(ex now). He is having a conversation with another girl and deleted their convo. So what was that for? So I said let's break up then he explained and he asks for a chance and I gave it to him. Everyone deserves a second chance, I guess. Hihi.

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3 years ago

Yep second chance then if they'll do it again, I guess its a good bye na...

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3 years ago

Ayy opo aa. Tama na pag ulit ulit na haha.

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