No Woman Deserves This

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Toni Gonzaga has done it again, another interview that melted my heart and made me write this article. I am referring to the interview with Zeinab which she posted on her YouTube channel.

I have watched Zeinab Harake’s vlogs before, it was way before she met the father of her daughter. She was a bubbly girl and although I like her personality, I have stopped watching her videos for personal reasons.

But I have seen a lot of comments about her love life on how she had split up with this Ex Battalion singer and said foul words about him but after a few months, they were back again.

Then a day ago, I saw that Toni Gonzaga posted this interview that I decided to watch it and I didn’t expect to cry a river while watching the video, I cried many many times, I can’t remember how many times I tried to wipe away the tears in my eyes not because I was watching a teleserye but I was asking God to give her a counselor, I was praying that she’ll have a personal encounter with Jesus after all the things that she had gone through.

Let me tell you guys, if you don’t want to get angry with the father of her daughter, don’t watch the video but if you want to know the context, you may watch it with your own discretion.

I don’t want to really judge the guy, after all, we all are flawed and sinners. I just want to point out that no woman deserves what she went through.

The highlight of the video was when she told Toni G. that the guy decided to cheat because of how her body had changed and her reason was that she choose to be a wife, a mother, and that’s why she look like that.

What she was pointing out was how her body had changed after giving birth. If you are a mother, you’d know what she meant. Growing a baby in our belly for nine months, getting all those pregnancy fats, and even after giving birth, of the needed calories for breastfeeding and all.

It is undeniably true that a woman’s body will surely change, it will expand, the breasts will engorge and this results to so many stretch marks, the tummy getting flabby and all.

She didn’t  want that to happen to her body, of course, she didn’t intentionally make it that way, it was not her choice, it’s just that it happens spontaneously and giving birth, there are so many things going on in a mother’s brain, the hormone changes and several emotional baggage in the mother.

I am sorry she fell in love with a guy who is only looking at the body and no love at all even after having a family. Real love as what the cliche says will accept despite of anything. Zeinab wanted hard to really fix their family but it is just right for her to stop fighting when there’s no point in fighting anymore.

She fought it all out and I don’t want to even talk about how she lost their second child due to all the stress she had to go through. 

Watching her during the interview makes me want to hug her. She was strong in fact but she said she has no other option but be strong for herself and her baby girl.


What I learn from her is that it isn't bad to forgive someone and give him second chances just as she did.

But there's a bigger reason why she had to experience this, we may not see it right now, but sooner or later, we will see the silver lining.

She might have developed this pain in her heart that she plans to keep to make her numb but surely, God has a reason. Perhaps in the future, she'll meet someone who'll give her the appreciation, the admiration that every woman deserves. That after all that had happened, she'll be happy with someone who'll never leave her, someone who'll accept her and love her wholeheartedly.

No woman deserves to be cheated, and it goes the other way around as well, we all wanted to be loved because it is love that had made us. I pray for her healing.


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It is incredible how much a human being can suffer because of others. I don't know if this has to do with self-esteem, lack of decision making. Maybe destiny has something wonderful in store for you and you will be able to know true love.

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2 years ago

Hopefully for Zeinab...

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2 years ago

Dili ko katuo na martyr si zeinab anang skusta kung buot huna-hunaon makakita pa siyag daghan laki tungod kay gwapa siya ug kwartahan. Grabe ka sayang @Momentswithmatti

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2 years ago

Mao bitaw ay.. in love jud tawn siya..pero nakaamgo na sya hopefully ma okay ra sya soon

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2 years ago

Wala pa nako na kita na nga interview pero kato palang pagkawala ni moon as in naghilak pud ko ato kay di biya lalim unya gi bash pa xia kay lage kuno dili kano sa singer ang iyahang baby nga gidala...

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2 years ago

Mao bah naa d ay ana na issue momsh? Wala ko sure pero based sa interview..kay skusta man jud daw ang baby

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2 years ago

Grabe talaga siya yung hindi talaga siya nakontento kung anong meron siya pero for sure magsisisi din naman yan sa uli na sinayang niya yung gold.

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2 years ago

True un nalang ang consolation natin na in the end, magsisisi din yung nagbigay ng sakit kay zeinab

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2 years ago

Oo ate, nasa huli amg pagsisisi.

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2 years ago

hintayin nalng niya

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2 years ago

Inang yan! Ang babaw ng rason nya ywa sya! Oops sorry 😐. Napanood ko yan kasi diko tinapos. Baka mangggigil ako ng malala madams my gawddd. Sana naman wala ng chance na ibigay pa si girl. Alam mo naman yung nagmamahal minsan diba. Sana di mangyari.

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2 years ago

Hayz di natin mprepredict ang future madam pero sana isipin nya muna healing sa sarili niya

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2 years ago

Everything will conme to pass sis. Ilang buwan o taon lang makaka move on na yan sya. Ang gusto ko lang sa kanya eh ang di nya pag give up para sa anak nya. I hope she will get better psychologically

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2 years ago

anya eh ang di nya pag gi

yes sis.. psychologically, she is struggling... gikan panganak then nabuntis naglabor pa jd ug 16 hours.. then patay ang baby

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2 years ago

The audacity of Skusta Clee to treat her like that. No woman deserves to be treated like a trash just because he knows the girl is head over heels with him, he can hurt her like she has no heart at all. Zeinab had it enough. I wished her peace of mind and happiness because like all of us, she deserves genuine happiness.

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2 years ago

it enough. I wished her peace of mind and happiness because like all of us, she deserves genuine happines

true sis... it's sad that there are men who are like that... it is a wake up call and Zeinab should now focus on herself and her baby

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2 years ago

Napanood ko po yung video na yan and sobrang iyak din ako. Grabe pala talaga, sometimes love is not enough para magstay ang taong mahal mo. Pero buti na lang talaga ngayon she decided to break up with him, di niya deserve ganung lalaki

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2 years ago

nough para mag

tama sis... it's good na narealize nya na it's time to let go... it was not worth it.

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2 years ago

I watched the video yesterday and I can feel the hurt on what zeinab is going through right now. I hope she will remain strong, for herself and her daughter.

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2 years ago

i do hope she'll get the right support talaga from friends and family na close sa knya.. we hope for her recovery too from the loss of her 2nd baby

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2 years ago

I feel immemsely sad for zeinab. I can feel or agony. Don't want to judge but I really want to choke Skustaa to death HHahah. Just kidding. He doesn't deserve Zeinab. Kapal ng mukha niyang lokohin si Zeinab kala mo naman tlaga. Hay nako. Nanggigil ako.

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2 years ago

as in sis.. nakakagigil noh? pero iyak talaga ako kasi na feel ko ung stress niya.. ako nga eh after manganak iyak ako ng iyak eh while anjan si hubby.. iba't ibang emotions kasi ang naglalaro sa isip at dibdib ng bagong panganak..hayz.. how muhc more sa kanya..may baby pa. nabuntis pa.. huhu

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2 years ago

Naku, mag antay ka skusta babalikan ka ng mga basher mo! Hahahaha.

Zeinab is so beautiful, hindi niya deserve yung guy na yun pero atleast ngayon malinaw na lahat. Nung unang naghiwalay sila okay na akala ko hindi na sila magkakabalikan kaya noong nakita ko naging sila ulit haaay ayoko talaga kay skusta para sakanya. Honestly. Haha pero she's strong girl talaga.

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2 years ago

yes for sure may balik yan sa kanya...

kahit sinong babae talaga hindi yan deserve...

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2 years ago

Nalipay rapod ko nakamata ug nakaamgo na sija maamsh. Maajo ra na brave sija to choose and save herself. Puhon maka move on ra na sija for sure.

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2 years ago

bitaw sis uy.. may ra sad.. cheating is one basis man sad for separation... it's emotionally and physically killing her jd ay..may ra sad jd iya na gigive up

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2 years ago

Zeinab endures a lot in the relationship she had with that man. I'm sure that man didn't realized that getting a girl isn't about her body. Building a family is not easy, but it will be more difficult if one of you chose to see your partner's body over her inside.

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2 years ago

i guess he stays only for his own gain... he doesn't want responsibility

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2 years ago

Hi sis, pareho tayo ng topic,hehe now ko lang na publish,hindi ko napansin yong sayo.Relate talaga tayo dito kasi mga babae tayo,hindi madali maging babae.

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2 years ago

True sis..check ko yung article mo..sakit no?

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2 years ago

Totoo isa yan sa trend ngayun in FB, ako lalaki ako but what skusta did ay disagree ako, ganyan ba talaga ang mga pogi nang-iiwan nlng pag-pumangit nayung partner nila🙄 peru di namn pogi yun noh? Anywayss totoo nkakaawa si zienab mayb anak pa namn, for sure kung magpapatuloy yan may bata na lalaking walang ama.saklap

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2 years ago

Saklap talaga... Haha kahit gwapo or di gwapo.di nya dapat ginawa yun...

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2 years ago

I almost cried when I watched that ate. Grabe ang pinagdaanan ni Zeinab, sobrang nafefeel ko yung pain nya habang nag sa salita sya, she doesn't deserve to be hurt hays. And yes woman's body will change after giving birth, and our partner should be the one who support us and cheer us up instead of magcheat dahil nagbago itsura natin.

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2 years ago

Agree 💯 sis.. un nga sana dapat ginawa ni Daryl pero iba din siya eh...

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2 years ago

They say love will sometimes be out or "nowhere" to be found when you get married. Just like what our Holy book says, respect and honor your husband, love your wife as how Christ loves you. The reason why most relationships failed as per my observation is that the man doesn't even know Jesus Christ and the sacrificed He laid down for "her as His wife".

May they both found God in their hearts, cheating just because her body changed is a disgrace to her feminity, women should be viewed as the "Church" too, needs nourishment.

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2 years ago

ound God in their hearts, cheating just because her body changed is a disgrace to her feminity, women should be viewed as

i agree with you dear... based on your comment, I can see that you are a Christian...

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2 years ago